what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex? (54)
rohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,523 PostsRummy1: i m completly agree with u.
Howdy Rummy--thanks for the back up on that. I do not presume to say that everyone should think the same way I do, but if we were to be able and research all the incidences on this, there would be tons of unhappy folks, on both ends of the spectrum. True story--(it would bother me to have my body where another family member had it, just would weird me out...)------ This thread is Archived ------
rohaan: Howdy Rummy--thanks for the back up on that. I do not presume to say that everyone should think the same way I do, but if we were to be able and research all the incidences on this, there would be tons of unhappy folks, on both ends of the spectrum. True story--(it would bother me to have my body where another family member had it, just would weird me out...)
Me too!!
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EagleWoman: Me too!!
Hi you gorgeous doll--now that we have that out of the way, I want to ask you a question--I have tried to go back to some of my other threads, by page, and it just keeps returning to this (last) page. Also, I did find out how to go to some of my older threads, but they are all "locked and archived"--all of them! is this the usual way it goes now? is it because of space saving, or the 30 day limit or what or do you know?------ This thread is Archived ------
rohaan: Hi you gorgeous doll--now that we have that out of the way, I want to ask you a question--I have tried to go back to some of my other threads, by page, and it just keeps returning to this (last) page. Also, I did find out how to go to some of my older threads, but they are all "locked and archived"--all of them! is this the usual way it goes now? is it because of space saving, or the 30 day limit or what or do you know?
Best way I know to go back your other threads is to go to one of your forum posts and click just below your name then when the page of your posts comes up, scroll down to pick which one you want to have a look at. If not go to my profile and look in the righthandside collum and click on my posts/threads.
I have noticed too that since the new format some of the not so old threads have been archived ... don't know why ... could be space saving
Think you can still read them but they can't be "revived" by posting in them ...May be it's to stop people reviving very old threads, bringing out outdated stuff about posters who have now moved on from the site or even with stuff that has happened on the forums
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I found myself in this position.....the ex of a friend.....he pursued me,I gave in and we had a really special time together.....then all hell broke loose....although she had not been with him for 18 months,she blamed me - I lost her friendship....and guess what! he left me to go back to her......he used me.....
They both live locally to me,frequent the same places.....all I can say is...its his loss....I see him look at me,even now......
What do I think.....they deserve each other....and as for her, well she put all the blame on the wrong person......and he will do it again!! Well I wont be around to pick up the pieces when he does!!
They both live locally to me,frequent the same places.....all I can say is...its his loss....I see him look at me,even now......
What do I think.....they deserve each other....and as for her, well she put all the blame on the wrong person......and he will do it again!! Well I wont be around to pick up the pieces when he does!!
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Better things to do in life than let other people's relationships hinder my own path. Obstacles, present themselves, but there is always a solution.
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In response to: what would u do if ur close relative or friend started to date with ur ex?
I would laugh hysterically for days.
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Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides?
what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
what else?
what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
what else?
A lot would depend on how long I'd dated him and how much I'd cared for him. It's a small world. I'd like to think I'd handle it graciously. If we'd only broken it off recently, I'd be pretty hurt I think.
If it ended badly, having to see your ex at all the social or family gatherings you used to enjoy would really suck big time. That is what would probably annoy me the most - the fact that he was everywhere I was even though we'd ended it.
My good friends would never go there and I don't think it's something my exes would have ever done either. They were nice guys, but they were as keen to make a clean break as I was.
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If it was one of my good exes, I would join them. 
(if they would accept me 
)
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............send him a condolence card......
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Ex is Ex... and it is all. When my friend was close to me ... she knew all drawbacks from first hand...
If they both are able to be happy and satisfied together... it is their matter, not mine any more
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If they date my ex I would give them an award for bravery
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Rummy1: would u consider it as a cheating from both sides?
what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
what else?
what would be ur relation with ur re;lative/friend after him/her dating ur ex?
would u be angry ,fight with them or stop talking with them forever?
or just sit back and see them dating not caring about how u feel.
what else?
That would be great! Then I could concentrate full time on finding someone to spend the rest of my life with. As it is, with my ex living in my house after the house fire, it kind of puts a crimp in my social life, so the sooner she remarries, the better.
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if she/he was an ex u cant really call it cheating lol, however if I was in that person shoes I would hate the idea of my ex having to b around me evvery day that way
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