Sooo what now? (35)
SereneGreenWexford, Ireland190 Threads 5 Polls 2,899 PostsSent a text last night after date to him saying thanks for a nice time and there's been some texts today re the rugby and soccer matches so I do know we will most likely meet up again. I just wasnt sure if its down to me to arrange/suggest the next date considering he asked me the first time.........
I'll probably say something if he doesn't mention it by Monday so I can arrange a babysitter if need be 
I'll probably say something if he doesn't mention it by Monday so I can arrange a babysitter if need be Envy51: No........ i would not think it was over analysing the sittuation............ if it was agreed which is what i took from the post that they were on for meeting again then who contacted who is no biggie.......... but if it was just a casual mention then it depends on how outgoing the person is ...........but that is just IMO
Sure if we all thought the same way how boring things would be lol.
Glatlol: Sure if we all thought the same way how boring things would be lol.
I would not call it boring... we are all made different and we opperate at different levels. What might be a pinch of salt to you or i might be a big deal to another person............. that does not make a person boring, just different .... but i can see where you are coming from
It's hard enough to get a first date on here, let alone be fortunate enough to worry about a second date,,,,
SereneGreen: Sent a text last night after date to him saying thanks for a nice time and there's been some texts today re the rugby and soccer matches so I do know we will most likely meet up again. I just wasnt sure if its down to me to arrange/suggest the next date considering he asked me the first time......... I'll probably say something if he doesn't mention it by Monday so I can arrange a babysitter if need be
Maybe leave it a few day and see what happens....
If no second date is mentioned, bring it up yourself...
Rockabillyrouge: It's hard enough to get a first date on here, let alone be fortunate enough to worry about a second date,,,,
Yeah, for christ's sake just txt him!
Rockabillyrouge: It's hard enough to get a first date on here, let alone be fortunate enough to worry about a second date,,,,
SereneGreen: Sent a text last night after date to him saying thanks for a nice time and there's been some texts today re the rugby and soccer matches so I do know we will most likely meet up again. I just wasnt sure if its down to me to arrange/suggest the next date considering he asked me the first time......... I'll probably say something if he doesn't mention it by Monday so I can arrange a babysitter if need be
well he likes you otherwise the suggestion would never have been made lucky you
I do hate the first while as its always a little uncertain keep us posted! Good luckcraized: well he likes you otherwise the suggestion would never have been made lucky you I do hate the first while as its always a little uncertain keep us posted! Good luck
Problem solved 
He asked if i wanted to do something again together so looks like the cinema and bag o chips is on the cards .........craized: well he likes you otherwise the suggestion would never have been made lucky you I do hate the first while as its always a little uncertain keep us posted! Good luck
Is that yourself on the fb?? How did the meeting thingy go with the lovely sounding man?? lolSorry B for the lil
SereneGreen: Problem solved He asked if i wanted to do something again together so looks like the cinema and bag o chips is on the cards .........
Happy days ...........
SereneGreen: So you meet up......have a good first date, at the end of it there's talk of wanting to meet up again on both sides. What I want to know is who intiates the second date then??
Opinions on a postcard to...........
i think it could be any of you i do question at times the rituals in dating i sometimes think we limit ourselves to much by them Opinions on a postcard to...........
do what ever makes you feel comfortable
scarwolve: i think it could be any of you i do question at times the rituals in dating i sometimes think we limit ourselves to much by them
do what ever makes you feel comfortable
If only everyone was as straight up and open minded as you.........you never know if you are coming across as too eager if that makes any sense....im just not an extreemly patient person I know if I want something and I usually have no issues in asking for it......just this time I hesistated for some strange reason do what ever makes you feel comfortable
Go figureSereneGreen: If only everyone was as straight up and open minded as you.........you never know if you are coming across as too eager if that makes any sense....im just not an extreemly patient person I know if I want something and I usually have no issues in asking for it......just this time I hesistated for some strange reason Go figure
I'm exactly the same, I like straight talking people, say what you're thinking, even if I won't like it.
But what I'm wondering is, do guys get scared by straight talking women? Would they rather we be coy and let them show the initiative
SereneGreen: If only everyone was as straight up and open minded as you.........you never know if you are coming across as too eager if that makes any sense....im just not an extreemly patient person I know if I want something and I usually have no issues in asking for it......just this time I hesistated for some strange reason Go figure
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