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I find that my "ex" is allowing our girls more liberties than perhaps he would have if we were "together"...
We still try to handle their "discipline" together...where we talk about it first and then talk to them together (and on occasion he has taken this out of my hands as well)...however the problem is that i feel like he is trying to be the "fun" parent, while i do all the "dirty" work...in everything else...and in my mind i'm wondering if that is a ploy of his to have the girls "lean" towards him..where i have always tried to maintain a "balance" in their relationships with us...
Our girls are 10 and 13, and therefore still in their "formative" years...as well they are in a difficult stage of "growing up", I'm afraid that by him trying to be the "fun" parent he's not setting boundaries for them that in the long run will be to their benefit..
Any thoughts or suggestions on this??