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im easy going enough about it either way !! the masses and stuff kind of help people along the grieving process a little bit i think , those three days and the different stages of a chatolic funeral are theraputic to some , they can pay their respects and loved ones come together ... sometimes a whole community comes out to show their respect and that too can be comforting ... so i dont mind so much really , plus my parents would prob loose my ashes if i got cremated