Predicament (84)

May 16, 2012 6:09 AM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin
May 16, 2012 6:11 AM CST Predicament
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Theoneucanthate: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin


Stop watching Home and Away professor
May 16, 2012 6:11 AM CST Predicament
sofarsogood74
sofarsogood74sofarsogood74Dublin, Ireland40 Threads 4 Polls 2,711 Posts
Theoneucanthate: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin


Can you get married that quickly? She would know she was pregnant within a month of sleeping with the other guy. You need to get a licence and book a register office and stuff. I am not sure its possible really.
May 16, 2012 6:12 AM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin
Depends. Its a hot topic really. Me personally id take the child as my own as long as the other person isnt involved at all.
May 16, 2012 6:13 AM CST Predicament
vinny1967: Stop watching Home and Away
Is that what its from rolling on the floor laughing Still a good topic
May 16, 2012 6:20 AM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
vinny1967: Stop watching Home and Away
Well spotted lol still a hot topic that I bet happens in real life
May 16, 2012 6:21 AM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
Maverick147: Depends. Its a hot topic really. Me personally id take the child as my own as long as the other person isnt involved at all.
Personally I believe every man has the right to no if he is going to be a father
May 16, 2012 6:23 AM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate: Personally I believe every man has the right to no if he is going to be a father
Yeh true but if this was a guy you really really hated for one reason or another.... would you want him to know. If im taking the child on as my own... no.
May 16, 2012 6:23 AM CST Predicament
Nexcare
NexcareNexcareDublin, Ireland4 Threads 276 Posts
I'd raise the child like it was my own, and if anyone had anything to say about that I'd say she was touched by the holy ghost! professor
May 16, 2012 6:29 AM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
Maverick147: Yeh true but if this was a guy you really really hated for one reason or another.... would you want him to know. If im taking the child on as my own... no.
fair point. I personally wouldn't take another mans child on
May 16, 2012 6:33 AM CST Predicament
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin[/quote

I could not handle that, if the kid wasn't mine I would throw her out of the house so fast her feet wouldn't touch the ground. I would be interested to find out how a divorce would work, would she be entitled to any of my money??? Or could I have the marriage annulled??dunno
May 16, 2012 6:38 AM CST Predicament
Princesspea
PrincesspeaPrincesspeaWicklow, Ireland7 Posts
I'd get out of that situation as quick as possible. there will always be trust issues there and niether of you would every be happy and no child deserves to be born into that
May 16, 2012 6:39 AM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
stanley8m: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin[/quote

I could not handle that, if the kid wasn't mine I would throw her out of the house so fast her feet wouldn't touch the ground. I would be interested to find out how a divorce would work, would she be entitled to any of my money??? Or could I have the marriage annulled??
I'm not sure but if I was in that predicament there is no way I could bring up a kid from a lad who I dispise
May 16, 2012 6:40 AM CST Predicament
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Theoneucanthate: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin


Hard call to make to be honest. I guess if I loved her enough to marry her I would stick around but it's hard to know what anyone would do in a given hypothetical situation.
May 16, 2012 6:40 AM CST Predicament
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Theoneucanthate: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin


Hard call to make to be honest. I guess if I loved her enough to marry her I would stick around but it's hard to know what anyone would do in a given hypothetical situation.
May 16, 2012 6:47 AM CST Predicament
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
Nexcare: I'd raise the child like it was my own, and if anyone had anything to say about that I'd say she was touched by the holy ghost!
laugh
May 16, 2012 6:54 AM CST Predicament
vinny1967: Hard call to make to be honest. I guess if I loved her enough to marry her I would stick around but it's hard to know what anyone would do in a given hypothetical situation.
that would be my thought too
May 16, 2012 6:58 AM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
anniebaby: so tell us what would you do?

My cousin lives other end of Ireland and when she was in having her third child. A girl in the bed beside her has a honeymoon baby or so she thought, on her hen nite she had a last fling with a chinese guy. Anyway she had to be sectioned and she nor the new hubby had seen the baby so when it came from the nursery there was a bit of a surprise for both of them. Sadly to say he knocked the hell out of her there and then and the marriage was over.

so yeah some stuff does happen
oh and dont have a fling with a guy who looks nothing like ur hubby to be
I said what I'd do allready
May 16, 2012 6:58 AM CST Predicament
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
anniebaby: so tell us what would you do?

My cousin lives other end of Ireland and when she was in having her third child. A girl in the bed beside her has a honeymoon baby or so she thought, on her hen nite she had a last fling with a chinese guy. Anyway she had to be sectioned and she nor the new hubby had seen the baby so when it came from the nursery there was a bit of a surprise for both of them. Sadly to say he knocked the hell out of her there and then and the marriage was over.

so yeah some stuff does happen
oh and dont have a fling with a guy who looks nothing like ur hubby to be


laugh Jeez I can imagine the scene.

As they say your only ever 100 % who the mother is uh oh
May 16, 2012 7:00 AM CST Predicament
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
anniebaby: so tell us what would you do?

My cousin lives other end of Ireland and when she was in having her third child. A girl in the bed beside her has a honeymoon baby or so she thought, on her hen nite she had a last fling with a chinese guy. Anyway she had to be sectioned and she nor the new hubby had seen the baby so when it came from the nursery there was a bit of a surprise for both of them. Sadly to say he knocked the hell out of her there and then and the marriage was over.

so yeah some stuff does happen
oh and dont have a fling with a guy who looks nothing like ur hubby to be


How can you say SADLY when the poor innocent bloke had been fooled and mistreated by a slapper with the morals of an alleycat, I wouldn't have hit her but I would have told her exactly what I thought of her before dumping her..
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