Predicament (84)

May 16, 2012 8:26 AM CST Predicament
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
ellimere: i dont think its fair to call anybody a slapper , why are you so quick to label other people !!

if you think she deserved the beating , well that just says more about you !! why lash back at all , why not walk away with your dignity intact ? instead of lowering yourself to that kind of level ?


She deserved punishment for what she done, as I said I would have tore the rings off her finger and sold them, hurt her financially and any way I could as punishment. if that bloke lived his life in a violent way then that was his way of punishing her, and don't be ridiculous, of course she is a slapper
May 16, 2012 8:32 AM CST Predicament
stanley8m: She deserved punishment for what she done, as I said I would have tore the rings off her finger and sold them, hurt her financially and any way I could as punishment. if that bloke lived his life in a violent way then that was his way of punishing her, and don't be ridiculous, of course she is a slapper


thats your opinion , in mine she is a person who made a mistake !!

why would you feel the need to punish her ?? why turn yourself into that kind of person ? i dont understand that at all , people hurt us all the time , if we were to wste our time getting them back , we would have no time to live life !! obviously we will never agree on this !

i just hope the woman who got the hell beat out of her , had a couple of brothers nd your man got wy worse than he gave her , no man should ever hit a woman imo !!
May 16, 2012 8:34 AM CST Predicament
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
ellimere: thats your opinion , in mine she is a person who made a mistake !!

why would you feel the need to punish her ?? why turn yourself into that kind of person ? i dont understand that at all , people hurt us all the time , if we were to wste our time getting them back , we would have no time to live life !! obviously we will never agree on this !

i just hope the woman who got the hell beat out of her , had a couple of brothers nd your man got wy worse than he gave her , no man should ever hit a woman imo !!


True we will never agree, thumbs up
May 16, 2012 8:37 AM CST Predicament
stanley8m: True we will never agree,


at least we agree on that rolling on the floor laughing handshake
May 16, 2012 8:50 AM CST Predicament
tallandcute
tallandcutetallandcutegalway, Galway Ireland2 Threads 89 Posts
ellimere: thats your opinion , in mine she is a person who made a mistake !!

why would you feel the need to punish her ?? why turn yourself into that kind of person ? i dont understand that at all , people hurt us all the time , if we were to wste our time getting them back , we would have no time to live life !! obviously we will never agree on this !

i just hope the woman who got the hell beat out of her , had a couple of brothers nd your man got wy worse than he gave her , no man should ever hit a woman imo !!



Sad thing is,if its in a man to beat or hit a woman...its IN HIM..FOR LIFE!!

A friend of mine was married to a guy like this for 5 years with 3 daughters.

After they divorced he went to the UK..
Over the next 10 years he married 2 more women & did the same to both women.

When his 3 daughters reached 18 they went to seek out their "daddy"

Guess what??
Over time he also physically attacked them too.

So,dont waste your time trying to explain to someone that its wrong when they think its right.
very mad
May 16, 2012 8:53 AM CST Predicament
tallandcute: Sad thing is,if its in a man to beat or hit a woman...its IN HIM..FOR LIFE!!

A friend of mine was married to a guy like this for 5 years with 3 daughters.

After they divorced he went to the UK..
Over the next 10 years he married 2 more women & did the same to both women.

When his 3 daughters reached 18 they went to seek out their "daddy"

Guess what??
Over time he also physically attacked them too.

So,dont waste your time trying to explain to someone that its wrong when they think its right.


i agree , once a violent spouse , always a violent spouse . there is no need for violence or indeed even py back , whats done it done and its time to move on !! its all conjecture anyway , nobody knows how they would react in any situation untill they are in the situation.
May 16, 2012 9:21 AM CST Predicament
TierraM
TierraMTierraMLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland5 Threads 39 Posts
Theoneucanthate: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin


Donesn't sound like a good recipe for LOOOVVEEE..!!!, ud really have to be super strong and forgiving as well as madly inlove with ur partner..like forever..would be horrible for the child to be used as a tool to hit each other.....what about the rights of the child..dont they have a right to know ..could save there are life lots of reasons to know where u came from and what u inherit..biological history etc...wave
May 16, 2012 11:37 AM CST Predicament
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
takes 3 months from applying to actual marriage date here in ireland so it prob wouldnt happen..

i know someone who brought up another mans child..

some men see a child..some see a possession.
May 16, 2012 12:35 PM CST Predicament
fifitheminx: yes have it with an orangutan instead..

He'll be discreet about it, at least.
May 16, 2012 12:37 PM CST Predicament
ellimere:
i just hope the woman who got the hell beat out of her , had a couple of brothers nd your man got wy worse than he gave her , no man should ever hit a woman imo !!

If the brothers were any good, they would've carried on where he left off. thumbs up
May 16, 2012 12:38 PM CST Predicament
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
MADDOG69: He'll be discreet about it, at least.


laugh very...
May 16, 2012 12:38 PM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate: i have always watched home and away

In school, I remember our teacher saying to us 'Boys, it doesn't matter how long you watch H&A they will NEVER take their tops off'

There's a lesson there for ya Uno.
May 16, 2012 12:39 PM CST Predicament
RoeDeVinna
RoeDeVinnaRoeDeVinnaDublin, Ireland27 Threads 9 Polls 913 Posts
vinny1967: Stop watching Home and Away



haha.. yeah i was reading it think of Home and Away lol
May 16, 2012 12:42 PM CST Predicament
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
ok..

so u all watch home n away..i did actually wonder why they still show it..now i know why.

shoulda named this thread..confessions of my telly box viewing..
May 16, 2012 12:42 PM CST Predicament
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
Theoneucanthate: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin


If you're any sort of man you just support your wife and her child. I would tell her she should tell the biological father though.
May 16, 2012 12:45 PM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
scriobhneoir: If you're any sort of man you just support your wife and her child. I would tell her she should tell the biological father though.
or ditch her because it will make your relationship miserable for the rest of yer lives, always comming between you
May 16, 2012 12:51 PM CST Predicament
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
Theoneucanthate: or ditch her because it will make your relationship miserable for the rest of yer lives, always comming between you


You asked me a question, I gave you an answer. Anyway any dope stupid enough to be surprised when he takes back his ex and discovers the child isn't his (well duh)only has themselves to blame.
May 16, 2012 12:52 PM CST Predicament
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
scriobhneoir: If you're any sort of man you just support your wife and her child. I would tell her she should tell the biological father though.
id safely say not to many would knowingly do that, there was a survey in the u.k a couple of years ago, apparently either a third or a quarter of men were raising kids that were not their own without them knowing
May 16, 2012 12:52 PM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
scriobhneoir: You asked me a question, I gave you an answer. Anyway any dope stupid enough to be surprised when he takes back his ex and discovers the child isn't his (well duh)only has themselves to blame.
i wouldnt be able to bring up a lads kid who i hate, simples
May 16, 2012 12:55 PM CST Predicament
Theoneucanthate: If you were going out with a girl fellas and then broke up over stupid stuff and in the meantime she slept with the same person twice. You then get back together and marry quickly. She realises she's pregnant and the baby is not yours. It's the other lads child who you dispise. What do u do when ur newly we'd wife tells you?she also says she doesn't want the biological dad noin


sounds like somethin that nearly happened to me..broke up with an ex she hooked up with some some fella a few weeks later..4 months later shes pregnant..breaks up with him and starts texting me asking me how I am bla bla bla...hold on I said something wrong here so I ignored her texts and calls found out a week later she was up the duff and the fella she was with did a runnerrolling on the floor laughing
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