Im sure alot of respondees to this forum are going to be negative but oh well. The reason i ask is because im 18 i have been through a hell of alot during my high school years etc.I never really got along with the kids my age and i would always hangout with older people and watched and matured through that. Im knowledgable about emotions, finance, some under the sheets talk, which we dont need to go into ;) , feelings and friendship but really does it matter dramatically about age, Lets not be d*ck when responding yall, tht would be much apppreciated.
RED100s: Im sure alot of respondees to this forum are going to be negative but oh well. The reason i ask is because im 18 i have been through a hell of alot during my high school years etc.I never really got along with the kids my age and i would always hangout with older people and watched and matured through that. Im knowledgable about emotions, finance, some under the sheets talk, which we dont need to go into ;) , feelings and friendship but really does it matter dramatically about age, Lets not be d*ck when responding yall, tht would be much apppreciated.
Hi Red...Looking at your profile I'd say you are a pretty level headed young man. You are a cook and that could lead to a major profession as a chef someday so if you like cooking, you could have a great future with that. You have a good outlook on being honest and true to the girl you hope to find and I think with your attitude, you will find the right person. Don't be in a rush to find someone to marry. Right now you should be having the time of your life while you are building your professional future.
My motto is....you are what you do, not what you say. So my suggestion is, live up to what you said in your profile, be true to yourself and I think the right girl will show up out of nowhere. Don't get depressed if you have to spend a few Saturday nights at home. Just give it time. The best of luck to you Red.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
RED100s: Im sure alot of respondees to this forum are going to be negative but oh well. The reason i ask is because im 18 i have been through a hell of alot during my high school years etc.I never really got along with the kids my age and i would always hangout with older people and watched and matured through that. Im knowledgable about emotions, finance, some under the sheets talk, which we dont need to go into ;) , feelings and friendship but really does it matter dramatically about age, Lets not be d*ck when responding yall, tht would be much apppreciated.
hi...red......you need to find a site with woman your own age group....to be honest......most on here are twice your age.....you may be lucky....i dont know......but unlikely......just a honest....opinion......
cynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK1,897 posts
Age does matter!
Seven years is the maximum difference I'd be interested in.
As you're only 18 OP, you're not quite as mature as you may think you are. You may struggle to find something in common with someone with a big age difference.
trueheart1941: hi...red......you need to find a site with woman your own age group....to be honest......most on here are twice your age.....you may be lucky....i dont know......but unlikely......just a honest....opinion......
Excellent suggestion. That's why we call you Sir True..
montecito: Hi Red...Looking at your profile I'd say you are a pretty level headed young man. You are a cook and that could lead to a major profession as a chef someday so if you like cooking, you could have a great future with that. You have a good outlook on being honest and true to the girl you hope to find and I think with your attitude, you will find the right person. Don't be in a rush to find someone to marry. Right now you should be having the time of your life while you are building your professional future.
My motto is....you are what you do, not what you say. So my suggestion is, live up to what you said in your profile, be true to yourself and I think the right girl will show up out of nowhere. Don't get depressed if you have to spend a few Saturday nights at home. Just give it time. The best of luck to you Red.
Your right and see im honestly just done sleeping around and getting wasted with strangers to have a good time, with friends its different , but like i guess people my age only do party all the time. Thanks for the honest opinion
Seven years is the maximum difference I'd be interested in. As you're only 18 OP, you're not quite as mature as you may think you are. You may struggle to find something in common with someone with a big age difference.
I know im still young its just theres way too many head games being played with most girls my age, im just asking for words of advice. Thnx.
Hi Red, Welcome to the Forums, I truely think Age DOES Matter, You as 18, Me as 50, I couldnt date an 18 year old, when I have Kids 22, and 30, Tho more finding one at YOUR Maturity level, whatever age that may be....tho a few years can sure make a Difference, it will just takes time for You to find one that You are Compatable with...
for Me that would be somewhere within 5 Years of my age...
Seven years is the maximum difference I'd be interested in. As you're only 18 OP, you're not quite as mature as you may think you are. You may struggle to find something in common with someone with a big age difference.
Of course it matters, and you are only 18 so keep away from the much older folk if you want my opinion.
Yes there will be immature young people the same age as you, but also like-minded, and equally mature as you appear to be. You really do have very little in common with much older people truth be told, however mature you are, particularly in terms of a romantic relationship if that´s what you´re looking for.
I´d be interested to know what you perceive as "much older people" though. When I was 18 someone in their thirties was a much older person.
While on the internet I read where Society dictates what we wear,what kind of a job we have,who we date,who we marry and what "Class" of people we associate with. People put limitations on themselves to be accepted in todays society.
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