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Sep 9, 2011 12:53 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
Sometime its hard and painfull to end the relationship. especisally when we care about the person, will be soo many consideration. How will be their day without us? who will confort them when they down? sometime we dont want to hurt someone, even we get hurt coz of that.
After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life?
But how to end the relationship without hurt each other?
Is this situation also happen with other member here?
let us share....
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Sep 9, 2011 1:09 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
hi heavensmile wave

in my opinion, there is no way to end a relationship without hurting...

it is like wanting to make an injection without it hurting...

yes, you can try to use some tips to ease the pain and make it less painful but it is impossible to avoid the pain completely...
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Sep 9, 2011 1:18 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
lucynad: hi heavensmile

in my opinion, there is no way to end a relationship without hurting...

it is like wanting to make an injection without it hurting...

yes, you can try to use some tips to ease the pain and make it less painful but it is impossible to avoid the pain completely...


thanks sist, at least with sharing we can learn and get some usefull advise
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Sep 9, 2011 1:32 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
I don't understand why do you want to end the relationship if you still have feelings for your partner. The fact that you don't want to hurt him by leaving him shows that you still love him. And if you don't love him anymore, are you sure that he still loves you? Maybe your departure from your relationship won't hurt him a bit. hmmm
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Sep 9, 2011 1:46 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
vyoleta: I don't understand why do you want to end the relationship if you still have feelings for your partner. The fact that you don't want to hurt him by leaving him shows that you still love him. And if you don't love him anymore, are you sure that he still loves you? Maybe your departure from your relationship won't hurt him a bit.


Its not me, many woman face this situation. sometime woman talk with heart, not with brain. maybe coz of togetherness the care still there, so its not love. man can be blunt, they can leave and forget everything behind, but not with woman. The problem is when idea to end the relationship come from woman, ofcourse heart will also talk.
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Sep 9, 2011 2:10 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
Its not me, many woman face this situation. sometime woman talk with heart, not with brain. maybe coz of togetherness the care still there, so its not love. man can be blunt, they can leave and forget everything behind, but not with woman. The problem is when idea to end the relationship come from woman, ofcourse heart will also talk.[/quot
I don't think there is ever a good time, you just need to have that chat. It will be hard after but it will get easier in time.hug
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Sep 9, 2011 2:48 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
islandgirl62
islandgirl62islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia12 Threads 1,601 Posts
heavensmile: Sometime its hard and painfull to end the relationship. especisally when we care about the person, will be soo many consideration. How will be their day without us? who will confort them when they down? sometime we dont want to hurt someone, even we get hurt coz of that.
After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life?
But how to end the relationship without hurt each other?
Is this situation also happen with other member here?
let us share....


unfortunetly you have to go through all the stages and hurt is one of them even if it is amicable breakout - the fallout is still painfull and you are kidding yourself if you think that is all is ok.... it's not ... whether is happens in a day or 6 months time, the pain is still there ...it's how you deal with it APPROPRIATELY
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Sep 9, 2011 3:01 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
I don't think there is ever a good time, you just need to have that chat. It will be hard after but it will get easier in time.

yes, i know. everything will be nice on right time.
just need confident and big heart to make all ok.
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Sep 9, 2011 9:55 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
islandgirl62: unfortunetly you have to go through all the stages and hurt is one of them even if it is amicable breakout - the fallout is still painfull and you are kidding yourself if you think that is all is ok.... it's not ... whether is happens in a day or 6 months time, the pain is still there ...it's how you deal with it APPROPRIATELY


yes sist, its will take time to make us feel ok.
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Sep 9, 2011 10:02 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
In response to: Sometime its hard and painfull to end the relationship. especisally when we care about the person, will be soo many consideration. How will be their day without us? who will confort them when they down? sometime we dont want to hurt someone, even we get hurt coz of that.
After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life?
But how to end the relationship without hurt each other?
Is this situation also happen with other member here?
let us share....
I just usually send them an email of BBM on my phone then block them professor
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Sep 9, 2011 10:09 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
Zellarrone1: I just usually send them an email of BBM on my phone then block them


what your mean sist?
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Sep 10, 2011 11:35 PM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
Zellarrone1: I just usually send them an email of BBM on my phone then block them


why block them?
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Sep 10, 2011 11:43 PM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
Smittek23
Smittek23Smittek23Somewhere, Metro Manila Philippines5 Posts
heavensmile: why block them?



so no more contact. everything blocked n done. wave
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Sep 10, 2011 11:44 PM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Everytime Ive ended a relationship Ive been happy and relieved and grateful that its over ...I would rather be free than with the wrong person...Theres no peace in that hug
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Sep 10, 2011 11:50 PM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
venusenvy: Everytime Ive ended a relationship Ive been happy and relieved and grateful that its over ...I would rather be free than with the wrong person...Theres no peace in that


Yes so true venus. thumbs up hug
Better end it very quick than have to face n get more problems with wrong person.
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Sep 10, 2011 11:59 PM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
If I cared about a partner, I wouldn't want to end the relationship (other than my first wife). And if I loved the person, I definitely wouldn't want to end it.
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Sep 11, 2011 1:21 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
HuggerMan4U: If I cared about a partner, I wouldn't want to end the relationship (other than my first wife). And if I loved the person, I definitely wouldn't want to end it.

if there is no more hope for improvement, and we cant make wish also.
we need better relationship.
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Sep 11, 2011 3:12 PM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
heavensmile: Sometime its hard and painfull to end the relationship. especisally when we care about the person, will be soo many consideration. How will be their day without us? who will confort them when they down? sometime we dont want to hurt someone, even we get hurt coz of that.
After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life?
But how to end the relationship without hurt each other?
Is this situation also happen with other member here?
let us share....

strong strike at the back of their head ,with a baseball bat cause amnesia ...grin
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Sep 11, 2011 3:17 PM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
eagfly
eagflyeagflyLiege, Belgium8 Threads 5 Polls 44 Posts
why you insult baseball bat....doh baseball bat has better things to do...
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Sep 14, 2011 10:54 AM CST How to end relationship, if u still care about ur patner? How to not make each other feel hurt. b
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
Boban1: strong strike at the back of their head ,with a baseball bat cause amnesia ...


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Ok i should try it somehow laugh
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