I am not afraid. I am fine with being alone, I have been alone for over ten months now. Didn't look, didn't date. But I know that I have the desire to share my love with someone special. Whoever that may be.
When the night has come And the land is dark And the moon is the only light we'll see No, I won't be afraid Oh, I won't be afraid Just as long as you stand, stand by me So, darling, darling
Stand by me Oh, stand by me Oh, stand Stand by me Stand by me
If the sky that we look upon Should tumble and fall Or the mountains should crumble to the sea I won't cry, I won't cry No, I won't shed a tear Just as long as you stand, stand by me And, darling, darling
Well, in light of some information I recently discovered.....I may have an answer. You see....I have been going about it the wrong way. But 2 yrs ago I had a girl friend who had a young baby. With this baby i discovered what UNCONDITIONAL love is. I didn't want anything back....I just wanted to see her happy and healthy.-------The reason my relationships have been going bad is because I have been taking a more consumer attitude into it. You know.....I'll give you this......but I want that..... I'll provide these....but I want those......That sort of thing. The reason it worked with the child is because I GAVE the love to her. Nothing expected back. I just liked seeing the child happy. In return she called me dada. Well worth it... Anyways, to say I would be willing to love now means that I would be willing to GIVE love. Nothing expected. Just UNCONDITIONAL care for another human being.....regardless of dividends. I am not sure. Do I have the capability to accept the responsibility to give love. Will I mess it up with expectations and desires? Probably. I am not perfect. But who knows, I might just get better at it.
Im not afraid of it, just wondering if it realy exists. Or is it a myth, placed on us men/Ladies too drive us crazy trying to find it. See ladies I also include you.
yes i think i am afraid - the problem is once uve realised uve made a mistake n u wanna be with the person , would u tell them and risk losing a friendship when they've jus started dating someone else?
I was at first because I didn't know how to feel that way and afraid he would not love me back. But now that I did it feels so right and would not give it back for the world!!
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