Your Ex added on Facebook (110)

Jun 9, 2012 10:30 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
celticeyes1: Has anyone got their ex added as a friend on Facebook? I have and a few guys I was chatting to on here that I added to my facebook had a little hissy fit over my ex being a friend I'm amicable with my ex, we don't socialise together or anything like that but we do share information in regards to our child on facebook. I'm also friends with his ex wife and other kids with her on facebook too, I don't see a big deal in this


I'm not even on FB grin
Jun 9, 2012 10:32 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
wittyone: @phoenix it's Saturday



Mine (for the record) is I'm a lousy catholic with a mis-spent childhood..grin
Jun 9, 2012 10:34 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
irisheyes1978: She's obsessed with poles P...


Why, has she said something thats wrong with Irish men.
Jun 9, 2012 10:37 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
MermaidDreams
MermaidDreamsMermaidDreamsOffaly, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 800 Posts
Nope I don't have my ex added as a friend on Facebook, now if there was an option for adding enemies on Facebook, he'd be there alrightdevil

I see nothing wrong with having your ex on Facebook, especially since ye are amicable and have children together so it's another way to communicate about the kids. To be honest any bloke that asked me to unfriend my ex (if he and I were FB friends) I'd run a mile. Control freak, hello??!
Jun 9, 2012 10:53 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
MermaidDreams: Nope I don't have my ex added as a friend on Facebook, now if there was an option for adding enemies on Facebook, he'd be there alright

I see nothing wrong with having your ex on Facebook, especially since ye are amicable and have children together so it's another way to communicate about the kids. To be honest any bloke that asked me to unfriend my ex (if he and I were FB friends) I'd run a mile. Control freak, hello??!


Mermaid, this is a very fundemental Q, that everyman needs to know about nubiles..How good are your volley balls skills?
Jun 9, 2012 10:55 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
MermaidDreams
MermaidDreamsMermaidDreamsOffaly, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 800 Posts
Phoenix: Mermaid, this is a very fundemental Q, that everyman needs to know about nubiles..How good are your volley balls skills?


Think you asked me that before Phoenixconfused
Jun 9, 2012 10:59 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
MermaidDreams: Think you asked me that before Phoenix


Still waiting for the answer (if I missed it sorry..bouquet , even blokes have blonde days)
Jun 9, 2012 11:11 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
MermaidDreams
MermaidDreamsMermaidDreamsOffaly, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 800 Posts
Phoenix: Of course it's at keyword. What do you take me for a christian.


laugh Aren't I glad I didn't answer innocent
Jun 9, 2012 11:17 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
MermaidDreams: Aren't I glad I didn't answer


I'll let you ponder on this..(my answer)

The quieter you become, the more you are able to hearwink
Jun 9, 2012 11:21 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
MermaidDreams
MermaidDreamsMermaidDreamsOffaly, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 800 Posts
Phoenix: I'll let you ponder on this..(my answer)

The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear


Nope, don't get it. Sorry, you'll just have to spell it out for me!doh
Jun 9, 2012 11:30 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
MermaidDreams: Nope, don't get it. Sorry, you'll just have to spell it out for me!


Don't tell me you're having a blonde day toolaugh (Let me get some tesco's finest from my 7/11)
Jun 9, 2012 11:33 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
gleneagle
gleneaglegleneagleNew York City, New York USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,147 Posts
In response to: Has anyone got their ex added as a friend on Facebook? I have and a few guys I was chatting to on here that I added to my facebook had a little hissy fit over my ex being a friend I'm amicable with my ex, we don't socialise together or anything like that but we do share information in regards to our child on facebook. I'm also friends with his ex wife and other kids with her on facebook too, I don't see a big deal in this
the reason a person is an ex is either because you or they decided that they wanted to reduce the emotional bond. I understand that where there's children involved that a certain type of relationship must be a factor. I can stand and speak to any of my ex's if I meet them by accident but I would never entertain going beyond that. I have seen some of them come on my screen several times but I think to myself "no more psycho/narcissist/bi polar ladies for me" thank you very much as I resume my conversation with a normal real woman. I think that's a definition of insanity "doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome"
Now Its back to Important stuff like football.
Jun 9, 2012 11:35 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
gleneagle
gleneaglegleneagleNew York City, New York USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,147 Posts
gleneagle: the reason a person is an ex is either because you or they decided that they wanted to reduce the emotional bond. I understand that where there's children involved that a certain type of relationship must be a factor. I can stand and speak to any of my ex's if I meet them by accident but I would never entertain going beyond that. I have seen some of them come on my screen several times but I think to myself "no more psycho/narcissist/bi polar ladies for me" thank you very much as I resume my conversation with a normal real woman. I think that's a definition of insanity "doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome"
Now Its back to Important stuff like football.
Jun 9, 2012 11:37 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
MermaidDreams
MermaidDreamsMermaidDreamsOffaly, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 800 Posts
Phoenix: Don't tell me you're having a blonde day too (Let me get some tesco's finest from my 7/11)


Oops, rumbled. laugh
Jun 9, 2012 11:46 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
lislea31
lislea31lislea31Galway, Ireland40 Posts
Phoenix: THis aint a friends request thingy..it was a message thingy. Glen, she's a human iceberg.


when you arent friends on fb the messages dont appear in the usual way they appear under "other" and not in your notifications! i discovered a message that was 3 months old this way doh
Possiblity she hasnt noticed?! confused
Jun 9, 2012 11:56 AM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
lislea31: when you arent friends on fb the messages dont appear in the usual way they appear under "other" and not in your notifications! i discovered a message that was 3 months old this way
Possiblity she hasnt noticed?!


Does it ?
I get messages from my ex wife on FB and we are not friends there ?
Strange confused



wave
Jun 9, 2012 12:11 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
wittyone
wittyonewittyoneDerry, Ireland9 Threads 8,815 Posts
lislea31: when you arent friends on fb the messages dont appear in the usual way they appear under "other" and not in your notifications! i discovered a message that was 3 months old this way
Possiblity she hasnt noticed?!


I can't see 'other' were do I find it on fbwave
Jun 9, 2012 12:15 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
wittyone: I can't see 'other' were do I find it on fb


If you go into messages on fb, it should be right below messages wave

Thats usually only for updates though from things you have subscribed to rather than friends. All messages whether they are on your list or not should go into the usual messages inbox.
Jun 9, 2012 12:19 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
wittyone
wittyonewittyoneDerry, Ireland9 Threads 8,815 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: If you go into messages on fb, it should be right below messages

Thats usually only for updates though from things you have subscribed to rather than friends. All messages whether they are on your list or not should go into the usual messages inbox.


Thanks Dub hug
Jun 9, 2012 12:23 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
lislea31: when you arent friends on fb the messages dont appear in the usual way they appear under "other" and not in your notifications! i discovered a message that was 3 months old this way
Possiblity she hasnt noticed?!


Trust me lislea, the enemy is smart cookie and a stubborn cat. She knows I sent her messages. She accepted my oldest wee girl a friend because I asked her. Tells me she's at least listening to something. But I guess hell will have to freeze over before she talks to me.
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