The Long Goodbye: The Never-Ending Virtual Romantic Relationship ( Archived) (319)

You stated that the 10 year old comment was unacceptable but say nothing about other comments which are far more insulting to the OP ... there have been numerous snide and personal comments passed ... who are you kidding?

I chose the side of the coin that I did based on my observations ...

I have no problem with anyone disagreeing with me ... you are the one who came out with the I am not going to interact with you comment ...

Do you really think that because you have been on this site for longer than I have that you should be offering me your wisdom? My stay here will be easier ???? You mean if I agree with what you say I won't suffer the snide comments and personal remarks??

ok Chris ... point taken ...

Hey sweetie!

Do you remember the Whose The Greatest Hunk Thread. Remember who won?

Of course!!! Yesterday I was tempted to revive it...

It was called "King Hung"....wasn't that mounds of fun?

I have been sort of absent or just basically lurking and only glancing at certain threads...I don't know the hunks anymore...but we can start a new and updated "King Hung" thread... and the title holder is in the market again...

Well there's always a very simple solution if some epeople don't wish to be brought into the crossfire just refame from posting in them.

Hi Lerie...I have been on CS for five years and am a cyber friend of Ambrose. I can't say that I know everything about him, but I do know that this is his 9th thread (at least) on the subject of breaking up with his girlfriend. If you take the time to go back to his first thread when they broke up, many of us came to help him as we thought he was hurting more then he could bear. He got good advice from people why professional psychological background and it appeared that he would let it go. But he didn't let it go and he continued to write more threads about it.

Eventually we learned that his ex-girlfriend was reading his threads. She didn't like it very much that he was airing his dirty laundry in public so she wrote her own thread telling us how he continued to try to communicate with her when she told him she didn't want any further communication. People on CS responded to that thread and it caused problems between the rest of the CS people. Then he wrote an apology thread and said that he wouldn't refer to her in anymore threads.

He continued to write threads about relationships but he was careful not to refer to her and even though I was tired of reading about it, I thought, what happened with them isn't my business so I went in his threads with my own past relationship problems.

I've noticed his last few threads have used the word "ex" and when I saw that I feared the whole thing was going to start up again and as you can see in this thread, it has and now ex-girlfriend asking his AGAIN to stop posting about their relationship.

Even though Ambrose is a friend I think he is wrong to continue with this saga. When this all started I was in touch with the ex-girlfriend and in my opinion, both of them are very nice, intelligent people who were involved with the wrong person.

Lerie, the only way you will understand what's been going on is to look back through all his threads to get a better picture. I can understand how you think he is being attacked and if I was new here and this thread was the first one I read about the subject, I would think the same as you, that he is being attacked. He's not being attacked Lerie, he's being asked to give her the respect she deserves and not write about it anymore.

I hope you won't think that I am bashing you because I don't bash or attack people, but I do try to help. All I'm trying to show you is that this is long overdue to be put in a box and away on a shelf of rememberances...

We need to add: WE LOVE YOU J...
WE LOVE YOU T...
One of the two of you has to let it go. If he doesn't, then, T' stop commenting and asking him to drop it. Eventually, after ignoring it, it will dawn on him.