Woman and the search for truth (71)
patmac: He reminds me of this lad:http://youtu.be/skU-jBFzXl0
That was funny!! 
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Because men hate truth!
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EagleWoman: May be also there could have been something on his mind to do with his past that he was not able to share and the fact you thought you'd done something wrong made you feel like tiptoeing. But troubled minds often fall into mind game patterns.
Whichever way you look at it ... YOU did nothing wrong!!
Whichever way you look at it ... YOU did nothing wrong!!
Thanks again. I just thought if I didn't tip toe around the person; that it would only make things worse. Perhaps this comes from my childhood as the last thing I wanted to do was make my dad any angrier as that meant even more beatings.
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Awww! I am bad....The guts of the point would be ....
Woman in the profiles and in life will never state...
I AM LOOKING TO BE CARED FOR ,COVERED IN GIFTS,NOT TO WORK..
Their profile might read as ...........Single female looking looking for male financially secure .."translates"..afford to support me as I come with nothing to share financial.
............Not life baggage and to be happy with in them selves and to whom they are "trans..." I have baggage so get over it ...take me as I come and agree with all I say..
Men rarely take the opitunity to express this. So to be so bold I have done the direct approuch in my profile , to eliminate or to remove this social misconception, that males have needs too and are not an item to be selected like items in a store......charm us and be direct we might just suprise you.
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aathought: Awww! I am bad....The guts of the point would be ....
Woman in the profiles and in life will never state...
I AM LOOKING TO BE CARED FOR ,COVERED IN GIFTS,NOT TO WORK..
Their profile might read as ...........Single female looking looking for male financially secure .."translates"..afford to support me as I come with nothing to share financial.
............Not life baggage and to be happy with in them selves and to whom they are "trans..." I have baggage so get over it ...take me as I come and agree with all I say..
Men rarely take the opitunity to express this. So to be so bold I have done the direct approuch in my profile , to eliminate or to remove this social misconception, that males have needs too and are not an item to be selected like items in a store......charm us and be direct we might just suprise you.
Woman in the profiles and in life will never state...
I AM LOOKING TO BE CARED FOR ,COVERED IN GIFTS,NOT TO WORK..
Their profile might read as ...........Single female looking looking for male financially secure .."translates"..afford to support me as I come with nothing to share financial.
............Not life baggage and to be happy with in them selves and to whom they are "trans..." I have baggage so get over it ...take me as I come and agree with all I say..
Men rarely take the opitunity to express this. So to be so bold I have done the direct approuch in my profile , to eliminate or to remove this social misconception, that males have needs too and are not an item to be selected like items in a store......charm us and be direct we might just suprise you.
OMG, what turnip truck did you fall off? It would be a cold day in hell that any many would take care of me or protect me. As for gifts; I hate receiving gifts for Christmas, birthdays, or even Valentines as my love can't be bought with gifts. Personally; I love to work as it gives me purpose and I don't need to ask a man for money. As for finances; I own my own home, have my own vehicle, and a full time job; as well as I pay all my bills without any man's help. Really; women have baggage and men don't? What a load of manure that is. I have met guys with nothing but baggage and so financially broke that they can't even afford a car. Women don't like men that are doormats either; so why would we want a guy that agrees with what we say. Don't know where you get off generalizing about women. I am here to say that is one of the dumbest posts I have ever read.
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So you are financially independant and have met some men that are broke, you can generalize about men too. Thank you for your thoughts however when you finally decide to go about dating be sure to express this view early in the relationship.The dream I live, is the day I meet my partner, she will be fully informed of my situation and will also love me for who I am and not who I could be or was.
In your words you fall short of stating where or not you would concider a person in a situation lesser than yours, however relish the oportunity to attack .Could that be part of your personallity your negelected to mention.
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Men are like a shadow on the water broken by the wind.
If they were to listen and hear what we say,they would be broken.
that's it scratch your head.
If they were to listen and hear what we say,they would be broken.
that's it scratch your head.In response to: Why do Women never say what they really mean....are they too insecure, or is what they really want in life too embarassing to mention.
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single4ever: Thanks again. I just thought if I didn't tip toe around the person; that it would only make things worse. Perhaps this comes from my childhood as the last thing I wanted to do was make my dad any angrier as that meant even more beatings.
