Should a secret be told (14)

Jul 25, 2011 4:53 AM CST Should a secret be told
lassie806
lassie806lassie806kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland84 Threads 486 Posts
If a friend a very close friend told you something private and confidential and knew you wouldnt go back and tell everyone .Would you keep it to yourself , theres three people who are asking me whats going on i keep saying nothing look everythings fine and if there was i would tell you.There not buying it .I for one dont tell secrets hug
Jul 25, 2011 5:01 AM CST Should a secret be told
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
lassie806: If a friend a very close friend told you something private and confidential and knew you wouldnt go back and tell everyone .Would you keep it to yourself , theres three people who are asking me whats going on i keep saying nothing look everythings fine and if there was i would tell you.There not buying it .I for one dont tell secrets


yes i would your friend has i trusted you so i wouldnt go around telling everybody.
Jul 25, 2011 5:02 AM CST Should a secret be told
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
biggles90000: yes i keep it a secret your friend has trusted you so i wouldnt go around telling everybody.
Jul 25, 2011 5:09 AM CST Should a secret be told
lassie806: If a friend a very close friend told you something private and confidential and knew you wouldnt go back and tell everyone .Would you keep it to yourself , theres three people who are asking me whats going on i keep saying nothing look everythings fine and if there was i would tell you.There not buying it .I for one dont tell secrets


I live by if someone tells me something private and confidential i take it to the grave with me.If they want others to know then its up to them to tell them !! Far too many people in todays world don't know how keep mouth shut JMO
Jul 25, 2011 5:09 AM CST Should a secret be told
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
lassie806: If a friend a very close friend told you something private and confidential and knew you wouldnt go back and tell everyone .Would you keep it to yourself , theres three people who are asking me whats going on i keep saying nothing look everythings fine and if there was i would tell you.There not buying it .I for one dont tell secrets


if you told someone a private thing would you want it told to others

its a secret so you dont tell no matter how much its eating you up
Jul 25, 2011 6:21 AM CST Should a secret be told
If you want to keep something secret never tell it to a woman!
Jul 25, 2011 7:00 AM CST Should a secret be told
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
snowlynx: If you want to keep something secret never tell it to a woman!
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
Jul 25, 2011 7:16 AM CST Should a secret be told
xxmissuniquexx
xxmissuniquexxxxmissuniquexxdublin, Dublin Ireland57 Threads 3 Polls 1,063 Posts
If you were told its a secret and your friend doesnt want you 2 tell anybody you keep it a secret. Why do you feel the need 2 even ask about it on here? The others are just being nosey, tell them nothing or you'll lose the friend whos secret you should be keeping JMO
Jul 25, 2011 12:56 PM CST Should a secret be told
lassie806
lassie806lassie806kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland84 Threads 486 Posts
thanks hun i did tell them look everythings allright honest but there putting savage pressure on me
Jul 25, 2011 1:27 PM CST Should a secret be told
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
lassie806: thanks hun i did tell them look everythings allright honest but there putting savage pressure on me


I'd say to them.....what if i told you something in confidence, what would you do? Would you tell someone if they were putting pressure on you?

If they would cave and betray your confidence, you will know not t to tell them anything in confidence.

It might make them think about the pressure they are putting on you now though.
Jul 25, 2011 1:31 PM CST Should a secret be told
dreccky
drecckydrecckyNavan, Meath Ireland128 Threads 3 Polls 694 Posts
lassie806: If a friend a very close friend told you something private and confidential and knew you wouldnt go back and tell everyone .Would you keep it to yourself , theres three people who are asking me whats going on i keep saying nothing look everythings fine and if there was i would tell you.There not buying it .I for one dont tell secrets


I think by nature we find it difficult to keep secrets...I always tell people not to tell me any....3 monkeys thing...hear no evil...and so on..
Jul 25, 2011 1:37 PM CST Should a secret be told
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: I'd say to them.....what if i told you something in confidence, what would you do? Would you tell someone if they were putting pressure on you?

If they would cave and betray your confidence, you will know not t to tell them anything in confidence.

It might make them think about the pressure they are putting on you now though.


I also wanted to add I would have way more respect for someone if they said they didn't want to betray a confidence by telling me something.
Jul 25, 2011 1:57 PM CST Should a secret be told
lassie806
lassie806lassie806kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland84 Threads 486 Posts
I dont want to betray her and i wont what she told me ill keep to myself i kinda guessed something was happening , i told her look im here for you ok but if you dont want to tell me dont. She told me i swore no way i would go back and tell everyone , thanks to everyone nice comments
Jul 25, 2011 3:45 PM CST Should a secret be told
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
So your 'very close friend' has you lying to three other 'friends'(?) and you want advice? Sometimes I am so glad I was born a man.
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

Stats for this Thread

838 Views
13 Comments
by lassie806 (84 Threads)
Created: Jul 2011
Last Viewed: Apr 6
Last Commented: Jul 2011

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here