Do you want a man or a woman who ( Archived) (32)

resist you? Obviously not, because you're not interested in forcing yourself on others.

But - do you want a man or a woman who want you? to want you, because you fit or approximate to their shopping list over the qualities necessary or adequate of being a man or a woman in their eyes. But are you their shopping list? is that even possible? if not, will not that relationship as well become a relationship with resistance?

Will you ever see the truth in a relationship with resistance?
Can there be any real honesty without the truth? or relationship without honesty? trust without honesty? I am talking about trust, not thrust, that we can all do a Friday night, even at the toilet in the pub

Of course I want to be with someone who wants me. I want to be in a relationship where the feelings are mutual and they want the same things out of life that I do.
And yes, I need honesty so that there can be trust.

But for what reason? :)

This weekend I went to the nearby city, and noticed that its river had its beach side full of those girls who slips perfectly into a small bikini, and there were a lot of them.

Naturally, after the initial visual, there were contact, and a following sensation, not far away from the flower of sensations. Enough said, however, as I turned and looked away, it was gone, except for a small residue of the visual and the sensation, which by the way is accumulative and adds to what later on would end up on my shopping list.

"Manly" shopping list, but hey, are there any differences to the objects or qualities on the list? just by the fact that they arise like this, and is another cause of resistance, as things inevitably change.

I would say that in a relationship where resistence exists, there will be limited harmony. Most interactions will be the result of "reaction" rather than honesty with self and SO.

IMO

I fail to see ....why...they resist your charms.......neanderthal.man...........

Exactly. How to get rid of it then?

Resistence on the emotional level (just to clarify) is linked to controle issues which usually stem from fear of making oneself vulnerable, or feeling vulnerable or appearing vulnerable.

If you´re self-assured enough (not arrogant) IE trust yourself, the resistence disappears

Resistence on the emotional level (just to clarify) is linked to controle issues which usually stem from fear of making oneself vulnerable, or feeling vulnerable or appearing vulnerable.

If you´re self-assured enough (not arrogant) IE trust yourself, the resistence disappears