Congratulations, I think! Go ahead and have some moxy and tell the recipient of your love how you feel to see whether or not it is a two way street. Until that time don't start blocking your emails and stop meeting others! Keep all avenues open till you're sure it's the real deal. Time will tell whether or not it's true.
texasgent222: Congratulations, I think! Go ahead and have some moxy and tell the recipient of your love how you feel to see whether or not it is a two way street. Until that time don't start blocking your emails and stop meeting others! Keep all avenues open till you're sure it's the real deal. Time will tell whether or not it's true.
someonesvoicejee: yes..i know..he will..be..a..victim if i say it out NO i will never ever tell this time and i will
cherish him till my death
Sooooooooooooooo you will NEVER tell him, you will cherish him till you die, AND I just read you are going to just wait and watch to see who he picks ...
Soooooooooooo I take it you revel in the role of sacrifitial victim who suffers in (near) silence and I wouldn´t be surprised if you also thought one day someone is going to realise what a saint you are and give you a medal.
I know I´m being sarcastic, but honestly Jee!! WAKE UP!!! Life and love is NOT just "something that happens in your head!!"
I said it a couple of weeks ago, and I'll say it again. Proclaiming your undying love for a profile of someone online, whom you have never met, much less messaged with, is...well...it is not my intent to hurt your feelings, but...it seems like your head is up in the clouds and that you don't have a firm grasp of reality. You may be over-romanticising things a wee bit.
This is the 3rd thread in the past few weeks saying almost the same thing. You have fallen in love with someone here, but you are too shy to make contact with them, and maybe they will gleen from your postings that HE is your most beloved, and hope he contacts you.
Honestly hun, if I were the guy in question, I'd be running fast in the other direction.
I said it a couple of weeks ago, and I'll say it again. Proclaiming your undying love for a profile of someone online, whom you have never met, much less messaged with, is...well...it is not my intent to hurt your feelings, but...it seems like your head is up in the clouds and that you don't have a firm grasp of reality. You may be over-romanticising things a wee bit.
This is the 3rd thread in the past few weeks saying almost the same thing. You have fallen in love with someone here, but you are too shy to make contact with them, and maybe they will gleen from your postings that HE is your most beloved, and hope he contacts you.
Honestly hun, if I were the guy in question, I'd be running fast in the other direction.
someonesvoicejee: thank you...but..i dont have the guts to tell him
in a way u..r..right...i will wait for some time
here in cs at least i will be able to see whom he
is choosing
yeah,,, plus it looks like as you are "Separated" you may be better off to clear that up before you approach anyone though I imagine you will do whatever it is you wish. Maybe when you get your own things in order life will have a clear and realistic landscape for you too work with. You definitely have some members interested in your actions...I am simply watching the people go by....lol.
Nikogas: yeah,,, plus it looks like as you are "Separated" you may be better off to clear that up before you approach anyone though I imagine you will do whatever it is you wish. Maybe when you get your own things in order life will have a clear and realistic landscape for you too work with. You definitely have some members interested in your actions...I am simply watching the people go by....lol.
I don't want to assume anything but is the love of her life a member of CS? And if he is, do I assume that he is reading these professions of undying love every other week. It's a little hard to understand her posts sometimes.
This woman is 46 years old so it can't be that's she's just young and doesn't understand men/love. She also has a Ph.D. so she's well educated. If she's not a troll then I feel bad for her because it appears she's not only lonely, but also desperate to make people think there's a man in her life. Perhaps she's embarrassed to be on CS so she contrives these stories about being in love. Really very sad...
Whatever she may call it; be it wishful thinking, extreme fantasizing, emotional delusion, this so called 'love', it all still adds up to, in the end as unrequited love as she proclaims , he will never know about her...what the hell good is unrequited love??? Sounds positively perverse. What is the next stage, stalking???
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