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May 28, 2011 1:58 PM CST Cool Guy
What makes a cool guy? Ladies any idea/suggestion!
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May 28, 2011 2:01 PM CST Cool Guy
stringman
stringmanstringmanwallaceburg, Ontario Canada649 Threads 1 Polls 7,049 Posts
keeping him on ice
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May 28, 2011 2:12 PM CST Cool Guy
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
ZAKER: What makes a cool guy? Ladies any idea/suggestion!


IMO it's one who doesn't fit in the box of society, religious and family's expectations. A guy who is their own person, not in a reactive rebel way, but in a peaceful "I am me and I like myself" way.

THAT is the coolest guy!!! smitten
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May 28, 2011 2:17 PM CST Cool Guy
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
ZAKER: What makes a cool guy? Ladies any idea/suggestion!



If you have to ask, you're not one of them.
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May 28, 2011 2:18 PM CST Cool Guy
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
EagleWoman: IMO it's one who doesn't fit in the box of society, religious and family's expectations. A guy who is their own person, not in a reactive rebel way, but in a peaceful "I am me and I like myself" way.

THAT is the coolest guy!!!



Exactly. A real man is secure enough in his masculinity to be who he is without worrying about being judged by others.
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May 28, 2011 2:21 PM CST Cool Guy
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
cool guys are hot..laugh
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May 28, 2011 2:22 PM CST Cool Guy
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
PandoraX: Exactly. A real man is secure enough in his masculinity to be who he is without worrying about being judged by others.


thanks for describing me so welllips
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May 28, 2011 2:22 PM CST Cool Guy
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
cherrybrandy: cool guys are hot..


in wot way?confused
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May 28, 2011 2:25 PM CST Cool Guy
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
PandoraX: Exactly. A real man is secure enough in his masculinity personality to be who he is without worrying about being judged by others.


giggle
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May 28, 2011 2:26 PM CST Cool Guy
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
PandoraX: Exactly. A real man is secure enough in his masculinity personality to be who he is without worrying about being judged by others.


oops!! I meant to cross it off

laugh
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May 28, 2011 2:28 PM CST Cool Guy
Sterling_Wollops
Sterling_WollopsSterling_WollopsMelburn't, Victoria Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,749 Posts
This should help;



tongue
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May 28, 2011 2:28 PM CST Cool Guy
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Ladefoss23: thanks for describing me so well


A real man doesn't need to prove a point by taking cheap shots at others comfort
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May 28, 2011 2:30 PM CST Cool Guy
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
EagleWoman: oops!! I meant to cross it off



Yeah but if you use the word "masculinity", the argument sells better to male skeptics.

I used this argument at an expat beach function talking about a guy who asked about a Rosé Beer at a bar, and after being told it was a woman's drink, decided to try it anyway because he wanted to. beer
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May 28, 2011 2:31 PM CST Cool Guy
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
EagleWoman: A real man doesn't need to prove a point by taking cheap shots at others


a cool man doesn't listen to cheap shots other cheapies throw at himpeace tongue
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May 28, 2011 2:31 PM CST Cool Guy
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
The "real man" phrase, makes me laugh

so called real men figures from the past

John Wayne.....how many times did he slap down a woman in his films

and then there's Cary Grant, laugh
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May 28, 2011 2:33 PM CST Cool Guy
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
Yeah but if you use the word "masculinity", the argument sells better to male skeptics.


you don't have to sell the arguement, a cool guy like me, understands an intelligent girl like ulips
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May 28, 2011 2:34 PM CST Cool Guy
Sterling_Wollops
Sterling_WollopsSterling_WollopsMelburn't, Victoria Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,749 Posts
Yeah real men are only in drama flicks on TV batting
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May 28, 2011 2:34 PM CST Cool Guy
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
almera03: The "real man" phrase, makes me laugh

so called real men figures from the past

John Wayne.....how many times did he slap down a woman in his films

and then there's Cary Grant,



I choose my language deliberately, and my definition is not the same you are referring to. Which makes my argument all the more powerful. professor
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May 28, 2011 2:34 PM CST Cool Guy
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
almera03: The "real man" phrase, makes me laugh

so called real men figures from the past

John Wayne.....how many times did he slap down a woman in his films

and then there's Cary Grant,
laugh what about the "real woman"?
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May 28, 2011 2:34 PM CST Cool Guy
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
Ladefoss23: Yeah but if you use the word "masculinity", the argument sells better to male skeptics. you don't have to sell the arguement, a cool guy like me, understands an intelligent girl like u


eagy is jelous i guesswink
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