Who Ends The Relationship?? (12)

Oct 15, 2006 8:59 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Just curious as to people's opinions as to who...men or women...end a relationship...

My personal observation is that men have a hard time doing this, and rather what they do is give the women they are with reason to break off the relationship....

Any comments??dunno
Oct 15, 2006 9:10 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
Yes that is my experience too. It is just kinda left to die, the relationship.... Less time, less messages and then nothing. No time for "deep" conversations. So you really are left hanging to kinda figure it out for yourself. And you don't really have to be a genius to figure it out....mumbling
Oct 15, 2006 9:17 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
Yes ending a relationship would nto be easy for me. But then again i am not "experienced" in this.

i think in general men have trouble expressing their feelings. No man wants to see a woman cry, at least i dont. Some simply dont know how to deal with that. Just my thoughts!
Oct 15, 2006 9:18 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Thats the point i'm trying to make Ange...

They "give" the women reason to break it off...so they don't have to do it!!

Not being available, whether physically or emotionally is always the number one they use...or at least that has been my experience with it...after that may be the "hanging out" with friends (and other women) at gatherings where you are not invited...things like that..
Oct 15, 2006 9:21 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
I don't think it has to do with experience but with honesty and i think a lot of people have a harder time with that than they admit.
I rather hear the truth than some BS excuse/reason. It is not fair and there are unanswered questions that way....sigh
Oct 15, 2006 9:23 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
If you've read Shy's post above this one...you will see Puck that in the man's attempt to not see us cry...what he's doing is actually hurting us more that a few tears would have...dunno sigh
Oct 15, 2006 9:27 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
ya i understand that and can relate too it. Coz then the woman sits, stews and analyzes things i think??
Oct 15, 2006 9:29 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
And then they want to call us "emotional creatures" with "issues" and "baggage"....rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 15, 2006 9:32 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing

hey, i ponder, think and analzye too...i guess my bag is big too. confused
Oct 16, 2006 10:45 AM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Don't fret...lots of women like ummm..."big bags"...blushing
Oct 16, 2006 3:38 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
battlebanshee
battlebansheebattlebansheeWest Melbourne, USA3 Threads 107 Posts
new experience is the man just totally ignores ya...but the curb will hit him hard someday LOL

his loss, not mine
Oct 16, 2006 7:32 PM CST Who Ends The Relationship??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
but once again its the man "dodging" his part in the relationship...

Is there any other different opinion out there?
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