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Jun 15, 2012 9:57 PM CST Virtual/Reality
CrabbyMonkey
CrabbyMonkeyCrabbyMonkeyWicklow, Ireland4 Threads 31 Posts
A quantity of mail/texts/phonecalls have been exchanged, creating a rapport between two people. Communication on such levels appears to be positive..
A first meeting is arranged, with heightend expectations. Only to be left deflated from the lack of chemistry between yee.
Sounds familiar?, and if so, is such an experience common or rare?
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Jun 15, 2012 10:00 PM CST Virtual/Reality
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
I would say very common.
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Jun 15, 2012 10:02 PM CST Virtual/Reality
CrabbyMonkey: A quantity of mail/texts/phonecalls have been exchanged, creating a rapport between two people. Communication on such levels appears to be positive..
A first meeting is arranged, with heightend expectations. Only to be left deflated from the lack of chemistry between yee.
Sounds familiar?, and if so, is such an experience common or rare?


popcorn most times I don't get to the first meeting arrangement - it's a long way from Florida to Scotland.... although mamma always said ya got to kiss a lot of frogs along the way.....

grin frog
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Jun 15, 2012 10:11 PM CST Virtual/Reality
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
CrabbyMonkey: A quantity of mail/texts/phonecalls have been exchanged, creating a rapport between two people. Communication on such levels appears to be positive..
A first meeting is arranged, with heightend expectations. Only to be left deflated from the lack of chemistry between yee.
Sounds familiar?, and if so, is such an experience common or rare?


Get rid of the bit highlighted, and everything will turn out ok!!! No chemistry = could become great friends if continue building rapport.
Great chemistry = could become great lovers/partners/friends.

Win-win situation!
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Jun 28, 2012 7:30 PM CST Virtual/Reality
texasgent222
texasgent222texasgent222Dallas, Texas USA1 Threads 255 Posts
I do a pretty thorough screening process before I agree to meet someone in person. After talking with them on the phone and video chat for hours I feel I have a handle on their personality and looks. If they pass the test in both those departments and I feel we are compatible I proceed to a meeting.

When I have met up on dates with those I met online thus far I'd have to say the going rate is 80 percent were with chemistry and 20 percent without. But just because I have chemistry with someone doesn't mean I'm going out and putting a ring on their finger.

Then the field gets narrowed down and I decide who I will or will not have numerous repeat dates with. Out of the repeat daters I'll finally decide on one to concentrate my time, energy and resources on and that could be construed as moving into the realm of an exclusive relationship.

You give a person you have given the exclusive status to some time and let it lead where destiny takes it. It either leads to marriage or a breakup. If a breakup occurs then you resort back to stage 1. lol. But this is the procedure I follow with those I meet online.
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Jun 28, 2012 7:36 PM CST Virtual/Reality
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
CrabbyMonkey: A quantity of mail/texts/phonecalls have been exchanged, creating a rapport between two people. Communication on such levels appears to be positive..
A first meeting is arranged, with heightend expectations. Only to be left deflated from the lack of chemistry between yee.
Sounds familiar?, and if so, is such an experience common or rare?



common


handshake
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Jun 28, 2012 7:44 PM CST Virtual/Reality
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
CrabbyMonkey: A quantity of mail/texts/phonecalls have been exchanged, creating a rapport between two people. Communication on such levels appears to be positive..
A first meeting is arranged, with heightend expectations. Only to be left deflated from the lack of chemistry between yee.
Sounds familiar?, and if so, is such an experience common or rare?



Very common. I find it's better to meet as soon as possible rather than carry on a long online correspondence including webcam. I met one guy after a couple of days online and really didn't think anything would come of it and we were together for six years.

Never can tell, just be open to the possibilities.
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