Dating an old boyfriend/girlfriend (16)
cookingfool5057Cambridge, Minnesota USA3 Threads 14 PostsAbout 4 years ago I got back together with my old girlfriend, we pretty much pickup where we had left off. We were together for about 2 years, but she kept on bringing up the past, all the bad things, never the good things from our past. So this brings up my question, if you get back together with your bf/gf, would bring up the past, or let bygones be bygones?
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I would think it would be best to leave the past in the past, except maybe the good things..
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If you decided to be together again you are giving your selves a chance to start anew, so past isnt needed in this new phase of your lives. 
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cookingfool5057: About 4 years ago I got back together with my old girlfriend, we pretty much pickup where we had left off. We were together for about 2 years, but she kept on bringing up the past, all the bad things, never the good things from our past. So this brings up my question, if you get back together with your bf/gf, would bring up the past, or let bygones be bygones?
The highlighted words might be an indication of why the past kept re-surfacing. Unresolved issues with self AND jointly.
If both had resolved the issues internally, and picked up from where/who you were when you met up again instead of from you left off, may it would be different
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it depends on what happened in the past.
If you cared for eachother in the past
and you both see a future together
surely the past should be left in the past.
If you cared for eachother in the past
and you both see a future together
surely the past should be left in the past.
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Polarbutterfly: it depends on what happened in the past.
If you cared for eachother in the past
and you both see a future together
surely the past should be left in the past.
....yes and pigs can fly......If you cared for eachother in the past
and you both see a future together
surely the past should be left in the past.
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ur quick,
I meant if there was any
negative experiences in the past smarty pants
I meant if there was any
negative experiences in the past smarty pants
trueheart1941: ....yes and pigs can fly...... the past will always be the future......
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cookingfool5057: About 4 years ago I got back together with my old girlfriend, we pretty much pickup where we had left off. We were together for about 2 years, but she kept on bringing up the past, all the bad things, never the good things from our past. So this brings up my question, if you get back together with your bf/gf, would bring up the past, or let bygones be bygones?
I think its best to let sleeping dogs lie.....
Its the past for a reason, it should stay there!
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cookingfool5057: About 4 years ago I got back together with my old girlfriend, we pretty much pickup where we had left off. We were together for about 2 years, but she kept on bringing up the past, all the bad things, never the good things from our past. So this brings up my question, if you get back together with your bf/gf, would bring up the past, or let bygones be bygones?
I tried this once.Met a guy 11 years younger than myself,stayed together about 5 years,then we split,as I told him to find someone younger.
25 years later we met up again.It lasted a year and again I broke it off.Some relationships are just not meant to be.
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cookingfool5057: About 4 years ago I got back together with my old girlfriend, we pretty much pickup where we had left off. We were together for about 2 years, but she kept on bringing up the past, all the bad things, never the good things from our past. So this brings up my question, if you get back together with your bf/gf, would bring up the past, or let bygones be bygones?
If I even saw him on the street you can bet I'd bring up the past to remind him what a piece of ---- he is..
There's nobody from the past I'd be interested in getting back with other then my husband, who unfortunately is deceased...
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We should not ignore the past
We should put it in a textbook for refresher class
If we forget the past we could repeat the task
But we need to drop it at some point or there will be significant cost!
We should put it in a textbook for refresher class
If we forget the past we could repeat the task
But we need to drop it at some point or there will be significant cost!
cookingfool5057: About 4 years ago I got back together with my old girlfriend, we pretty much pickup where we had left off. We were together for about 2 years, but she kept on bringing up the past, all the bad things, never the good things from our past. So this brings up my question, if you get back together with your bf/gf, would bring up the past, or let bygones be bygones?
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In response to: About 4 years ago I got back together with my old girlfriend, we pretty much pickup where we had left off. We were together for about 2 years, but she kept on bringing up the past, all the bad things, never the good things from our past. So this brings up my question, if you get back together with your bf/gf, would bring up the past, or let bygones be bygones?
Theft of time is one of the most deadliest sins
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Veritaas: Theft of time is one of the most deadliest sins
met up with mine 1 night stand an a kid...i agree on time thing but god can be cruel..
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mickybwoy: met up with mine 1 night stand an a kid...
i agree on time thing but god can be cruel..
i agree on time thing but god can be cruel..
Ruthless, absolutely ruthless.
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Just do it ! 
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