Fallng in love should it be fast or slow (38)
jimbhoyHamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK80 Threads 2 Polls 4,142 PostsIt's as fast or as slow as you like like it, but either way we should enjoy the ride, unless they are really crap in bed
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I think someone forgot to drink her coffee this morning 
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I agree Cherie!
By the way your new pic is pretty
You better watch out woman or you'll be inciting a new rhapsodic portrait of yourself!
By the way your new pic is pretty
You better watch out woman or you'll be inciting a new rhapsodic portrait of yourself!
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and that was for that one woman that said I was talking to myself Um sorry I think your mistaken.
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I much enjoy your words of a rhapsodic portrait of moi.....
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Why put a time frame on it
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"OMG!"
Have to agree with ya there...
Have to agree with ya there...
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Thats what I am trying to tell people if love had a time on it it would not be love because love is not something that goes fast or slow and anyone who does believe it has a time to it don't know what real love is because real love falls instantally and don't ask for anything in return and its unconditional.
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I believe in falling in love, most assuredly.
But, first, if you don't mind, I'm going to have you ask you to fill out some forms. In triplicate. Sign here, here, here, here and ...oh, yes ... here.
Then take the forms and fold them neatly and place in a self-addressed, stamped, business-sized envelope, with a check or money order for $10 (non-refundable) payable to me (address shown below), and a statement informing me of your intent to be faithful and a promise to not break my heart.
Any deviation from these instructions will result in immediate forfeiture of your name from the list.
Any questions, please call 1 800 000-0000. Thank you, and have a pleasant evening.
But, first, if you don't mind, I'm going to have you ask you to fill out some forms. In triplicate. Sign here, here, here, here and ...oh, yes ... here.
Then take the forms and fold them neatly and place in a self-addressed, stamped, business-sized envelope, with a check or money order for $10 (non-refundable) payable to me (address shown below), and a statement informing me of your intent to be faithful and a promise to not break my heart.
Any deviation from these instructions will result in immediate forfeiture of your name from the list.
Any questions, please call 1 800 000-0000. Thank you, and have a pleasant evening.
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Totally agree with you. I was going to say as fast or as slow as your heart says it should be.
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It shouldn't be any faster or any slower than what is right for that couple. I recommend taking your time and not fall in love before you know how you REALLY feel.
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What ? 
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I did not question as you seem to have read. He said he had true love. If he had true love he would not be on multiple dating sites. I think he means he is capable of giving/having true love. Two different things.
I can see why someone That found true love here would have a tough time leaving. The forums are addicting. The other sites I have seen are lacking the closeness the members of this site has.
I can see why someone That found true love here would have a tough time leaving. The forums are addicting. The other sites I have seen are lacking the closeness the members of this site has.
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It is a pretty unique site...
Welcome!
Welcome!
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"Should" is possibily the most useless word in our language, it's feeble attempt at relevance is beautifully accentuated when it's used in conjunction with love.
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"The forums are addicting."
That explains allot
That explains allot
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Yes, there's always the problem with semantics. Everyone views life quite differently to be sure.
Maybe people talk about finding their true love. In that case the term "true love" is used to basically mean "soulmate".
I don't use it that way myself. I think of true love as something that resides in the heart. Some people have true love in their hearts and some don't. When two people who have true love in their hearts are attracted to each other then they can share their true love with each other. That is the fairytale that many would like to experience, and it certainly is quite possible to experience it in real life. Unfortunately, it's hard to find that situation too many factors have to come into play.
1. Both people have to have true love in their hearts
2. They both have to be attracted to each other
3. They both have to be free from other relationships at the same time.
4. They have to find each other.
Seems like it should be easy, but getting 4 things to happen simultaneously like that isn't as easy as it might seem. Especially when there are low probabilities for each one of those four things to occur in the first place. Getting 4 low-probability events to all occur at the same time is not easy.
On a dating sites we are supposedly eliminating #3 and making #4 a lot easier to do. But still dealing with just #1, and #2 at the same time are difficult enough.
Maybe people talk about finding their true love. In that case the term "true love" is used to basically mean "soulmate".
I don't use it that way myself. I think of true love as something that resides in the heart. Some people have true love in their hearts and some don't. When two people who have true love in their hearts are attracted to each other then they can share their true love with each other. That is the fairytale that many would like to experience, and it certainly is quite possible to experience it in real life. Unfortunately, it's hard to find that situation too many factors have to come into play.
1. Both people have to have true love in their hearts
2. They both have to be attracted to each other
3. They both have to be free from other relationships at the same time.
4. They have to find each other.
Seems like it should be easy, but getting 4 things to happen simultaneously like that isn't as easy as it might seem. Especially when there are low probabilities for each one of those four things to occur in the first place. Getting 4 low-probability events to all occur at the same time is not easy.
On a dating sites we are supposedly eliminating #3 and making #4 a lot easier to do. But still dealing with just #1, and #2 at the same time are difficult enough.
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