Scenario..... (32)

Jun 9, 2012 11:46 AM CST Scenario.....
Millieh24: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..

Why would he ask you to give up your job? There must be more to this story?
Jun 9, 2012 11:49 AM CST Scenario.....
Millieh24
Millieh24Millieh24Tullamore, Co. Offaly, Tipperary Ireland132 Threads 5 Polls 3,295 Posts
MADDOG69: Why would he ask you to give up your job? There must be more to this story?


Its what i read in a magazine and taut it might make a good thread to see what you all taut ... conversing
Jun 9, 2012 11:49 AM CST Scenario.....
luckycharmer
luckycharmerluckycharmerireland, Wicklow Ireland85 Threads 13 Polls 2,019 Posts
Millieh24: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..
No
Jun 9, 2012 11:55 AM CST Scenario.....
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
gleneagle: In all fairness when Vinny makes an announcement its usually for the best in the long run. I get mad at him for not thinking of himself more.


I know I'm Trying uh oh laugh
Jun 9, 2012 12:28 PM CST Scenario.....
wittyone
wittyonewittyoneDerry, Ireland9 Threads 8,815 Posts
Millieh24: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..


No I love my independence (when I want it) laugh
Jun 9, 2012 2:18 PM CST Scenario.....
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
In response to: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..

That was one of the reasons I walked out of my last relationship...

No way, it's someone trying to make you dependend on him and take away your choices and freedom.
Jun 9, 2012 2:53 PM CST Scenario.....
Nexcare
NexcareNexcareDublin, Ireland4 Threads 276 Posts
In response to: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..



Huh. No. I think, if he had problems with independency or ..me doing what I do, it'd never reach 'serious relationship'.
Jun 10, 2012 6:59 PM CST Scenario.....
Millieh24: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..


oh good god yes
i turn my back on serving the nation
to sit on the couch and watch jermey kyle, neighbours and cash in the attic all day
peggy bundy would be my role model
Jun 10, 2012 7:08 PM CST Scenario.....
WadeWilson: oh good god yes
i turn my back on serving the nation
to sit on the couch and watch jermey kyle, neighbours and cash in the attic all day
peggy bundy would be my role model


Ted's wife?
Jun 10, 2012 7:38 PM CST Scenario.....
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
Millieh24: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..


It wouldn't be a good idea. What would happen to you if ye split up? You'd be up the creek without a paddle or a job. Giving up to rear children or because you hated your job and he wanted to support you might be ok but not because he just wanted you to. I would have to have a good talk with him before going on with the relationship at all.

Being unemployed I know how hard it is to find a job these days. If you've got one hold on to it. You might need it even more in the future.
Jun 11, 2012 4:48 AM CST Scenario.....
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
Millieh24: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..
This depends on why he is asking you to give up your job. If it's to mind children you have together I would say yes other than that I would say no. It is never a good idea to give up your financial independence in a relationship. An ex of mine asked me to give up a very well paid job to work with him in his business for less money, his excuse was that we could spend more time together and it was closer to home, I agreed. Down the line I found out he realy asked this because he was jealous of the guys I worked with. As my ex did all the wages in the job he controlled where my wages went and when the relationship broke down I not only lost my job I also found out he was funnelling my money into a share account in his name for 10 years. So I was left with no job and no money. If anyone ever asks you to do give up your job I would investigate as to what the reasons are but from personal experience it is better to keep your financial independence in any relationship. Also having your own job gives you a seperate social outlet and friends to your partner which is healthy so your not living in their ear all the time.
Jun 11, 2012 9:55 AM CST Scenario.....
granuaile
granuailegranuaileDublin, Ireland369 Posts
Millieh24: Was reading a colum in a magazine one of those questions and answers pages..

Was woundering if u were in serious relationship and u were both working and even tho u werent making as much as him and he had made enough to keep u both going and he had asked u to give up ur job ? Would u do it ??

Even tho u were happy doen what u were working at and u were getting a promotion soon...

I know i defo wudnt ..


Definitely not, sounds to me like a control thing, she will be totally dependent on him, not good in any relationship.
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