The Billion Dollar dating question!!! (15)
IMunbreakable1Utica, New York USA8 Threads 4 Polls 110 PostsSo, if most everyone wants to find that special person to spend the rest of their life with, why is that so many many people play mind games, lie, cheat, etc. Wouldn't it be easier just to love the person and be honest so that both of you are happy?
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I am still trying to figure that out. Seems every man I meet, lies, cheats or both
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Dreamyone: I am still trying to figure that out. Seems every man I meet, lies, cheats or both
Same for the women I meet..Some of them are even married and lie about it..Other just trying to play mind games.. I don't get it. Why would someone intentionally want to hurt someone?
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IMunbreakable1: So, if most everyone wants to find that special person to spend the rest of their life with, why is that so many many people play mind games, lie, cheat, etc. Wouldn't it be easier just to love the person and be honest so that both of you are happy?
Verrrry interesting question! I never really thought about it from that point-of-view.
But anyway, the answer is quite simple: It is all down to the fact that.... **some text missing**...
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IMunbreakable1: So, if most everyone wants to find that special person to spend the rest of their life with, why is that so many many people play mind games, lie, cheat, etc. Wouldn't it be easier just to love the person and be honest so that both of you are happy?
No billion dollars for me cuz I don't know either
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IMunbreakable1: Same for the women I meet..Some of them are even married and lie about it..Other just trying to play mind games.. I don't get it. Why would someone intentionally want to hurt someone?
I have no idea what goes through a person's mind as to why they intentionally hurt someone. I often wondered if because they were hurt that they are taking out their frustrations on others. I also think some aren't sure if they want a relationship and then once they get into one; they get "cold feet" and call it off. Mind you; its just me guessing. I know for sure I don't want a relationship but I at least have the smarts to not lead anyone on.
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The way of the world unfortunately.....
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Actually with regards to the mind games and cheating, isn't there a school of thought that men are "hard-wired", in a sense, to want to get with as many women as possible.. Kinda like the animal kingdom where a male "makes love" to all the fertile females in his pride/herd/flock etc...?
Perhaps us men are kinda "programmed" to want to be with as many women as possible. That's my take on it anyway
I have no explanation for the women! lol
Perhaps us men are kinda "programmed" to want to be with as many women as possible. That's my take on it anyway
I have no explanation for the women! lol
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Youdneverguess: Actually with regards to the mind games and cheating, isn't there a school of thought that men are "hard-wired", in a sense, to want to get with as many women as possible.. Kinda like the animal kingdom where a male "makes love" to all the fertile females in his pride/herd/flock etc...?
Perhaps us men are kinda "programmed" to want to be with as many women as possible. That's my take on it anyway
I have no explanation for the women! lol
Perhaps us men are kinda "programmed" to want to be with as many women as possible. That's my take on it anyway
I have no explanation for the women! lol
Maybe so but those guys should just stay single...As for the women..Well, I dont know what to say except for.. DATING SUCKS!!!
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IMunbreakable1: Same for the women I meet..Some of them are even married and lie about it..Other just trying to play mind games.. I don't get it. Why would someone intentionally want to hurt someone?
I think in that one perspective men and women are equal. I would never do it and can't figure out why anyone would
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Youdneverguess: Actually with regards to the mind games and cheating, isn't there a school of thought that men are "hard-wired", in a sense, to want to get with as many women as possible.. Kinda like the animal kingdom where a male "makes love" to all the fertile females in his pride/herd/flock etc...?
Perhaps us men are kinda "programmed" to want to be with as many women as possible. That's my take on it anyway
I have no explanation for the women! lol
Perhaps us men are kinda "programmed" to want to be with as many women as possible. That's my take on it anyway
I have no explanation for the women! lol
So, what's wrong with men having a harem?
He should be honest about it, move them all in with him and life is grand. No lies, no one gets hurt and lots of women to share in the housework!
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your question is like asking why did they 10 hotdogs in a pack and 8 hotdog buns....and how many licks does it take to eat a tootsie roll pop ....the answer is the same for all.... the world may never know 
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HealthyLiving: So, what's wrong with men having a harem?
He should be honest about it, move them all in with him and life is grand. No lies, no one gets hurt and lots of women to share in the housework!
He should be honest about it, move them all in with him and life is grand. No lies, no one gets hurt and lots of women to share in the housework!
Lets turn that around {I have the harem and all those wife`s go to work and I will clean the house}
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IMunbreakable1: So, if most everyone wants to find that special person to spend the rest of their life with, why is that so many many people play mind games, lie, cheat, etc. Wouldn't it be easier just to love the person and be honest so that both of you are happy?
Some people see fit to waste years of another person's life. Why is that?
Sometimes people tell me that they find out their entire life with their husband/wife has been a lie. Such a waste, and makes no sense at all.
I despise game playing, yet sometimes, it's under our very nose yet we miss it.
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IMunbreakable1: So, if most everyone wants to find that special person to spend the rest of their life with, why is that so many many people play mind games, lie, cheat, etc. Wouldn't it be easier just to love the person and be honest so that both of you are happy?
this is the one B dollar Q???
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