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Dec 4, 2011 1:17 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
kieuoanh
kieuoanhkieuoanhDa Lat, Central Highlands Vietnam5 Posts
Sorry for your loss, too. I think your friend, Coleete, now is in the heaven because she is such a good person. God bless.
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Dec 4, 2011 1:39 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
Calliopesgirl: Abba FAther,
I pray you keep a good watch on my friend, Coleete. I will not try to pull her back into this realm....I will try to ascend and reach her up in her realm. For this realm is no longer for her...I release her with love into your good hands, Father God.

Amen.


Thank you Calliope, I let her go today. Yesterday, was too shocked.
I know she is in a better place. Maybe it was meant to happen, who knows.
My friends and I are just sickened that her family was not helping her more after he came home from the hospital. Instead, they wanted her to do things for them. She was a person who took good care of her family. But she is free of that now.

The Dobe
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Dec 4, 2011 2:50 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
doberman3: We were in a close group of girlfriends. Mysteriously brought together. We laughed, talked about problems, etc. We were tight.
Now we have lost Coleete. People are not replaceable. She was such a good person. Her health had gotten bad, a kidney transplant was starting to not work. I am lucky I can see her face.
I lost another good girlfriend several years ago. She always had a smile on her face and supported her friends. We became very close. But she died of cancer.
It's hard to understand why the really good people die soon. Seems like the bad ones, keep on going.

Meeting with friends of our group, not the Stepford Wifes to be together today. Funeral coming up.

Any of you that believe in prayer or other, please think of my friend Colette. She was kind to everyone and had the best sense of humor.

L The Dobe
They say life is short, so contact a friend soon and tell them you love them. Time waits for no one.


hug hug hug

Sorry to hear....
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Dec 4, 2011 3:47 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Hi Dobe, it's always sad to lose anyone so early in their life.

I hope you don't mind but I posted this to remind people of how short life is for some folks. Take carehug

Slow
Dance

This is a poem
written by a teenager with cancer.


This poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a
New York Hospital.



SLOW DANCE

Have you ever
watched
kids
On a merry-go-round ?

Or listened to
the
rain
Slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a
butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the
fading
night?

You better slow down.
Don't
dance so
fast.
Time is short.
The music
won't
last.

Do you run through each day
On
the
fly?

When you ask How are you?
Do you hear
the
reply?

When the day is done
Do you lie
in your
bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through
your head?

You'd better
slow down
Don't dance so
fast.
Time is
short.
The music won't
last.



Ever told your
child,
We'll do it
tomorrow?
And in your
haste,
Not see
his
sorrow?

Ever lost
touch,
Let a good
friendship die
Cause you
never had time
To call
and say,'Hi'

You'd
better slow down.
Don't dance
so fast.
Time
is short.
The music won't
last..

When you run
so fast to get somewhere
You
miss half the fun of getting
there.

When you worry and hurry
through your
day,
It is like an unopened
gift....
Thrown
away.

Life is not a
race.
Do take it
slower
Hear the
music
Before the song is
over.
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Dec 4, 2011 3:53 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
alonerdo
alonerdoalonerdoHuixquilucan, Mexico State Mexico3 Threads 1 Polls 228 Posts
The Dobe, my condolences for the loss of your friend! sad flower
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Dec 4, 2011 3:57 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
My sincerest condolenses on your loss. How difficult this will be for her loved ones, especially at this time of year.

Sincerely,

Imma
hug
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Dec 4, 2011 5:38 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
i know it means nothing to u as we done converse at all..be my condolences..i suggest you keep you thoughts and stories of her happy ones...hows that prayer go do not weep at me grave for i am not there...
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Dec 4, 2011 5:48 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Dobey, Rock and Chris,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your good friends.

hug
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Dec 4, 2011 8:16 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
Hi all, will get back on in a couple of hours, got to go to be with my Dobie Rescue group for an event.

This is what CS is about. If you stick to the forums, you become friends. Then at a time like this, you can post about something going on in your life and friends answer. Thank you so much.

Lynda
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Dec 4, 2011 8:20 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
bestbefore: Hi Dobe, it's always sad to lose anyone so early in their life.

I hope you don't mind but I posted this to remind people of how short life is for some folks. Take care

Slow
Dance

This is a poem
written by a teenager with cancer.This poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a
New York Hospital.
SLOW DANCE

Have you ever
watched
kids
On a merry-go-round ?

Or listened to
the
rain
Slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a
butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the
fading
night?

