Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA2,218 posts
Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides? what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex? would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides? what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex? would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
what else?
I would not intrude but if a close friend asked me what I thought of my ex I would not sugarcoat my answer.
Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides? what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex? would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
what else?
I've always thought of myself as being very liberal, and an easy going live and let live type, but after thinking this question over for quite awhile, I have to admit it would be a problem for me. (whether or not it was true, it would 'feel' manipulative, and I would feel betrayed. JMO
Ex girlfriends, I would not mind. My ex wfe, now that would be funny. She is a real piece of work. If one of my friends or relitives dated my ex wife they would, DEEEEESERVE WHAT EVER SHE DID TO THEM. I'd be too bussy laughing and rolling on the ground at the stupidity of my friend or relative. I lost a very good job. NO MONET= NO WIFE. She left 2 weeks after I lost my job and took up with a very well to do man. You know, a golddigger. So if that were to happen...........................
why do you care you are not with them any more, plenty of other people out there, women are so mysterous to most men so is it any wonder they want forbiden fruit, and men just dont get it do they ?
Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides? what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex? would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
I really don't care what they gonna end up with as long as they don't bother my life with their romance i will still cool beside it's just an old story and life must go on
manroe23: I really don't care what they gonna end up with as long as they don't bother my life with their romance i will still cool beside it's just an old story and life must go on
yes true, but i will leave some tips to my dearest friend
"make sure u watch him not to fall in holes while he is walking outside, even in living room he always fell" "be ready if he lost another tooth n he might need ur help to call his parents" "and shoping with him, he will pay put all in together his n urs at the store but then he will count again at home and ask u to pay back all" "if u about doing ur business trip, don't leave him alone at home for months, he might ask or call another girl to come" "be careful about making plans with him cause he always change every minutes"
kitten5121: yes true, but i will leave some tips to my dearest friend "make sure u watch him not to fall in holes while he is walking outside, even in living room he always fell" "be ready if he lost another tooth n he might need ur help to call his parents"
kitten5121: yes true, but i will leave some tips to my dearest friend
"make sure u watch him not to fall in holes while he is walking outside, even in living room he always fell" "be ready if he lost another tooth n he might need ur help to call his parents" "and shoping with him, he will pay put all in together his n urs at the store but then he will count again at home and ask u to pay back all" "if u about doing ur business trip, don't leave him alone at home for months, he might ask or call another girl to come" "be careful about making plans with him cause he always change every minutes"
and good luck for that.
better not stay close with this kind of guy or i would be suffer for entire of my life
With all Due Respect in my opinion I think its very disrespectful of those who have the decency to even think of dating, marrying siblings in the same family. I find this inconsiderate, no morals an self respect not only to the sister(Who was hurt), but also the kids. Relationships an life itself is difficult enough than to knowingly bring in more issues that disrupts the family relationship. > Billions of people in this world> > Why go down the line> :(
rohaan: I've always thought of myself as being very liberal, and an easy going live and let live type, but after thinking this question over for quite awhile, I have to admit it would be a problem for me. (whether or not it was true, it would 'feel' manipulative, and I would feel betrayed. JMO
whowhatwherewhen: Im in that positions at the moment. My ex is dating my little sister. A very recent event. I have found it hard getting my head around it but, Im sure in time I will be accepting of it. My biggest concern are the children involved. They are old enough to understand the family dynamics and some dont like it one little bit. My 16 year old Son for one. He has lost respect for his Dad. I have told him not to worry about it. That life is full of odd times and people do the strangest things. Good luck to them and it better last, because it has caused some grief. Especially in my family.
whoa!!!!..this is really hard to handle,my heart goes to you...so painful.don't they have a little decency? ohh ..here's for you
Maumi505: With all Due Respect in my opinion I think its very disrespectful of those who have the decency to even think of dating, marrying siblings in the same family. I find this inconsiderate, no morals an self respect not only to the sister(Who was hurt), but also the kids. Relationships an life itself is difficult enough than to knowingly bring in more issues that disrupts the family relationship. > Billions of people in this world> > Why go down the line> :(
agreed!!!don't just go for own happiness,,it's selfishness.consider the feelings of your sister
Maumi505: With all Due Respect in my opinion I think its very disrespectful of those who have the decency to even think of dating, marrying siblings in the same family. I find this inconsiderate, no morals an self respect not only to the sister(Who was hurt), but also the kids. Relationships an life itself is difficult enough than to knowingly bring in more issues that disrupts the family relationship. > Billions of people in this world> > Why go down the line> :(
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what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
what else?
I would wish the friend or relative best of luck