Your Ex added on Facebook (110)

Jun 8, 2012 6:07 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
baldydude: my situ must be extreme in that sense, due to them living 2 n half hours away from me, not only do me ex and partner (and my kids of coarse) come in, they usually stay the night, as do i when i go up to them in the outback of co clare


Ah no way Baldy,, is she seeing someone?
Jun 8, 2012 6:11 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
celticeyes1: Well Stan my ex doesn't hang around he isn't even allowed in my home and if I want to go out on a date he will change his plans to suit me and vice versa. I'm not his friend as such but there is no ill will. Don't talk to him about his life and he doesn't talk to me about mine.


Sounds ideal then. I don't know why a guy would have a problem with that. Its great when things can be amicable and far less messy and it helps when you can accommodate each other when the kids are concerned. Thats just mature in my opinion.
Jun 8, 2012 6:15 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: Sounds ideal then. I don't know why a guy would have a problem with that. Its great when things can be amicable and far less messy and it helps when you can accommodate each other when the kids are concerned. Thats just mature in my opinion.
I think its great and there isn't any stress for anyone. You hit the nail on the head there I think they weren't mature enough thumbs up
Jun 8, 2012 6:16 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
stanley8m: Ah no way Baldy,, is she seeing someone?
yup her partner of over 5 years now stays aswell dunno
Jun 8, 2012 6:18 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
celticeyes1: I think its great and there isn't any stress for anyone. You hit the nail on the head there I think they weren't mature enough


And more importantly, no stress on the kids. Its gotta be better for the kids to see their mammy and daddy getting on than fighting.
Jun 8, 2012 6:19 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
celticeyes1: Has anyone got their ex added as a friend on Facebook? I have and a few guys I was chatting to on here that I added to my facebook had a little hissy fit over my ex being a friend I'm amicable with my ex, we don't socialise together or anything like that but we do share information in regards to our child on facebook. I'm also friends with his ex wife and other kids with her on facebook too, I don't see a big deal in this


I'm still great friends with my most recent ex (not ex hubby), but we're not "friends" on facebook as his latest sqeeze wouldn't like it!!!!! Sad sigh
Jun 8, 2012 6:19 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
baldydude: yup her partner of over 5 years now stays aswell
jaw drop wow I'm shocked he must be some understanding guy!
Jun 8, 2012 6:20 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
FB. Dangerous. Never got into it much. Never intend to unless it's business.
Jun 8, 2012 6:20 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
baldydude: yup her partner of over 5 years now stays aswell


Honestly, I could not do that if I was her partner, but if it works for ye,, then thats good for all involved.thumbs up
Jun 8, 2012 6:23 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: Woo hoo a pressie Can I open it can I can I can I


Nope you have to wait..

198 days, 23hrs & 36mins

Jun 8, 2012 6:24 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
Phoenix: Nope you have to wait..

198 days, 23hrs & 36mins

I don't do waiting no patience me mumbling
Jun 8, 2012 6:27 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
celticeyes1: wow I'm shocked he must be some understanding guy!
its prob the reason i'm still sigle, most women run a mile when i tell them doh laugh
Jun 8, 2012 6:27 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
Glengirl: I'm still great friends with my most recent ex (not ex hubby), but we're not "friends" on facebook as his latest sqeeze wouldn't like it!!!!! Sad


I lost a good friend a few years ago because her new boyfriend couldn't handle the fact that we used to date. Jealousy is such a waste of an emotion roll eyes
Jun 8, 2012 6:29 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: I don't do waiting no patience me


You can't spoil the susprise. That takes the fun outta christmas.

If you are interested in taking your mind of whats in the prezzie. Book mark this and maybe use it for wee Johnny.

Jun 8, 2012 6:35 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
Phoenix: You can't spoil the susprise. That takes the fun outta christmas.

If you are interested in taking your mind of whats in the prezzie. Book mark this and maybe use it for wee Johnny.

Thanks Phoenix that's cool thumbs up Loooove Christmas dancingsanta
Jun 8, 2012 6:36 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: Thanks Phoenix that's cool Loooove Christmas


All part of the service good lookin'

bouquet
Jun 8, 2012 6:38 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
perfect9
perfect9perfect9Meath/Louth, Louth Ireland5 Threads 656 Posts
baldydude: its prob the reason i'm still sigle, most women run a mile when i tell them



Do you think this arrangement has in some way stopped you from moving on with your life ?? dunno
Jun 8, 2012 6:40 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: I lost a good friend a few years ago because her new boyfriend couldn't handle the fact that we used to date. Jealousy is such a waste of an emotion


Agreed thumbs up

Most of my friends are male, and if someone can't deal with that, then they are on the road to nowhere laugh
Jun 8, 2012 6:47 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
perfect9: Do you think this arrangement has in some way stopped you from moving on with your life ??
nope i've moved on with my life, if a potential partner cant accept my situ then its their loss not mine, i've had a few girlfriends and they were all ok with it, indeed my last GF even came up to clare a few times and stayed with me at the ex's place dunno

i do understand that many ppl would have a problem with it, but as i said its a situ i'm in and any potential partner would have to deal with it, the same way as i would have to accept whatever situation regarding ex's that may exist in their lives dunno
Jun 8, 2012 6:52 PM CST Your Ex added on Facebook
perfect9
perfect9perfect9Meath/Louth, Louth Ireland5 Threads 656 Posts
baldydude: nope i've moved on with my life, if a potential partner cant accept my situ then its their loss not mine, i've had a few girlfriends and they were all ok with it, indeed my last GF even came up to clare a few times and stayed with me at the ex's place

i do understand that many ppl would have a problem with it, but as i said its a situ i'm in and any potential partner would have to deal with it, the same way as i would have to accept whatever situation regarding ex's that may exist in their lives



Just a question thanks for the honest answer.Wouldnt have a problem with it...just came across you were happy with the arrangement ..and were settling for that...wine
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