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Jun 10, 2011 8:21 AM CST friendship
Is it true that you dont want to talk to friends
when you get upset or sad ?
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Jun 10, 2011 8:23 AM CST friendship
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
ali110: Is it true that you dont want to talk to friends
when you get upset or sad ?


No my best friend would be the first person I would want to talk to and be comfort by.comfort hug
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Jun 10, 2011 8:25 AM CST friendship
curly28: No my best friend would be the first person I would want to talk to and be comfort by.
me too .A friend is Good to share but unfortunatly some peoples dont have same thinking wine hug
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Jun 10, 2011 8:25 AM CST friendship
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
ali110: Is it true that you dont want to talk to friends
when you get upset or sad ?


Not true for me.If I'm upset or sad about something I like to have someone I can talk to and vent.

Does me more harm then good to hold it in.
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Jun 10, 2011 8:26 AM CST friendship
Ccincy: Not true for me.If I'm upset or sad about something I like to have someone I can talk to and vent.

Does me more harm then good to hold it in.
wine hug
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Jun 10, 2011 8:34 AM CST friendship
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
yes ali....i once trust my bestfriend but she backbite me,,so sad and hurtfulcrying
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Jun 10, 2011 8:37 AM CST friendship
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
No,say nothing to anyone.My problem,i will deal with it.
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Jun 10, 2011 8:39 AM CST friendship
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
time4fun4u: No,say nothing to anyone.My problem,i will deal with it.
hey how was ur ridewave
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Jun 10, 2011 8:42 AM CST friendship
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
chococherrie: hey how was ur ride
wave It was great thankyou.I will pick you up next time,and we will go for a ride.hug
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Jun 10, 2011 8:43 AM CST friendship
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
time4fun4u: It was great thankyou.I will pick you up next time,and we will go for a ride.
aw tx i will wear my shortest skirtyay
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Jun 10, 2011 8:46 AM CST friendship
Annoying
AnnoyingAnnoyingSaigon, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam5 Threads 847 Posts
When I'm sad, I dontt want to talk much, I just want a big hug...or many big hugs
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Jun 10, 2011 8:47 AM CST friendship
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
I just dress up and go ballistic!rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 10, 2011 8:47 AM CST friendship
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
chococherrie: aw tx i will wear my shortest skirt
grin peace
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Jun 10, 2011 8:50 AM CST friendship
eurolady
euroladyeuroladyFredericton, New Brunswick Canada1 Threads 228 Posts
It depends...usually I want to talk to friends.confused
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Jun 10, 2011 9:12 AM CST friendship
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
Hmmmmmm! Funny you should use this topic Ali

Everyone is different and has very different experiences

If you had asked me a few years ago I would have said I would want to talk to my friends

Now its different. Ive been let down badly by close family and that makes me more cautious about opening up my feelings to anyone. Then you get used to dealing with things on your own and you DO NOT want to burden anyone else with your problems..

I hope you don't judge because everyone else apart from TFF said that would want to talk to friends.. We all have different lives and different experiences..

I know my way is not the right way, its just the only way I know
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Jun 10, 2011 9:15 AM CST friendship
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
SummerUK: Hmmmmmm! Funny you should use this topic Ali

Everyone is different and has very different experiences

If you had asked me a few years ago I would have said I would want to talk to my friends

Now its different. Ive been let down badly by close family and that makes me more cautious about opening up my feelings to anyone. Then you get used to dealing with things on your own and you DO NOT want to burden anyone else with your problems..

I hope you don't judge because everyone else apart from TFF said that would want to talk to friends.. We all have different lives and different experiences..

I know my way is not the right way, its just the only way I know
tip hat Your view is similiar to mine.It doesnt make me anti social as a person,i could be anti social without those views.It also doesnt mean i wont help someone or listen to them.
I just believe,and have always been the same,i am my own best friend.I know me,i understand me,and therefor i am the best one to deal with my problems.bouquet
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Jun 10, 2011 9:19 AM CST friendship
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
SummerUK: Hmmmmmm! Funny you should use this topic Ali

Everyone is different and has very different experiences

If you had asked me a few years ago I would have said I would want to talk to my friends

Now its different. Ive been let down badly by close family and that makes me more cautious about opening up my feelings to anyone. Then you get used to dealing with things on your own and you DO NOT want to burden anyone else with your problems..

I hope you don't judge because everyone else apart from TFF said that would want to talk to friends.. We all have different lives and different experiences..

I know my way is not the right way, its just the only way I know


Hi Summerwave

There is no right or wrong way in how we deal with our problems.I believe in the old adage "A trouble shared is a trouble halved" but some things in my life I would not want to burden my friends with.

I have a few friends since I was in junior school,still in touch but not as close as the ones made along the way. I am proud to say that my close friends would never back stab,that's why they ARE my friends.

Glad to see you have picked up from yesterday.hug
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Jun 10, 2011 9:21 AM CST friendship
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
time4fun4u: Your view is similiar to mine.It doesnt make me anti social as a person,i could be anti social without those views.It also doesnt mean i wont help someone or listen to them.
I just believe,and have always been the same,i am my own best friend.I know me,i understand me,and therefor i am the best one to deal with my problems.
Thank you.. At least I'm not looking like a freak now grin


Although we do it for different reasons its still the same outcome in the end hug
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Jun 10, 2011 9:21 AM CST friendship
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
SummerUK: Thank you.. At least I'm not looking like a freak now Although we do it for different reasons its still the same outcome in the end
hug bouquet
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Jun 10, 2011 9:26 AM CST friendship
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
bestbefore: Hi Summer

There is no right or wrong way in how we deal with our problems.I believe in the old adage "A trouble shared is a trouble halved" but some things in my life I would not want to burden my friends with.

I have a few friends since I was in junior school,still in touch but not as close as the ones made along the way. I am proud to say that my close friends would never back stab,that's why they ARE my friends.

Glad to see you have picked up from yesterday.
Hi lovely wave

I think its very healthy to share your problems.

I think its terribly unhealthy not to and to just bottle things up

I guess its just something you get used to doing and its difficult to break the cycle.

Theres nothing I'd like more than to have some big strong shoulders to cry on and blurt out all my fears.. just can't seem to to it dunno

Anyway I look sooooooo ugly when I cry.. big puffy red eyes etc haha!!!

I have a friend from nursery too and other lovely friends but they just see me smile .... mad innit??? laugh
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