Ideal Date ? (56)
Green_Sleeves: I've always found that a simple 'hey lets just meet up, have a walk, chat, get a bite to eat' works best, just meet up as 'friends' and not as potential partners or love interests, thus no pressure really. If we get on, we get on, if we dont, we dont, simple as, conversing via email/text is VERY different to in person!
Simple simple!
i like your thinking of agreeing to meet up as friends and see what happensSimple simple!
gingernail: ive done a skydive so i wanna go parasailing or a bungee jump now and done the skydive alone (well with the diver also) but would love to something adrenaline run with someone as my mates wont
iv done one too and would do another in a heart beat just cant do the whole bouncing thing with a bungee sure i cant even go on a roller coaster without getting sick 
salanky: iv done one too and would do another in a heart beat just cant do the whole bouncing thing with a bungee sure i cant even go on a roller coaster without getting sick
yeah i see your point but cant knock it till ya try it
wexlady41: I would love a date at a funfair!
I've no idea why. Just something I think would be fun. And it's hard to be stressed out and/or shy when you're laughing your head off in the waltzers.
I've no idea why. Just something I think would be fun. And it's hard to be stressed out and/or shy when you're laughing your head off in the waltzers.
Great idea!!!
gingernail: yeah i see your point but cant knock it till ya try it
normally id agree but when it involves bouncing up and down with some elastic round my ankles id rather knock it before trying it 
irish84: i like your thinking of agreeing to meet up as friends and see what happens
I'll put my head on the block here and say that meeting up, for the first time, with romantic notions in mind is crazy! As I'm sure you may know virtual and 'real' life are two very different things, you really dont know someone (no matter how many e-mails/texts/whatever you swapped) no matter how much you may think you do. Meeting up simply as a 'lets just put a face to a name, have a chat, whatever' sorta thing really means you have nothing to lose! Its only at that point that you discover who the person is and if you click, get on, feel there is potential then thats super, but anything up to that point really is fantasy.
Green_Sleeves: I'll put my head on the block here and say that meeting up, for the first time, with romantic notions in mind is crazy! As I'm sure you may know virtual and 'real' life are two very different things, you really dont know someone (no matter how many e-mails/texts/whatever you swapped) no matter how much you may think you do. Meeting up simply as a 'lets just put a face to a name, have a chat, whatever' sorta thing really means you have nothing to lose! Its only at that point that you discover who the person is and if you click, get on, feel there is potential then thats super, but anything up to that point really is fantasy.
no putting the head on the block your bang on with that 
salanky: normally id agree but when it involves bouncing up and down with some elastic round my ankles id rather knock it before trying it
ill let ya know how i get on
gingernail: ill let ya know how i get on
your a braver woman than me salanky: your a braver woman than me
i can do one in galway for 40euro woooooooo
Green_Sleeves: I'll put my head on the block here and say that meeting up, for the first time, with romantic notions in mind is crazy! As I'm sure you may know virtual and 'real' life are two very different things, you really dont know someone (no matter how many e-mails/texts/whatever you swapped) no matter how much you may think you do. Meeting up simply as a 'lets just put a face to a name, have a chat, whatever' sorta thing really means you have nothing to lose! Its only at that point that you discover who the person is and if you click, get on, feel there is potential then thats super, but anything up to that point really is fantasy.
i agree with youid rather have someone say lets meet as friends and talk instead of saying lets go for a date
one of the nicest dates we went bowling then back to a lovely restaurant for a lovely dinner followed by an even nicer sunday picnic in the park 
irish84: Ok we have a thread on what would you like your date to wear
But
What or where would be your ideal date?
where would you like to take him or her
But
What or where would be your ideal date?
where would you like to take him or her
I went to a place when i was younger with my family and i loved it,it was called glegariff and it was a nice seaside village.Id bring my date there and have a nice meal in one of the resteraunts and followed by a walk along the coastline cos i dont remember a beach.Then to round it up a little log fire and some marshmallows to roast.
irish84: ....id rather have someone say lets meet as friends and talk instead of saying lets go for a date
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ive done a skydive so i wanna go parasailing or a bungee jump now and done the skydive alone (well with the diver also) but would love to something adrenaline run with someone as my mates wont