Sometime its hard and painfull to end the relationship. especisally when we care about the person, will be soo many consideration. How will be their day without us? who will confort them when they down? sometime we dont want to hurt someone, even we get hurt coz of that. After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life? But how to end the relationship without hurt each other? Is this situation also happen with other member here? let us share....
vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
I don't understand why do you want to end the relationship if you still have feelings for your partner. The fact that you don't want to hurt him by leaving him shows that you still love him. And if you don't love him anymore, are you sure that he still loves you? Maybe your departure from your relationship won't hurt him a bit.
vyoleta: I don't understand why do you want to end the relationship if you still have feelings for your partner. The fact that you don't want to hurt him by leaving him shows that you still love him. And if you don't love him anymore, are you sure that he still loves you? Maybe your departure from your relationship won't hurt him a bit.
Its not me, many woman face this situation. sometime woman talk with heart, not with brain. maybe coz of togetherness the care still there, so its not love. man can be blunt, they can leave and forget everything behind, but not with woman. The problem is when idea to end the relationship come from woman, ofcourse heart will also talk.
Its not me, many woman face this situation. sometime woman talk with heart, not with brain. maybe coz of togetherness the care still there, so its not love. man can be blunt, they can leave and forget everything behind, but not with woman. The problem is when idea to end the relationship come from woman, ofcourse heart will also talk.[/quot I don't think there is ever a good time, you just need to have that chat. It will be hard after but it will get easier in time.
islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia1,601 posts
heavensmile: Sometime its hard and painfull to end the relationship. especisally when we care about the person, will be soo many consideration. How will be their day without us? who will confort them when they down? sometime we dont want to hurt someone, even we get hurt coz of that. After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life? But how to end the relationship without hurt each other? Is this situation also happen with other member here? let us share....
unfortunetly you have to go through all the stages and hurt is one of them even if it is amicable breakout - the fallout is still painfull and you are kidding yourself if you think that is all is ok.... it's not ... whether is happens in a day or 6 months time, the pain is still there ...it's how you deal with it APPROPRIATELY
islandgirl62: unfortunetly you have to go through all the stages and hurt is one of them even if it is amicable breakout - the fallout is still painfull and you are kidding yourself if you think that is all is ok.... it's not ... whether is happens in a day or 6 months time, the pain is still there ...it's how you deal with it APPROPRIATELY
In response to: Sometime its hard and painfull to end the relationship. especisally when we care about the person, will be soo many consideration. How will be their day without us? who will confort them when they down? sometime we dont want to hurt someone, even we get hurt coz of that. After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life? But how to end the relationship without hurt each other? Is this situation also happen with other member here? let us share....
I just usually send them an email of BBM on my phone then block them
Everytime Ive ended a relationship Ive been happy and relieved and grateful that its over ...I would rather be free than with the wrong person...Theres no peace in that
venusenvy: Everytime Ive ended a relationship Ive been happy and relieved and grateful that its over ...I would rather be free than with the wrong person...Theres no peace in that
Yes so true venus. Better end it very quick than have to face n get more problems with wrong person.
If I cared about a partner, I wouldn't want to end the relationship (other than my first wife). And if I loved the person, I definitely wouldn't want to end it.
HuggerMan4U: If I cared about a partner, I wouldn't want to end the relationship (other than my first wife). And if I loved the person, I definitely wouldn't want to end it.
if there is no more hope for improvement, and we cant make wish also. we need better relationship.
heavensmile: Sometime its hard and painfull to end the relationship. especisally when we care about the person, will be soo many consideration. How will be their day without us? who will confort them when they down? sometime we dont want to hurt someone, even we get hurt coz of that. After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life? But how to end the relationship without hurt each other? Is this situation also happen with other member here? let us share....
strong strike at the back of their head ,with a baseball bat cause amnesia ...
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After long time of togetherness...there is no peace, scare to have some wishes (coz if we wish and its not come true, its will hurt or dissapointed). But life must go on, we must have goal in life to make our dreams come true. When there is no more hope, when there is no respect, when there is no intention to improve, is that mistake when someone want to end the relationship and start new life?
But how to end the relationship without hurt each other?
Is this situation also happen with other member here?
let us share....