Your Ex added on Facebook (110)
baldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Postsperfect9: Just a question thanks for the honest answer.Wouldnt have a problem with it...just came across you were happy with the arrangement ..and were settling for that...
na, its not like this happens every weekend, with kids b,days etc it might happen twice a month, then there could be 2 or more months where we dont see eachother, so i am able to live my own life without any ristrictions as such, i just have an open door for them whenever they want it and the same goes vice versa 
baldydude: na, its not like this happens every weekend, with kids b,days etc it might happen twice a month, then there could be 2 or more months where we dont see eachother, so i am able to live my own life without any ristrictions as such, i just have an open door for them whenever they want it and the same goes vice versa
Sounds like it works well for all concerned Baldy 
If I'm honest I wouldn't sleep in the same house as my ex, I never even lived with the guy we just dated for a few years. Thoughts of seeing him first thing in the morning at breakfast 
celticeyes1: Sounds like it works well for all concerned Baldy If I'm honest I wouldn't sleep in the same house as my ex, I never even lived with the guy we just dated for a few years. Thoughts of seeing him first thing in the morning at breakfast
Horses for courses.....would not want such an arrangement...my children all grown when we parted...so no need for continuing the agony...
All is happy and well in my world...
celticeyes1: Sounds like it works well for all concerned Baldy If I'm honest I wouldn't sleep in the same house as my ex, I never even lived with the guy we just dated for a few years. Thoughts of seeing him first thing in the morning at breakfast
ah it has its perks, they were down last weekend and for whatever reason the ex nd bf were arguing a good bit, at one stage she says to him "ffs your worse than a woman who's having a bad period" ... had to contain myself from bursting out laughing, it was fun to see them tear strips of eachother and it reminded me that perhaps single live aint that bad after all 
baldydude: ah it has its perks, they were down last weekend and for whatever reason the ex nd bf were arguing a good bit, at one stage she says to him "ffs your worse than a woman who's having a bad period" ... had to contain myself from bursting out laughing, it was fun to see them tear strips of eachother and it reminded me that perhaps single live aint that bad after all
The sheer entertainment value of that is priceless celticeyes1: The sheer entertainment value of that is priceless
and i didn't even need a "mastercard" 
baldydude: ah it has its perks, they were down last weekend and for whatever reason the ex nd bf were arguing a good bit, at one stage she says to him "ffs your worse than a woman who's having a bad period" ... had to contain myself from bursting out laughing, it was fun to see them tear strips of eachother and it reminded me that perhaps single live aint that bad after all
Carlsberg don't do ex wives, but if they did........
celticeyes1: If she hasn't answered you maybe she hasn't been on facebook lately Your not blocked so that's a plus
Shes on FB a few times a week. She accepted my oldest wee girl as a friend. She's a stubborn cat, thats what she is.
Phoenix: Shes on FB a few times a week. She accepted my oldest wee girl as a friend. She's a stubborn cat, thats what she is.
Hmm maybe she is thinking about her reply 
Sounds a handfull 
Phoenix: Shes on FB a few times a week. She accepted my oldest wee girl as a friend. She's a stubborn cat, thats what she is.
Why is it so important to make contact,do you need to grovel a little...perhaps apologise for something....help me out here....why is she blanking you..
You must have some idea...
Phoenix: Shes on FB a few times a week. She accepted my oldest wee girl as a friend. She's a stubborn cat, thats what she is.
I sent a friend request to someone on here a few months ago......
I think if they don't see it within a couple of days, it kinda disappears into cyber space......
At least that's what I keep telling myself........MARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
celticeyes1: Hmm maybe she is thinking about her reply Sounds a handfull
Four times while in France she refused to go to the judge. I went to a family guidence thingy alone (again in france) and gave my version of events. I was told
"phoenix, my good man we'll contact the enemy and meet her in private and listen to her side, then hopefully put you you together to haggle it out."
Two weeks later family guidence people got back to me and said..
"phoenix my good may, she's more stubborn than a jack eyed mule. She doesn't even want to talk to us alone, guess you're snookered".
Now my oldest wee girls mom, kinda like Baldy's situ. We're still muckers and I crash in hers in AIX. (very south of France) any time I want.
Any ideas folks on how to heat up a human cold spud!!!
perfect9: Why is it so important to make contact,do you need to grovel a little...perhaps apologise for something....help me out here....why is she blanking you..
You must have some idea...
You must have some idea...
Because Dynamite & my mutt are still knee high to a grass hopper.
Phoenix: Four times while in France she refused to go to the judge. I went to a family guidence thingy alone (again in france) and gave my version of events. I was told
"phoenix, my good man we'll contact the enemy and meet her in private and listen to her side, then hopefully put you you together to haggle it out."
Two weeks later family guidence people got back to me and said..
"phoenix my good may, she's more stubborn than a jack eyed mule. She doesn't even want to talk to us alone, guess you're snookered".Now my oldest wee girls mom, kinda like Baldy's situ. We're still muckers and I crash in hers in AIX. (very south of France) any time I want.
Any ideas folks on how to heat up a human cold spud!!!
What are you trying to achieve? access to your kids or an end to the conflict?"phoenix, my good man we'll contact the enemy and meet her in private and listen to her side, then hopefully put you you together to haggle it out."
Two weeks later family guidence people got back to me and said..
"phoenix my good may, she's more stubborn than a jack eyed mule. She doesn't even want to talk to us alone, guess you're snookered".Now my oldest wee girls mom, kinda like Baldy's situ. We're still muckers and I crash in hers in AIX. (very south of France) any time I want.
Any ideas folks on how to heat up a human cold spud!!!
Glengirl: I sent a friend request to someone on here a few months ago......
I think if they don't see it within a couple of days, it kinda disappears into cyber space......
At least that's what I keep telling myself........MARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think if they don't see it within a couple of days, it kinda disappears into cyber space......
At least that's what I keep telling myself........MARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THis aint a friends request thingy..it was a message thingy. Glen, she's a human iceberg.
celticeyes1: What are you trying to achieve? access to your kids or an end to the conflict?
Access to kids.
celticeyes1: Has anyone got their ex added as a friend on Facebook? I have and a few guys I was chatting to on here that I added to my facebook had a little hissy fit over my ex being a friend I'm amicable with my ex, we don't socialise together or anything like that but we do share information in regards to our child on facebook. I'm also friends with his ex wife and other kids with her on facebook too, I don't see a big deal in this
we were friends on fb up until a few weeks ago, my son complained that on her time with him she spent it in the pub so i said it, instead of addressing it she deleted mmePhoenix: Because Dynamite & my mutt are still knee high to a grass hopper.
What is her reason for not allowing access....has she given you one.
Unfortunately only the courts can sort these matters out,when all else fails....and that can take time and patience...
jimbo79: we were friends on fb up until a few weeks ago, my son complained that on her time with him she spent it in the pub so i said it, instead of addressing it she deleted mme
Ah when she calms down she will add you back my ex did that to me a few times since I joined facebook Phoenix: Access to kids.
Can the court not grant you access? I know here it takes a while to go through the courts I don't know the system in France More Threads
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