montecito: People, in general, put too many restrictions and demands on what a partner should be....... too much stress on themselves in looking for a partner. I've chosen the road to be perfectly content to live by myself. There are worse things then not having a man or woman in your life...
I don't believe I will ever meet someone who's right for me. I'm thankful I got out of a 12 year relationship and have got used to being on my own. I don't stress myself about being in a relationship. In my opinion relationships are overrated anyway. I've become wiser and pickier now.
Susanne66: That's my thought. Date a lot but it's never quite right! If it's not me it's him, married or just no chemistry. I'm feeling a bit hopeless actually.
May I suggest removing that phone from in front of your face? (Just curious what you look like.)
Susanne66: That's my thought. Date a lot but it's never quite right! If it's not me it's him, married or just no chemistry. I'm feeling a bit hopeless actually.
Heck no, I don't think that way. I actually rarely date, so its probably something that I should do more. I think we have the capacity to love, and although it can differ between relationships, I think that we are able to establish love connections with more than one possible person.
Susanne66: That's my thought. Date a lot but it's never quite right! If it's not me it's him, married or just no chemistry. I'm feeling a bit hopeless actually.
It's fun to keep trying. Much funner than forcing someone to marry you and then watching him slowly turn into a geezer.
I think we all feel that at times, especially when we're experiencing the demise of a relationship. I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone and if I don't find him then I'm content with my kids, friends and pooch.
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I am the right person to myself too