Get him back? (81)
Sade88: Yeah like you said I would give him the space to decide, and I would respect his decision. I so much believe in the saying of " if it is meant to be he comes to you. Also I personally like to be with a man that is " so much into me " I pray you meet the man of your dream very soon. I wish you a lot of happiness.
P.s. Please don't rush, you will meet the guy when it is the right time
P.s. Please don't rush, you will meet the guy when it is the right time
thank you your answer meant so much to me- it was just what I needed to hear
yes we must all be given space when we need it - and the fact that I do that will I hope speak well of me (at some time- with someone!)
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oh and never ever take back a cheater..... No exceptions.
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wils0n: hmmmm people cheat if relationship not working for them... the guy must not be happy in some way with the relationship.
i'm not saying the way he has gone about this the right way.
otherwise it makes no sense ?
i'm not saying the way he has gone about this the right way.
otherwise it makes no sense ?
quite right
I just think the reasons differ for men and women SOMETIMES
i do feel that men are prone to cheating just if the opportunity is there tho - even if the relationship he has otherwise is good
why? I have known men like this - therefore is a fear I have about a man
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slodrvr64: ohhhhhh........you are a hard woman!!
who do you mean?
if you meant me by that, nahhh I'm not a hard woman
but consequent in some cases and in that case, in any case
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wils0n: oh and never ever take back a cheater..... No exceptions.
not sure I agree here - again based on what I have seen w/ family/friends - not chronic cheaters of course - but the one who cheats once and then has immediate regret? sometimes he is so remorseful that he laerns well fro mthis lesson the hard way and becomes devoted
I have seen this
I would hate to assume that people cannot learn from their mistakes
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inkognito: who do you mean?
if you meant me by that, nahhh I'm not a hard woman
but consequent in some cases and in that case, in any case
meant that in a mild teasing manner for changing my probably to certainly. no offense intended. just that i still kick myself in the butt sometimes for what i did to that lovely young woman 30 some years ago.if you meant me by that, nahhh I'm not a hard woman
but consequent in some cases and in that case, in any case
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slodrvr64: meant that in a mild teasing manner for changing my probably to certainly. no offense intended. just that i still kick myself in the butt sometimes for what i did to that lovely young woman 30 some years ago.
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felixis99: this is a good point intrigued
can we help a man with that kind of self respect? if u love him - would you?
can we help a man with that kind of self respect? if u love him - would you?
When it comes to cheating, there's no second chances...if he loves me, he wouldn't cheat...if I love him, I give him no reason to cheat...if he breaks that trust, it's gone for good
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Sade88: Yeah like you said I would give him the space to decide, and I would respect his decision. I so much believe in the saying of " if it is meant to be he comes to you. Also I personally like to be with a man that is " so much into me " I pray you meet the man of your dream very soon. I wish you a lot of happiness.
P.s. Please don't rush, you will meet the guy when it is the right time
P.s. Please don't rush, you will meet the guy when it is the right time
really??? I'm sorry, that's not working for me
as I do have a quite high self esteem and for sure, I'm not just like a piece of meat, lying in a butchers counter where the guy can think about which piece of meat just fits him better
maybe the one of the left side?
or maybe the one of the right side is better? ...or maybe... let me have a look at the one which lies under the others
forget it
not with me 
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mastic55: Why fight for him, he did wrong, it's not the others girls fault....if you get with him put itching powder on his nuts and kick him out...
that's just it mastic his nuts were itch'n the first time
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felixis99: How do you get ur guy back once you find him cheating? Do you try or do you just pack it in?
and men, what should we do to get u back - should we fight for u? does that do any good?
and men, what should we do to get u back - should we fight for u? does that do any good?
Why would you want him back when you know he cheated on you?
Wouldn't he do it again?
If a man cheatd on me there would be
no forgiveness
I don't want to hear "it was only one time"
and I sure don't want to heat "it didn't mean anything"
The door would only open OUT if he cheated on me.
Sorry. This probably isn't what you want to hear, just my opinion and belief.
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inkognito: really???
I'm sorry, that's not working for me
as I do have a quite high self esteem and for sure, I'm not just like a piece of meat, lying in a butchers counter where the guy can think about which piece of meat just fits him better
maybe the one of the left side? or maybe the one of the right side is better?
...or maybe... let me have a look at the one which lies under the others
forget it not with me
I'm sorry, that's not working for me
as I do have a quite high self esteem and for sure, I'm not just like a piece of meat, lying in a butchers counter where the guy can think about which piece of meat just fits him better
maybe the one of the left side? or maybe the one of the right side is better?
...or maybe... let me have a look at the one which lies under the others
forget it not with me
ganz aber...doesn't mean that the side of meat he wants will be there when he decides
that's the risk he runs
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I know how you can get revenge Ms. felixis99 ! 
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knew a dirty dog once who slept around his wife got him back by allowing some seriously low life critters to do her
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slodrvr64: meant that in a mild teasing manner for changing my probably to certainly. no offense intended. just that i still kick myself in the butt sometimes for what i did to that lovely young woman 30 some years ago.
oh noooo, I'm sorry
must be a misunderstanding
I never took it as an offence
otherwise I hadn't replied
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Men will always be lustful of women other than their spouse/significant other.
The thing they need to practic is self control and choose the proper time to use those lustful thoughts
The thing they need to practic is self control and choose the proper time to use those lustful thoughts
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2intrigued: When it comes to cheating, there's no second chances...if he loves me, he wouldn't cheat...if I love him, I give him no reason to cheat...if he breaks that trust, it's gone for good
yes I think you are correct. It is one thing to notice a temptation and another thing entirely to act upon it.
If I reallt loved someone, I'd want no other (no not even Ben Affleck
) and qould expect the same....
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Snuggs09: Men will always be lustful of women other than their spouse/significant other.
The thing they need to practic is self control and choose the proper time to use those lustful thoughts
rghto!The thing they need to practic is self control and choose the proper time to use those lustful thoughts
I always said go to the bars and see whatever as long as u bring IT home to me!!
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SatelliteServer: knew a dirty dog once who slept around his wife got him back by allowing some seriously low life critters to do her
that's bizarre
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i'm not saying the way he has gone about this the right way.
otherwise it makes no sense ?