normalguy68OPWonthaggi, Victoria Australia1,829 posts
tonyxf: Norm, we need a new thread, with one fear at a time, seems most women on here have no fear of relationships or commitment, just a fear of what they put in their mouths.
I have a fear of licking, don't know what it tastes like
normalguy68OPWonthaggi, Victoria Australia1,829 posts
Toffeapple: A fear of it all falling apart, just because 'familiarity can breed contempt', and I have seen that happen..... And I just hope I am not the one who is guilty! I hope it NEVER happens! please.... Think positive, think positive. I want to grow old with him and comfortable and very very happy.
Just be happy in yourself and if it does, you will still be happy, upset, but happy inside. ie: do what makes you happy, don't always be selfless
WysteriousPerth, Western Australia Australia1,707 posts
normalguy68: Just be happy in yourself and if it does, you will still be happy, upset, but happy inside. ie: do what makes you happy, don't always be selfless
I dont like being alone, but I dont fear it. Im used to doing things for myself, and having the proverbial buck stop with me. Sometimes it would be nice to share the load though.
WysteriousPerth, Western Australia Australia1,707 posts
Shell225: I dont like being alone, but I dont fear it. Im used to doing things for myself, and having the proverbial buck stop with me. Sometimes it would be nice to share the load though.
but does it worry you that maybe you might go through the rest of your life without someone to share the load?
Wysterious: but does it worry you that maybe you might go through the rest of your life without someone to share the load?
at times it does worry me, I see people who are in the most wonderful loving relationships, and I wonder if I will ever get to experience that long term.
I know that I am quite capable of dealing with lifes challenges on my own...I also wish that I didnt always have to.
I think its our motivation that guides our actions, good motivation good outcome. Thinking of self creates the rot, having a mind to benefit others is the path to lasting happiness
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