The Nice Person (29)
How else would you like to be seen Lorraine?
Hi "Shy" (I think that your name is Angela - correct me if I am wrong),
Good input for me - thanks. I admit - I was "ranting" a bit.
I will have to think of an appropriate answer to your question.
I just get frustrated at times - I am "always" seen as "the nice one". For now, I guess I could write that I would like to be seen as "the desired one" by a tall man who does not smoke.
Thanks for "putting up with me",
Lorraine.
Good input for me - thanks. I admit - I was "ranting" a bit.
I will have to think of an appropriate answer to your question.
I just get frustrated at times - I am "always" seen as "the nice one". For now, I guess I could write that I would like to be seen as "the desired one" by a tall man who does not smoke.
Thanks for "putting up with me",
Lorraine.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be seen as the desired one.
And I think there a quite a few man out there who don't smoke. Don't know bout the height though....
I think I've said it before. I believe that everything happens for a reason and in it's own time. Which is unfortunatly not always when we think we are ready. But that is my believe.....
And yea my name is Angela
And I think there a quite a few man out there who don't smoke. Don't know bout the height though....
I think I've said it before. I believe that everything happens for a reason and in it's own time. Which is unfortunatly not always when we think we are ready. But that is my believe.....
And yea my name is Angela
Its funny how when we want something so bad it does not happen but when we do not focus so much on it......... it does.
Keep the Faith!
Keep the Faith!
That's also very true....
Hi Lorraine,...I have to admit Angela said exactly what I was thinking..."how do you want to be seen?"
There is nothing wrong with having certain "standards" for yourself and knowing what your "needs" are to be comfortable in a relationship...and i'm not saying you should compromise any of them, but rather re-evaluate what's really important...
Smoking is a habit that can be broken...a profile can say someone is a smoker today...and next week that person has decided to "kick the habit" unfortunately there will be some that have already overlooked that profile based on that habit...
Height is an unbreakable "issue"...and one you need to decide whether or not it is important enough to you to overlook someone who may have otherwise been a good match for you....
Don't apologize for knowing what your "needs" are...those are the things you can "help" before getting into a relationship, with all the other issues to deal with in a new relationship, you don't need to be going into one with things you already know will be a problem for you...
There is nothing wrong with having certain "standards" for yourself and knowing what your "needs" are to be comfortable in a relationship...and i'm not saying you should compromise any of them, but rather re-evaluate what's really important...
Smoking is a habit that can be broken...a profile can say someone is a smoker today...and next week that person has decided to "kick the habit" unfortunately there will be some that have already overlooked that profile based on that habit...
Height is an unbreakable "issue"...and one you need to decide whether or not it is important enough to you to overlook someone who may have otherwise been a good match for you....
Don't apologize for knowing what your "needs" are...those are the things you can "help" before getting into a relationship, with all the other issues to deal with in a new relationship, you don't need to be going into one with things you already know will be a problem for you...
A new profile, a new picture, just change things up a bit, may help too, but don't stray away from the real you...
i do somewhat agree with you on the "nice" aspect. I HATE "your such a nice guy but" crap..
why is it most women like the bad boy image while knowing full well that they will be hurt by them in the end.
why is it most women like the bad boy image while knowing full well that they will be hurt by them in the end.Hey Lorraine
I hear ya on that...... me too, I was "sick and tired" of being sick and tired!
it isn't difficult to find a man who is tall and a non smoker.....patience is a virtue and things will speed up
spice it up a notch! STOP being sick and tired, STOP being so nice when all you must be is yourself, STOP trying to find a particular TYPE of man and STOP RIGH THERE!
Pull up your socks, get rid of the "sick and tired' and like one of the people here on Cs stated, (I think it was ontarioman), get some new pics posted, don't make the list too long and maybe (both you and I) we should look THREE times in the mirror when we are running out to get some groceries and NOT in our lounge wear......we just may hit the jackpot! TALL MAN, COMPASSIONATE, KIND AND NON SMOKER!
I hear ya on that...... me too, I was "sick and tired" of being sick and tired!
it isn't difficult to find a man who is tall and a non smoker.....patience is a virtue and things will speed up
spice it up a notch! STOP being sick and tired, STOP being so nice when all you must be is yourself, STOP trying to find a particular TYPE of man and STOP RIGH THERE!