It helps a lot for future relationships to confront our internal fears and patterns that emerged during past traumatic experiences. That way we can own, respect, forgive and heal our behaviours then let go of the fear. It also means we don't project "our stuff" onto others. It's difficult to see who we have in front of us and who we are when everything that happens is rules by patterns put there by hurts and fear.
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aathought: Why do Women never say what they really mean...
Once I had a "not so good" trip with my friend. Then afterwards he asked me how the trip was. I said "it's good BUT.." Before I finished talking he said "that's what I want to hear and no but"
So I guess, sometimes women don't say what they mean because it's useless as men only want to hear what they want to hear .. and NOT what they have to hear..! and I think sometimes men don't say what they mean either for the same reason.. (IMO)
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aathought: Awww! I am bad....The guts of the point would be ....
Woman in the profiles and in life will never state...
I AM LOOKING TO BE CARED FOR ,COVERED IN GIFTS,NOT TO WORK..
Their profile might read as ...........Single female looking looking for male financially secure .."translates"..afford to support me as I come with nothing to share financial... bla..bla..
Woman in the profiles and in life will never state...
I AM LOOKING TO BE CARED FOR ,COVERED IN GIFTS,NOT TO WORK..
Their profile might read as ...........Single female looking looking for male financially secure .."translates"..afford to support me as I come with nothing to share financial... bla..bla..
I can only say "don't always believe what you read..
...as there are scammers too on this site.."
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aathought: Why do Women never say what they really mean....are they too insecure, or is what they really want in life too embarassing to mention.
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aathought: So you are financially independant and have met some men that are broke, you can generalize about men too. Thank you for your thoughts however when you finally decide to go about dating be sure to express this view early in the relationship.
The dream I live, is the day I meet my partner, she will be fully informed of my situation and will also love me for who I am and not who I could be or was.
In your words you fall short of stating where or not you would concider a person in a situation lesser than yours, however relish the oportunity to attack .Could that be part of your personallity your negelected to mention.
The dream I live, is the day I meet my partner, she will be fully informed of my situation and will also love me for who I am and not who I could be or was.
In your words you fall short of stating where or not you would concider a person in a situation lesser than yours, however relish the oportunity to attack .Could that be part of your personallity your negelected to mention.
I said its the men I meet; not all men. If I said all men; that is generalizing. Yes, I have dated these men and ended up supporting one of them.
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Yep, Sterling Wollops; this is actually my thoughts too.
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EagleWoman: It helps a lot for future relationships to confront our internal fears and patterns that emerged during past traumatic experiences. That way we can own, respect, forgive and heal our behaviours then let go of the fear. It also means we don't project "our stuff" onto others. It's difficult to see who we have in front of us and who we are when everything that happens is rules by patterns put there by hurts and fear.
I think this is why I chose not to be in a relationship anymore. Goodness knows I tried to be understanding when these things happen but I do have my breaking point. I understand when someone comes on this site and frustrated with dating as it seems the harder you try; the more you fail. This being said; I know both people in the relationship contribute to the failure of the relationship as its rarely only one's fault. I honestly don't think I have anything to give to a relationship anymore but I know I can give to my community. I have found a great satisfaction working with charities, playing with my band, and teaching another band. I like being able to help others and I wonder if this is why I was meant to be single so I can devote my time to others and help. It became obvious last year when a 5 year old child from a poor family gave me a big hug because I handed her a 2 cent candy cane that there is a greater purpose in life than simply meeting one's soul mate.
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single4ever: I said its the men I meet; not all men. If I said all men; that is generalizing. Yes, I have dated these men and ended up supporting one of them.
support in wat waay? if you say you arefragile how can you support someone else?
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cloud747: support in wat waay? if you say you arefragile how can you support someone else?
I had to pay all the bills because he kept losing his job. I did the housework, renos, cooking, and yardwork because he was incapable. I never said I was fragile.
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single4ever: I had to pay all the bills because he kept losing his job. I did the housework, renos, cooking, and yardwork because he was incapable. I never said I was fragile.
HE?? who's he? your husband?
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cloud747: HE?? who's he? your husband?
No he is an ex-boyfriend who came to live with me in my house.
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Whichever way you look at it ... YOU did nothing wrong!!
He reminds me of this lad: