what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex? ( Archived) (54)

Aug 23, 2011 5:01 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides?
what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?

or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.

what else?


I would wish the friend or relative best of luck laugh
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Aug 23, 2011 5:02 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
gleneagle
gleneaglegleneagleNew York City, New York USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,147 Posts
Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides?
what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?

or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.

what else?
I would not intrude but if a close friend asked me what I thought of my ex I would not sugarcoat my answer.
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Aug 23, 2011 5:14 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,523 Posts
Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides?
what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?

or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.

what else?
I've always thought of myself as being very liberal, and an easy going live and let live type, but after thinking this question over for quite awhile, I have to admit it would be a problem for me. (whether or not it was true, it would 'feel' manipulative, and I would feel betrayed. JMO
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Aug 23, 2011 5:14 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
whowhatwherewhen
whowhatwherewhenwhowhatwherewhentoowoomba, Queensland Australia15 Threads 1,404 Posts
gmanblue: Hey Who,

Just a thought, does your ex have a brother? And what do you think of him?
laugh Yes, well that did cross my mind and he is cute but, hes married so not gonna go there.
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Aug 23, 2011 5:25 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
looking121fryu
looking121fryulooking121fryuAbington, Massachusetts USA1 Threads 75 Posts
Ex girlfriends, I would not mind.
My ex wfe, now that would be funny. She is a real piece of work. If one of my friends or relitives dated my ex wife they would,
DEEEEESERVE WHAT EVER SHE DID TO THEM.
I'd be too bussy laughing and rolling on the ground at the stupidity of my friend or relative.
I lost a very good job. NO MONET= NO WIFE. She left 2 weeks after I lost my job and took up with a very well to do man. You know, a golddigger.
So if that were to happen...........................rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 23, 2011 8:52 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
cytrynka
cytrynkacytrynkaclinton twp, Michigan USA1 Threads 54 Posts
confused Feel sorry for my friend....lol comfort
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Aug 23, 2011 10:57 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
sand61
sand61sand61orem, Utah USA8 Posts
why do you care you are not with them any more, plenty of other people out there, women are so mysterous to most men so is it any wonder they want forbiden fruit, and men just dont get it do they ?
Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides?
what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?

or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.

what else?
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Aug 24, 2011 9:57 AM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
I really don't care what they gonna end up with as long as they don't bother my life with their romance i will still cool beside it's just an old story and life must go on cool
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Aug 24, 2011 11:28 AM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
manroe23: I really don't care what they gonna end up with as long as they don't bother my life with their romance i will still cool beside it's just an old story and life must go on


yes true, but i will leave some tips to my dearest friend professor

"make sure u watch him not to fall in holes while he is walking outside, even in living room he always fell"
"be ready if he lost another tooth n he might need ur help to call his parents"
"and shoping with him, he will pay put all in together his n urs at the store but then he will count again at home and ask u to pay back all"
"if u about doing ur business trip, don't leave him alone at home for months, he might ask or call another girl to come"
"be careful about making plans with him cause he always change every minutes"

and good luck for that. grin handshake
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Aug 24, 2011 11:40 AM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
Bane6
Bane6Bane6Martins Ferry, Ohio USA512 Posts
kitten5121: yes true, but i will leave some tips to my dearest friend
"make sure u watch him not to fall in holes while he is walking outside, even in living room he always fell"
"be ready if he lost another tooth n he might need ur help to call his parents"




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 24, 2011 11:45 AM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
kitten5121: yes true, but i will leave some tips to my dearest friend

"make sure u watch him not to fall in holes while he is walking outside, even in living room he always fell"
"be ready if he lost another tooth n he might need ur help to call his parents"
"and shoping with him, he will pay put all in together his n urs at the store but then he will count again at home and ask u to pay back all"
"if u about doing ur business trip, don't leave him alone at home for months, he might ask or call another girl to come"
"be careful about making plans with him cause he always change every minutes"

and good luck for that.




shock shock better not stay close with this kind of guy or i would be suffer for entire of my life doh
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Aug 24, 2011 11:58 AM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
Maumi505
Maumi505Maumi505Las Cruces, New Mexico USA5 Posts
With all Due Respect in my opinion I think its very disrespectful of those who have the decency to even think of dating, marrying siblings in the same family. I find this inconsiderate, no morals an self respect not only to the sister(Who was hurt), but also the kids. Relationships an life itself is difficult enough than to knowingly bring in more issues that disrupts the family relationship. > Billions of people in this world> > Why go down the line> :(
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Aug 24, 2011 12:10 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
Rummy1
Rummy1Rummy1Baku, Azerbaijan38 Threads 3 Polls 565 Posts
rohaan: I've always thought of myself as being very liberal, and an easy going live and let live type, but after thinking this question over for quite awhile, I have to admit it would be a problem for me. (whether or not it was true, it would 'feel' manipulative, and I would feel betrayed. JMO


i m completly agree with u.thumbs up cheers
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Aug 24, 2011 12:11 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
Rummy1
Rummy1Rummy1Baku, Azerbaijan38 Threads 3 Polls 565 Posts
Ambrose2007: Well, your attitude is rather amazing to me, Who. I'm more in Rummy's camp for sure.
cheers cheers
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Aug 24, 2011 12:14 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
manroe23: better not stay close with this kind of guy or i would be suffer for entire of my life


yes stay away from him! rolling on the floor laughing

but no worries, i sent him back to his country n can not come here again comfort
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Aug 24, 2011 12:15 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
whowhatwherewhen: Im in that positions at the moment. My ex is dating my little sister. A very recent event.
I have found it hard getting my head around it but, Im sure in time I will be accepting of it.
My biggest concern are the children involved. They are old enough to understand the family dynamics and some dont like it one little bit. My 16 year old Son for one. He has lost respect for his Dad. I have told him not to worry about it. That life is full of odd times and people do the strangest things.
Good luck to them and it better last, because it has caused some grief. Especially in my family.



whoa!!!!..this is really hard to handle,my heart goes to you...so painful.don't they have a little decency?
ohhdoh ..here's for youteddybear teddybear sad flower sad flower
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Aug 24, 2011 12:18 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
I think it's taboo. I would never consider it for myself and would feel betrayed if it were done to me.
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Aug 24, 2011 12:20 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
Maumi505: With all Due Respect in my opinion I think its very disrespectful of those who have the decency to even think of dating, marrying siblings in the same family. I find this inconsiderate, no morals an self respect not only to the sister(Who was hurt), but also the kids. Relationships an life itself is difficult enough than to knowingly bring in more issues that disrupts the family relationship. > Billions of people in this world> > Why go down the line> :(





agreed!!!don't just go for own happiness,,it's selfishness.consider the feelings of your sisterdoh
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Aug 24, 2011 12:25 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
Rummy1
Rummy1Rummy1Baku, Azerbaijan38 Threads 3 Polls 565 Posts
Maumi505: With all Due Respect in my opinion I think its very disrespectful of those who have the decency to even think of dating, marrying siblings in the same family. I find this inconsiderate, no morals an self respect not only to the sister(Who was hurt), but also the kids. Relationships an life itself is difficult enough than to knowingly bring in more issues that disrupts the family relationship. > Billions of people in this world> > Why go down the line> :(
thumbs up wine
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Aug 24, 2011 6:10 PM CST what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,523 Posts
nanners2863: I think it's taboo. I would never consider it for myself and would feel betrayed if it were done to me.
me toothumbs up
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