what am i doing wrong (24)

Aug 10, 2011 8:38 AM CST what am i doing wrong
chicotime
chicotimechicotimeDublin, Ireland3 Threads 15 Posts
im being myself nd yet still women seen to not wana chat with me
Aug 10, 2011 8:52 AM CST what am i doing wrong
Luckylady4
Luckylady4Luckylady4Waterford, Ireland6 Posts
chicotime: im being myself nd yet still women seen to not wana chat with me


Just had a quick look at your profile and it seems fine to me. Maybe the bit about wanting to settle down and have kids could be left out and discussed in private with the person when you meet them after a few months. JMO. Other than that its looks good, hold on in there I am sure you will meet someone nice.
Aug 10, 2011 8:56 AM CST what am i doing wrong
Thumblina
ThumblinaThumblinaleinster, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,225 Posts
Luckylady4: Just had a quick look at your profile and it seems fine to me. Maybe the bit about wanting to settle down and have kids could be left out and discussed in private with the person when you meet them after a few months. JMO. Other than that its looks good, hold on in there I am sure you will meet someone nice.


completely agree with luckylady
Aug 10, 2011 9:05 AM CST what am i doing wrong
darkie23
darkie23darkie23Co. Limerick, Limerick Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 596 Posts
Hi Chicotime...your profile seems fine..I think we all think at times what are we doing wrong that we aren't getting any messages etc. but I think its part of being on a dating site..you don't know if its working or not!!! but as the ladies say stick with it..as its hard work wave
Aug 10, 2011 9:12 AM CST what am i doing wrong
SPMoore
SPMooreSPMooreFoxrock, Dublin Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 189 Posts
come along to the dublin meet dude and meet some of the CS clan!
Aug 10, 2011 9:32 AM CST what am i doing wrong
darkie23
darkie23darkie23Co. Limerick, Limerick Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 596 Posts
SPMoore: come along to the dublin meet dude and meet some of the CS clan!


Very good advise thumbs up
Aug 10, 2011 9:48 AM CST what am i doing wrong
SPMoore
SPMooreSPMooreFoxrock, Dublin Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 189 Posts
darkie23: Very good advise


not just a handsome faceyay
Aug 10, 2011 9:51 AM CST what am i doing wrong
darkie23
darkie23darkie23Co. Limerick, Limerick Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 596 Posts
SPMoore: not just a handsome face


Who told you that....your mother....laugh only joking a very handsome face it is wink
Aug 10, 2011 10:24 AM CST what am i doing wrong
SPMoore
SPMooreSPMooreFoxrock, Dublin Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 189 Posts
darkie23: Who told you that....your mother.... only joking a very handsome face it is


she tells me every day hahaha while pinching my cheeks, kinda getting odd now at my age lol - JOKE!!!!
Aug 10, 2011 11:18 AM CST what am i doing wrong
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
chicotime: im being myself nd yet still women seen to not wana chat with me




awh just looked at ur profile and der is not a bother on it(if only i was a few yrs youngerfrustrated )
the same could b said for women,like i send msg's to guys and they dont answer,sumtimes it gets to me and i send back a msg saying(very rude)u no who u arerolling on the floor laughing but i dont let it get to me any more,so keep d faith and keep trying..all the best..lips
Aug 10, 2011 11:50 AM CST what am i doing wrong
BannerMan53
BannerMan53BannerMan53Limerick, Ireland4 Threads 981 Posts
chicotime: im being myself nd yet still women seen to not wana chat with me

Lynx !!!

Buckets of it !!!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 10, 2011 1:00 PM CST what am i doing wrong
darkie23
darkie23darkie23Co. Limerick, Limerick Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 596 Posts
BannerMan53: Lynx !!!

Buckets of it !!!


Its good advise..as in my experience men don't wear enough of it sigh
Aug 10, 2011 1:17 PM CST what am i doing wrong
gleneagle
gleneaglegleneagleNew York City, New York USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,147 Posts
chicotime: im being myself nd yet still women seen to not wana chat with me
Well why don't you use your indignation at the petulance of these women to diss you by clambering back into the real world. You will have a better chance there of finding a real partner in life. I think CS is great for moments of boredom and can be very amusing but you will never beat looking at someone in the flesh while talking to them.
Aug 10, 2011 1:27 PM CST what am i doing wrong
Amazing_Eyes
Amazing_EyesAmazing_EyesCo. Clare, Clare Ireland72 Posts
chicotime: im being myself nd yet still women seen to not wana chat with me


your profile reads perfect, maybe ensure that you are sending messages to people who meet your match, looking for similar things, and that have interest you, I suppose what I'm saying is don't blanket message ladies

Best of luck with it

teddybear
Aug 10, 2011 2:47 PM CST what am i doing wrong
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
gleneagle: Well why don't you use your indignation at the petulance of these women to diss you by clambering back into the real world. You will have a better chance there of finding a real partner in life. I think CS is great for moments of boredom and can be very amusing but you will never beat looking at someone in the flesh while talking to them.

thumbs up the best advice u could give
Aug 10, 2011 3:31 PM CST what am i doing wrong
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
chicotime: im being myself nd yet still women seen to not wana chat with me

Your profile is well thought out, but looking a wee bit immature. Text speak, lack of punctuation, and shortage of capital letters.

Yeah, I know, I'm like the language police.

"Punctuation and spelling are important, but capital letters are the difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse, and helping your uncle jack off a horse."
Aug 10, 2011 3:45 PM CST what am i doing wrong
dubeightguy
dubeightguydubeightguyDublin 8, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 8 Posts
@70 Libra

"Punctuation and spelling are important, but capital letters are the difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse, and helping your uncle jack off a horse."

Thank you, I'm definitely stealing this for future use.

@Chicotime

Just be honest and realistic. If someone catches your eye and you think you'd be a good match then send a message commenting on what parts of their profile you liked and what you might have in common etc. Leave it at that; they'll probably read your profile and if there's a spark they'll mail you. If not, then I doubt there's anything more you could have said in your email that would make them think otherwise.
Aug 10, 2011 4:11 PM CST what am i doing wrong
unouwantme2
unouwantme2unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Posts
70Libra: Your profile is well thought out, but looking a wee bit immature. Text speak, lack of punctuation, and shortage of capital letters.

Yeah, I know, I'm like the language police.

"Punctuation and spelling are important, but capital letters are the difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse, and helping your uncle jack off a horse."
i just want to comment on something you said about text speak and capital letters.. in my opinion if a women or man doesnt speak to you because of this your better off not going there in the first place.. using a small bit of text speak and wheather you start a sentence with a capital letter are definatly not areas you should judge a person on a dating site, in my eyes thumbs up
Aug 10, 2011 4:18 PM CST what am i doing wrong
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
unouwantme2: i just want to comment on something you said about text speak and capital letters.. in my opinion if a women or man doesnt speak to you because of this your better off not going there in the first place.. using a small bit of text speak and wheather you start a sentence with a capital letter are definatly not areas you should judge a person on a dating site, in my eyes

You are allowed your opinion and preferences just as much as I am allowed mine.
Aug 10, 2011 4:20 PM CST what am i doing wrong
unouwantme2
unouwantme2unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Posts
70Libra: You are allowed your opinion and preferences just as much as I am allowed mine.
exactly. would you judge a person on it tho??
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