getting over it (46)
SusieJane: why is it so freekin hard to move on. ???
It IS sometimes ay.....
Tend to
or 
too much....Time.........tick tock tick tock Wish that clock would slow down tho.....
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Because you forgot to finish him off proppa
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wow thanks everyone for the humor and sincerity.
It helps to share
It helps to share
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I am still in denial and sometimes think (hope?) he will call and say he was wrong to end us and wants to try again. I know he won't, he was over me probably a month before he changed toward me .. . suddenly, or maybe I was in denial then and knew.
He was hard to talk to and would get defensive and impatient when I tried to bring stuff like that up so I avoided saying anything. So why do I even care, since he was hard to communicate with, I should do better. He was difficult to talk with.
He was hard to talk to and would get defensive and impatient when I tried to bring stuff like that up so I avoided saying anything. So why do I even care, since he was hard to communicate with, I should do better. He was difficult to talk with.
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Just about the time you're over them, that's when you hear from them again... 
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sasyecats: Just about the time you're over them, that's when you hear from them again...
O man aint that the truth
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The key to being able to move on is not to get too attached in the first place. Nothing last forever so save the grief while you are ahead. 
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SusieJane: why is it so freekin hard to move on. ???
The reason a lot of people cant move on is because they either cant accept its over, or the person who they fell in love with is not who that person really is..In other words we got duped when we first met him by the guys good act..Then later found out he wasnt so good, but still cling onto the idea of who they seemd to be in the beginning..The easiest way to move on is to remember the bad stuff and stop focusing on ideals of how they wish the other person was or whatever.------ This thread is Archived ------
midnight_angel_1: The key to being able to move on is not to get too attached in the first place. Nothing last forever so save the grief while you are ahead.
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In response to: why is it so freekin hard to move on. ???
i hear your pain sister!
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I decided to move on, and look where I ended up. 
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Swissblueeyes: The reason a lot of people cant move on is because they either cant accept its over, or the person who they fell in love with is not who that person really is..In other words we got duped when we first met him by the guys good act..Then later found out he wasnt so good, but still cling onto the idea of who they seemd to be in the beginning..The easiest way to move on is to remember the bad stuff and stop focusing on ideals of how they wish the other person was or whatever.
Absolutely Swiss, took the words out of my mouth
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it's hard to move on, because you need your own emotions healed and resolved before you even can think of moving on.
you need to create a new mindset, free from all toxic thoughts and that takes time.
it will heal eventually, but it will never go away.
you need to create a new mindset, free from all toxic thoughts and that takes time.
it will heal eventually, but it will never go away.
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SusieJane: why is it so freekin hard to move on. ???
For some it is for some it isn't. I think many romanticize their relationship to make it out to be magical and something better than it was. Obviously someone in the relationship didn't think it was so magical.
I think moving on can be hard but you have to be realistic. If it was so great for both, then you'd still be together.
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Hi there;
Healing takes as long as you want it to take. This is how I would do it. I would have power over my mind, I would not let my mind to control me by bringing old memories. The moment I start to think about how good or how bad it was, I shout it out but simply changing the direction of my mind to something else. I tell myself, " you never drive looking backward, why do you live looking backward" ? what happened in the past is in the past, I am sure the whole thing happened for a reason, now let's learn from it and move on. I keep busy, do something new that I have never done before. Just remember as Eckhart Tolle says : the more you think about these negative experiences the more you will bring the same into your life. You want to bring something happy into your life just start to think about it and imagine it, as if it is already there. Also one of the thing I immediately do once I have a foggy mood, I go to youtube and listen to Dr. Way Dyer. He is great. Whenever you are thinking about something, ask yourself is this thought making me happy? if not through it out like a piece of garbage. Good luck
Healing takes as long as you want it to take. This is how I would do it. I would have power over my mind, I would not let my mind to control me by bringing old memories. The moment I start to think about how good or how bad it was, I shout it out but simply changing the direction of my mind to something else. I tell myself, " you never drive looking backward, why do you live looking backward" ? what happened in the past is in the past, I am sure the whole thing happened for a reason, now let's learn from it and move on. I keep busy, do something new that I have never done before. Just remember as Eckhart Tolle says : the more you think about these negative experiences the more you will bring the same into your life. You want to bring something happy into your life just start to think about it and imagine it, as if it is already there. Also one of the thing I immediately do once I have a foggy mood, I go to youtube and listen to Dr. Way Dyer. He is great. Whenever you are thinking about something, ask yourself is this thought making me happy? if not through it out like a piece of garbage. Good luck
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