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Jun 13, 2012 3:45 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
What makes your life complicated? does it related to your Work, Relationship, Family, Relatives, Neighbours, place, things etc..
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Jun 13, 2012 3:48 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
I created this thread maybe because I am in the height of losing my patience anymore at my current job. Although they help me then but sometimes it's not fair anymore. very mad very mad
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Jun 13, 2012 3:49 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
People do, unfortunately I am burdened with two traits:
kidness and caring....

Sometimes I think of them as a curse
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Jun 13, 2012 3:55 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
all above.....except family........I find by carrying my chainsaw..with me......i have no problems.......grin grin grin
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Jun 13, 2012 3:58 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
trueheart1941: all above.....except family........I find by carrying my chainsaw..with me......i have no problems.......
thumbs up i need a chainsaw too rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 13, 2012 4:02 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
my profession can be complicated and sometimes stressful, not because of the profession itself but the people that hire me and the kind of problems I have to solve for them wave
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Jun 13, 2012 4:29 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Vern8880: What makes your life complicated? does it related to your Work, Relationship, Family, Relatives, Neighbours, place, things etc..


Sometimes (a few times a year) I find myself needing to be in 2 different countries at the same time between personal commitments to myself (which could also involve work IE my bread and butter) and loved ones.

I always prioritize the choice that makes my heart sing, that feels right, that feels me with light, irrespective of what´s going on.

When your heart is singing, and the choice feels right, and you are full of light, it´s difficult to feel stressed, resentment, complications... Things just follow their course and slot in by themselves.

That´s how I do it! It works for me and believe me, I´ve had and still have heavy stuff to deal with.

bouquet
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Jun 13, 2012 4:50 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
In response to: What makes your life complicated? does it related to your Work, Relationship, Family, Relatives, Neighbours, place, things etc..
My job and my family as they both always seem intertwined. I love the kids that come into my life and my girls lives but I hate a lot of what comes with them, the problems and the families. Sometimes it can be overwhelming for not only me but my girls as well.
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Jun 15, 2012 9:05 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
LonelyMontse08: my profession can be complicated and sometimes stressful, not because of the profession itself but the people that hire me and the kind of problems I have to solve for them


same here girl, If only I will get out in just one click I'd be glad to do that... But hopefully my decision will take me an extra mile. typing
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Jun 15, 2012 9:09 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
JustJess77: My job and my family as they both always seem intertwined. I love the kids that come into my life and my girls lives but I hate a lot of what comes with them, the problems and the families. Sometimes it can be overwhelming for not only me but my girls as well.



If it involves your family just take it as a blessing after all it's just pretty normal.. and not to mention they really give you enough strength to survive. It's a bond of the family that gives you extraordinary feeling when your stress... party
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Jun 15, 2012 9:11 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
EagleWoman:

When your heart is singing, and the choice feels right, and you are full of light, it´s difficult to feel stressed, resentment, complications... Things just follow their course and slot in by themselves.

That´s how I do it! It works for me and believe me, I´ve had and still have heavy stuff to deal with.




sigh sigh sigh sigh sigh sometimes at work you are not physically tired but emotionally tired and that push you to withdraw.
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Jun 15, 2012 9:12 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
Vern8880: What makes your life complicated? does it related to your Work, Relationship, Family, Relatives, Neighbours, place, things etc..


well when others do not do the things they are supposed to do or behave inaapropriately to the extent that it has an actual or potential negative affect on me I have to do something about that - so it takes my time and complicates my day, not allowing me to do the things I SHOULD be doing- it is not just complicating my day but it is annoying - whether it is at home or at work one should be able to count on having an environment that is reasonable and even pleasant

there are a few people who I really do not like (tho I never show it) just because of this issue

your right to do or say what you want ENDS where my rights begin....

so to speak

yes I agree with you OP
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Jun 15, 2012 10:07 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
Vern8880: What makes your life complicated? does it related to your Work, Relationship, Family, Relatives, Neighbours, place, things etc..


Allowing other people to cause me grief will complicate my life.
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Jun 15, 2012 11:54 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Life is complicated sweetie, Its all about how we handle it hug
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Jun 15, 2012 12:06 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Vern8880: sometimes at work you are not physically tired but emotionally tired and that push you to withdraw.


Doing personal spiritual work helped me find a source to regenerate and keep my emotional balance at a time when it would have been impossible to keep on going otherwise... Eventually by body said enough is enough and I had to take stock of my life...

So although I would recommend finding a way of healing and managing the emotions, at the end of the day, we are NOT superwoman and we DO need to care of ourselves physically AND emotionally to be ok!

Hope you find a way teddybear
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Jun 16, 2012 1:00 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Well, my own quote is this::: "Life is simple,people make life complicated".-
Vern8880: What makes your life complicated? does it related to your Work, Relationship, Family, Relatives, Neighbours, place, things etc..
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Jun 16, 2012 1:53 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Vern8880: What makes your life complicated? does it related to your Work, Relationship, Family, Relatives, Neighbours, place, things etc..



Life is BdaisyEdaisyAdaisyUdaisyTdaisyIdaisyFdaisyUdaisyLdaisy we are the ones who choose to make it complicated but stressing over every ..

How many times have you got so frustrated, felt like killing somebody but a fews days down the line you sit back and wana laugh at yourself for worrying over nothing ?


We choose our complicated drama in our life ... And the best thing is we and change our path or our we feel about it ..... wine
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Jun 16, 2012 2:54 AM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Nessa7: Life is BEAUTIFUL we are the ones who choose to make it complicated but stressing over every ..

How many times have you got so frustrated, felt like killing somebody but a fews days down the line you sit back and wana laugh at yourself for worrying over nothing ? We choose our complicated drama in our life ... And the best thing is we and change our path or our we feel about it .....
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Jun 19, 2012 1:08 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
Thanks for you all guys.. just by reading your advices here.. makes me wanna cry.. it's a relief for me. and not to mentioned I am starting to come out in the open.. comfort
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Jun 28, 2012 9:19 PM CST IT'S COMPLICATED!
texasgent222
texasgent222texasgent222Dallas, Texas USA1 Threads 255 Posts
I have no complications in my life currently. It took awhile to get to this position. I have my health. I own my own business and business is good. I have a packed social life. I have the love of an extended family. I travel. I have peace, love and serenity. I count my blessings. Decades past however used to be very complicated. So I think the lesson to be learned here is that if you hack away at the problems long enough you finally reach an end where things are favorable.
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