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May 15, 2011 3:54 PM CST Chat or serious???
almera03: Personally I feel far to many join the site too bitter, too scarred or expecting too much, having had bad experiences out in the big bad real world.

Of course it doesn't help that CS don't provide free flights...
Perhaps no free flights, but plenty of free fights. Real knock down, drag outs!
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May 15, 2011 3:58 PM CST Chat or serious???
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Kaybee50: Perhaps no free flights, but plenty of free fights. Real knock down, drag outs!
That's the problem with too many ego's in the same room all wanting the attention.

I'm happy to get my hands on someone but in a much gentler way
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May 15, 2011 4:01 PM CST Chat or serious???
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
almera03: Personally I feel far to many join the site too bitter, too scarred or expecting too much, having had bad experiences out in the big bad real world.

Of course it doesn't help that CS don't provide free flights...



Free flights, now that sounds good to me....a trip to Rhode Island daydream applause
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May 15, 2011 4:18 PM CST Chat or serious???
serrambi
serrambiserrambisantos, Sao Paulo Brazil5 Threads 303 Posts
In response to: Hi there, I have been on here for best part of 19 months and to be honest have to say that this site allthough great should really be called "Connecting Friends". I have made some great friends from different parts of the world and can say this is a great way to meet friends, but... have to say that guys on here are really more interested in chatting and sampling the sweetie jars!. Girls, whats your opinion on this???


I agree with you, and this why I did my thread today !
Guys only want to chat here, to read foruns, nothing about dating or have a serious relationships !!
Am wondering why...

handshake wave
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May 15, 2011 4:23 PM CST Chat or serious???
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
serrambi: I agree with you, and this why I did my thread today !
Guys only want to chat here, to read foruns, nothing about dating or have a serious relationships !!
Am wondering why...
I'm not sure its correct to blame one gender, if we done a head count it would be split down the middle.

Something that does stand out is people are too scared to innitiate first contact
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May 15, 2011 4:26 PM CST Chat or serious???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
serrambi: I agree with you, and this why I did my thread today !
Guys only want to chat here, to read foruns, nothing about dating or have a serious relationships !!
Am wondering why...


Thats not true lovey Ive been asked out many times and Ive gone out on several dates with men from this site. hug
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May 15, 2011 4:27 PM CST Chat or serious???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
almera03: I'm not sure its correct to blame one gender, if we done a head count it would be split down the middle.

Something that does stand out is people are too scared to innitiate first contact



O Poo and fiddlesticks!! talk to hand If Im interested in a fellow I contact them...Carpe Diem Baby!! yay
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May 15, 2011 4:28 PM CST Chat or serious???
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
serrambi: I agree with you, and this why I did my thread today !
Guys only want to chat here, to read foruns, nothing about dating or have a serious relationships !!
Am wondering why...


Hi there, think most are thinking of past hurts and cant move forward, shame, if we all felt that way no one would ever get with anyone!!doh wave
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May 15, 2011 4:29 PM CST Chat or serious???
almera03: I'm not sure its correct to blame one gender, if we done a head count it would be split down the middle.

Something that does stand out is people are too scared to innitiate first contact
I don't find that to be the case. wine
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May 15, 2011 4:31 PM CST Chat or serious???
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
venusenvy: O Poo and fiddlesticks!! If Im interested in a fellow I contact them...Carpe Diem Baby!!
Well whoopy doo

I stand corrected, lets say a percentage don't doh rolling on the floor laughing
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May 15, 2011 4:32 PM CST Chat or serious???
I have been for a date with a wonderful woman from here and I had barely been here for long... problem was going to be the distance... not helped for me by an old injury recurring... thankfully we are still friends... and if it can happen for someone like me it can happen to anyone... and as nowadays why should it be the man making the move all the time ?
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May 15, 2011 4:33 PM CST Chat or serious???
Slarti: I have been for a date with a wonderful woman from here and I had barely been here for long... problem was going to be the distance... not helped for me by an old injury recurring... thankfully we are still friends... and if it can happen for someone like me it can happen to anyone... and as nowadays why should it be the man making the move all the time ?
Distance is definitely one the challenges on this site.
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May 15, 2011 4:34 PM CST Chat or serious???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
almera03: Well whoopy doo

I stand corrected, lets say a percentage don't


I actually learned that right on this site...I ran a thread about a year ago asking men if they like it when women make the first move...I was surprised by how many said they did. Sooo since that time Ive made first contact yay
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May 15, 2011 4:35 PM CST Chat or serious???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Kaybee50: Distance is definitely one the challenges on this site.



This is very true...Geography sucks rox mumbling blues
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May 15, 2011 4:36 PM CST Chat or serious???
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
venusenvy: I actually learned that right on this site...I ran a thread about a year ago asking men if they like it when women make the first move...I was surprised by how many said they did. Sooo since that time Ive made first contact
confused Why was that a surprise
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May 15, 2011 4:36 PM CST Chat or serious???
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
venusenvy: I actually learned that right on this site...I ran a thread about a year ago asking men if they like it when women make the first move...I was surprised by how many said they did. Sooo since that time Ive made first contact




wave


I have no problem making first contact either, getting a response,,well thats a different story laugh
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May 15, 2011 4:37 PM CST Chat or serious???
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
moping
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May 15, 2011 4:37 PM CST Chat or serious???
venusenvy: This is very true...Geography sucks rox


Yes it does... teddybear
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May 15, 2011 4:37 PM CST Chat or serious???
teddybear
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May 15, 2011 4:39 PM CST Chat or serious???
rileymax07
rileymax07rileymax07Somewhere close to the Rockies, Colorado USA77 Posts
almera03: .

Of course it doesn't help that CS don't provide free flights...


Hey, now that's a good idea... free flights for everyone!!!
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