What is????????????? (58)
josingleinspain:
The reason you want to be with a partner.
to experience love
What do you want from a partner????
their love in return
What will you compromise to be with him/her.
a lot
Why do you want to be part of a pair????
as above, to experience love
The reason you want to be with a partner.
to experience love
What do you want from a partner????
their love in return
What will you compromise to be with him/her.
a lot
Why do you want to be part of a pair????
as above, to experience love
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Totally agree with you, babe...
RD
RD
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To feel whole again for it seems like I have a void & do not expect anything that I couldn't do or give. I would use my experience of those pitfalls of assuming & take for granted.
I hope my twilight zone turns to twilight years..
I hope my twilight zone turns to twilight years..
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Wow........ have to agree, Somehow nothing is really as great if you do it on your own is it????
I love being on my own but having nobody to share the high's and low's I really miss that so much.
I love being on my own but having nobody to share the high's and low's I really miss that so much.
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josingleinspain: The reason you want to be with a partner.
What do you want from a partner????
What will you compromise to be with him/her.
Why do you want to be part of a pair????
What do you want from a partner????
What will you compromise to be with him/her.
Why do you want to be part of a pair????
1 to share ..
2 to share...
3 everything...within reason
4 to share ...
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josingleinspain: Wow........ have to agree, Somehow nothing is really as great if you do it on your own is it????
I love being on my own but having nobody to share the high's and low's I really miss that so much.
I love being on my own but having nobody to share the high's and low's I really miss that so much.
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givenup61: 1 to share ..
2 to share...
3 everything...within reason
4 to share ...
2 to share...
3 everything...within reason
4 to share ...
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To share..Love
..Lots..To feel complete
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josingleinspain: The reason you want to be with a partner.
What do you want from a partner????
What will you compromise to be with him/her.
Why do you want to be part of a pair????
What do you want from a partner????
What will you compromise to be with him/her.
Why do you want to be part of a pair????
Are those trick questions?
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Mermaidon: Are those trick questions?
Absolutely, and after repeated questioning, you're answer will magically end up always being Yes Dear.
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marijo70: Totally agree with you, babe...
RD
RD
... mi amor .... Hi Jo,
These same questions of yours have plagued me for a long time and were a constant pest to me during my transition back into living life as a singleton again. Something I was determined to master, and did, but by perhaps answering all those questions with the negative aspects of being in a relationship, to justify to myself the choice of going it solo. I'm not going to list them, I'm sure most of us have all been there., but in summary my resultant attitude was, "I don't need a partner, I'm better off without one". Mental self preservation I suppose.
So, I achieve this independent place and start to actually feel quite smug about it.
And then what goes and bloody happens ! This CS Spanish bird comes to visit town and ruins it all.
We meet for a coffee and then twang, Cupids bow lets fly and the arrow gets me, bullseye !
I've heard it said that love can appear when you are not looking and for me this is true. I must have been lying to myself, thinking I didn't need it or that I could suppress it. Back to that self preservation thing again !
So I hope many that might be in a similar position to me can take heart from this wee cs love story. Meeting though is the key and making that all important connection.
Thank you for finding and flicking my switch marijo70 ....
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Mermaidon: Are those trick questions?
No way no trick questions simply trying to find out why us humans need to be part of a pair.------ This thread is Archived ------
josingleinspain: No way no trick questions simply trying to find out why us humans need to be part of a pair.
1 shoe or 1 sock is not good....
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I want the little things in life. Like sitting on the couch together, sharing a meal together, laughing together,holding hands....loving.
I think DrBombay said it well when he said, "To feel whole again" and Given up when he said, "Share".
I think DrBombay said it well when he said, "To feel whole again" and Given up when he said, "Share".
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kidatheart: Absolutely, and after repeated questioning, you're answer will magically end up always being Yes Dear.
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josingleinspain: No way no trick questions simply trying to find out why us humans need to be part of a pair.
Not only do we need to be part of a pair, but we also need to be part of a family and a cummunity.
It's Human Nature. It doesn't explain itself, that's just the way we are.
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to feel real content.....with life ...love...with the partner .....you know ....that can make that happen.....so simple really......but hard it seems for it to happen..... 
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RDM59: ... mi amor ....
Hi Jo,
These same questions of yours have plagued me for a long time and were a constant pest to me during my transition back into living life as a singleton again. Something I was determined to master, and did, but by perhaps answering all those questions with the negative aspects of being in a relationship, to justify to myself the choice of going it solo. I'm not going to list them, I'm sure most of us have all been there., but in summary my resultant attitude was, "I don't need a partner, I'm better off without one". Mental self preservation I suppose.
So, I achieve this independent place and start to actually feel quite smug about it.
And then what goes and bloody happens ! This CS Spanish bird comes to visit town and ruins it all.
We meet for a coffee and then twang, Cupids bow lets fly and the arrow gets me, bullseye !
I've heard it said that love can appear when you are not looking and for me this is true. I must have been lying to myself, thinking I didn't need it or that I could suppress it. Back to that self preservation thing again !
So I hope many that might be in a similar position to me can take heart from this wee cs love story. Meeting though is the key and making that all important connection.
Thank you for finding and flicking my switch marijo70 .... Te quiero
Hi Jo,
These same questions of yours have plagued me for a long time and were a constant pest to me during my transition back into living life as a singleton again. Something I was determined to master, and did, but by perhaps answering all those questions with the negative aspects of being in a relationship, to justify to myself the choice of going it solo. I'm not going to list them, I'm sure most of us have all been there., but in summary my resultant attitude was, "I don't need a partner, I'm better off without one". Mental self preservation I suppose.
So, I achieve this independent place and start to actually feel quite smug about it.
And then what goes and bloody happens ! This CS Spanish bird comes to visit town and ruins it all.
We meet for a coffee and then twang, Cupids bow lets fly and the arrow gets me, bullseye !
I've heard it said that love can appear when you are not looking and for me this is true. I must have been lying to myself, thinking I didn't need it or that I could suppress it. Back to that self preservation thing again !
So I hope many that might be in a similar position to me can take heart from this wee cs love story. Meeting though is the key and making that all important connection.
Thank you for finding and flicking my switch marijo70 .... Te quiero
Im so happy for you RD I cant think of anyone who deserves it more...She is one lucky lady
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What do you want from a partner????
What will you compromise to be with him/her.
Why do you want to be part of a pair????