Pull up your socks, get rid of the "sick and tired' and like one of the people here on Cs stated, (I think it was ontarioman), get some new pics posted, don't make the list too long and maybe (both you and I) we should look THREE times in the mirror when we are running out to get some groceries and NOT in our lounge wear......we just may hit the jackpot! TALL MAN, COMPASSIONATE, KIND AND NON SMOKER!
Well i've gone to the grocery in my "pajamas" before...I think i "pick up" more men in that...hmmmm...
What grocery store...? They have stairs there?
Hi,
Thanks to all of you for taking the time to write your advice.
Regards,
Lorraine.
Thanks to all of you for taking the time to write your advice.
Regards,
Lorraine.
No they do not you bad man....
And i wear pajama pants!!!
And i wear pajama pants!!!
no holes in those pj's i suppose
whoa, PUCKS!
was that YOU at Dominion last saturday? I KNEW you looked familiar....now my secret is out!
was that YOU at Dominion last saturday? I KNEW you looked familiar....now my secret is out!
Hi Lorraine..whats up? Its not difficult to find such a man...its IMPOSSIBLE to find one like that just joking. Being that so called "nice person " isnt really all that bad is it? Im personally very attracted to nice women like you 
...its a good quality i think. I guess i have to ask that question too Lorraine ...How do you want to be seen?...something to think about :)
I cant tolerate smoking sometimes either... and i smoke lol ...been smoking since 12 yrs old but every yr that goes by i get more tired of it so maybe i'll actually quit one day...so its possible for smokers to quit ...keep that in mind when looking through porfiles ok. I have a friend thats 6'6" doesnt smoke, he's well built,good looking, works hard, drinks milk and water by the gallon lol...hey maybe i should ask him out ...what im trying to say is there ARE men out there that are taller than you, non smokers (or thinking of quiting)nice ...etc...etc
Just dont give up whatever you do and Mr.right will find you...if you dont find him first lol. Best of luck Lorraine! and Have a good day ok...cya spidermanJim :)
just joking. Being that so called "nice person " isnt really all that bad is it? Im personally very attracted to nice women like you ...its a good quality i think. I guess i have to ask that question too Lorraine ...How do you want to be seen?...something to think about :) I cant tolerate smoking sometimes either... and i smoke lol ...been smoking since 12 yrs old but every yr that goes by i get more tired of it so maybe i'll actually quit one day...so its possible for smokers to quit ...keep that in mind when looking through porfiles ok. I have a friend thats 6'6" doesnt smoke, he's well built,good looking, works hard, drinks milk and water by the gallon lol...hey maybe i should ask him out
...what im trying to say is there ARE men out there that are taller than you, non smokers (or thinking of quiting)nice ...etc...etcJust dont give up whatever you do and Mr.right will find you...if you dont find him first lol. Best of luck Lorraine! and Have a good day ok...cya spidermanJim :)
I do not wear ANY clothes that has a hole in them...
Well my pajama pants may be white cotton eyelet lace...ummm..and i might have pretty thongs on underneath....but i'm pretty sure the looks i get is just because i'm so pleasant even first thing in the morning....
Gotta love a LaSenza girl!!
Well my pajama pants may be white cotton eyelet lace...ummm..and i might have pretty thongs on underneath....but i'm pretty sure the looks i get is just because i'm so pleasant even first thing in the morning....
Gotta love a LaSenza girl!!
I agree with Darren. I find that if we set too many expectations or happen to search too hard then we tend to get frustrated and get negative.
Don't worry about yourself. In order to be able to love someone else you need to love yourself first.
I know how you feel about being the "nice gal" I get a lot of compliments saying I am "nice and cute" and sometimes I want to puke lol because it makes me feel like I am being compared to a cute little puppy dog or something.
And it also wouldn't hurt to play around with your profile, like add new pictures, add something fun and new to your profile. I try to do that once in awhile and I do find I get noticed for it. So who knows right?
Don't worry about yourself. In order to be able to love someone else you need to love yourself first.
I know how you feel about being the "nice gal" I get a lot of compliments saying I am "nice and cute" and sometimes I want to puke lol because it makes me feel like I am being compared to a cute little puppy dog or something.
And it also wouldn't hurt to play around with your profile, like add new pictures, add something fun and new to your profile. I try to do that once in awhile and I do find I get noticed for it. So who knows right?
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