You better slow down.
Don't
dance so
fast.
Time is short.
The music
won't
last.

Do you run through each day
On
the
fly?

When you ask How are you?
Do you hear
the
reply?

When the day is done
Do you lie
in your
bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through
your head?

You'd better
slow down
Don't dance so
fast.
Time is
short.
The music won't
last.
Ever told your
child,
We'll do it
tomorrow?
And in your
haste,
Not see
his
sorrow?

Ever lost
touch,
Let a good
friendship die
Cause you
never had time
To call
and say,'Hi'

You'd
better slow down.
Don't dance
so fast.
Time
is short.
The music won't
last..

When you run
so fast to get somewhere
You
miss half the fun of getting
there.

When you worry and hurry
through your
day,
It is like an unopened
gift....
Thrown
away.

Life is not a
race.
Do take it
slower
Hear the
music
Before the song is
over.


I had to answer this from Best. What a meaningfull poem. This is the topic my friends and I were talking about - make your time count, stop the rushing. Don't take people for granted.
Thanks so much Bestbefore.

Now Best, why are you Bestbefore, you are Bestnow!


Lynda
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Dec 4, 2011 1:51 PM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
hug sad flower sad flower
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Dec 6, 2011 12:04 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
yabbadabbadont: Sorry to hear....


Thanks Yabba, the funeral will be Saturday. The strange thing is she will be at a cementary right next to the propery where my Master Gardener demo garden and library are.
I will be able to put down flowers whenever I want.

The Dobe
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Dec 6, 2011 12:05 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
alonerdo: The Dobe, my condolences for the loss of your friend!


Thank you Alonerdo. I was lucky to met her.

The Dobe
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Dec 6, 2011 12:08 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
immanuelle: My sincerest condolenses on your loss. How difficult this will be for her loved ones, especially at this time of year.

Sincerely,

Imma


Imma, thank you. Yes, it was Dec 1. A bad time of year. But, she needed a break from suffering. She had a kidney transplant and was having problems. So she would have had to wait and see about that and all the rest. She had a kidney transplant 23 years ago and it was always touch and go. Plus being diabetic. That is a hard life.

The Dobe
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Dec 6, 2011 12:17 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
jac379: Dobey, Rock and Chris,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your good friends.


Jac, thank you. I was surprised Rock and Chris had the same thing happen. Our group of ladies were lucky to have Colette in our group.
She had alot of health problems but never let on to it. One of us would pick her up for lunch or dinner. I find happiness in knowing she wanted to be around us. We are a silly bunch. One time we were at a restaurant and talking about men, and cracking up. We noticed 2 men move from one table to be right next to us so they could hear what was going on.
That really made us laugh.

sad flower The Dobe
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Dec 6, 2011 12:23 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
no thanks to me?guess i boogered the topic up...will not happen again miss l....my apologies...
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Dec 6, 2011 8:49 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
doberman3: We were in a close group of girlfriends. Mysteriously brought together. We laughed, talked about problems, etc. We were tight.
Now we have lost Coleete. People are not replaceable. She was such a good person. Her health had gotten bad, a kidney transplant was starting to not work. I am lucky I can see her face.
I lost another good girlfriend several years ago. She always had a smile on her face and supported her friends. We became very close. But she died of cancer.
It's hard to understand why the really good people die soon. Seems like the bad ones, keep on going.

Meeting with friends of our group, not the Stepford Wifes to be together today. Funeral coming up.

Any of you that believe in prayer or other, please think of my friend Colette. She was kind to everyone and had the best sense of humor.

L The Dobe
They say life is short, so contact a friend soon and tell them you love them. Time waits for no one.




Sorry for the lose of your friend.I've heard we're never promised tomorrow.It's important to show that person you love them cause one never knows when it may the very last time you will ever get that chance again.
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Dec 6, 2011 1:27 PM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
I am newly back but for Dober and the rest fo the people who have lost someone recently, I am so very sorry for your loss.
I lost someone on Sat. to Suicide and last month and 1 to cancer and another suicide, so I have a feeling what you all are going through.

True friends are like diamonds,
Precious and rare,
False friends are like autum leaves,
Found everywhere.

comfort
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Dec 6, 2011 1:45 PM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
For all my CS friends who lost a loved one...sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower

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Dec 6, 2011 1:48 PM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
The memories will last forever and your dear friend's spirit will sorely be missed.
Reminisce about all the good times you shared together , i know this helped me in the loss of my dear friend a while back .

I am sorry for your Loss Dobe sad flower teddybear
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