Married Men On C.S (43)

Oct 15, 2012 8:08 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fun2bhad
fun2bhadfun2bhadIreland, Offaly Ireland1 Threads 8 Posts
Hi Guys.

Just as a matter of interest, how many of you out there would you tell the wife of a married man with two kids that he was having an affair having met someone from here?
Oct 15, 2012 8:10 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fun2bhad: Hi Guys.

Just as a matter of interest, how many of you out there would you tell the wife of a married man with two kids that he was having an affair having met someone from here?

Depends how much I could blackmail him for.
Oct 15, 2012 8:12 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fun2bhad
fun2bhadfun2bhadIreland, Offaly Ireland1 Threads 8 Posts
Funny that's what someone else said !!
Oct 15, 2012 8:20 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
fun2bhad: Hi Guys.

Just as a matter of interest, how many of you out there would you tell the wife of a married man with two kids that he was having an affair having met someone from here?
if u no the girl n she's a good friend ye, if u don't no her from Adam then no! Not worth getting involved and the hassel
Oct 15, 2012 8:47 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fun2bhad: Plenty of physical proof to back this up...think it's the right thing to do personally, but pleas from him not to tell especially when the kid is only 1 month old. He's no respect for her and she deserves to be with sum1 who respects her..right ?


Right. But with a one month old baby he'll probably make out it's all her fault for neglecting him or some such claptrap & she's emotionally and financially vulnerable - if you did tell him I think she'd "forgive" him ....
If you want to tell her then do - don't try and justify your desire to out him as concern for a woman you have never met .... to thine self be true and all that.
Oct 15, 2012 9:00 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
Unless u no these people just stay out of it! Chances are she will side with him anyway
Oct 15, 2012 9:06 AM CST Married Men On C.S
tanner
tannertannerOffaly, Ireland11 Threads 254 Posts
Just as a matter of interest, how many of you out there would you tell the wife of a married man with two kids that he was having an affair having met someone from here?


Unless your a close friend of the wife stay away form it, its not your fight, even if you were the other woman and didn't no he was married or what ever other reasons. Just leave it alone, Im beginning to realise nearly all men will cheat given the opportunity.
Oct 15, 2012 9:09 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
tanner: Just as a matter of interest, how many of you out there would you tell the wife of a married man with two kids that he was having an affair having met someone from here?Unless your a close friend of the wife stay away form it, its not your fight, even if you were the other woman and didn't no he was married or what ever other reasons. Just leave it alone, Im beginning to realise nearly all men will cheat given the opportunity.
a women with her eyes wide open laugh
Oct 15, 2012 9:18 AM CST Married Men On C.S
Sort of related to my poll BTW, If I was a betting man, I reckon the wife has stopped putting out 'cos she had the baby. Time she sorted that out. wink
Oct 15, 2012 10:08 AM CST Married Men On C.S
Finnster
FinnsterFinnsterLaois, Leix Ireland4 Threads 52 Posts
Tough one. If the woman is a close friend then yes I would tell. If u don't know her that well then I would steer clear. Might cause more trouble for you than its worth. But at the end of the day only ur own conscience can tell you the right thing to do.
Oct 15, 2012 10:22 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fun2bhad: Hi Guys.

Just as a matter of interest, how many of you out there would you tell the wife of a married man with two kids that he was having an affair having met someone from here?


I wouldn't..best off to mind your own business..I never understood how somebody could be a whistle blower like that and reveal everything..without thinking of the devastation it would cause..I think tell alls like that get a sick sense of enjoyment out of itireland
Oct 15, 2012 10:24 AM CST Married Men On C.S
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
I don't get the people saying not to tell??she has a right to know what kind off cheat and liar she is living with and yes she might have a 1 month old baby but where is daddy when the mother is at home looking after it?!out playing the field and leading a double lifethumbs down hopefully she will see sense in what kind off man he is and get rid,move on and be with someone that actually appreciates her
Oct 15, 2012 10:30 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
bubbles85: I don't get the people saying not to tell??she has a right to know what kind off cheat and liar she is living with and yes she might have a 1 month old baby but where is daddy when the mother is at home looking after it?!out playing the field and leading a double life hopefully she will see sense in what kind off man he is and get rid,move on and be with someone that actually appreciates her
thats like me meeting a girl off here n finding out she has a bf! Would I run off n tell him?? Course not! I don't no him from Adam! Totally diff if its a close mate or somebody u no personally
Oct 15, 2012 10:37 AM CST Married Men On C.S
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
fast_and_furious: thats like me meeting a girl off here n finding out she has a bf! Would I run off n tell him?? Course not! I don't no him from Adam! Totally diff if its a close mate or somebody u no personally
its all wrong S,married or not its still cheating and hurts the other person involved! Cheaters will always get found out in the end so why not her finding out now instead off ten long wasted years down the line say?? I wouldn't ever have the balls to say it to someone,friend or not but I would like to be told
Oct 15, 2012 10:40 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
bubbles85: its all wrong S,married or not its still cheating and hurts the other person involved! Cheaters will always get found out in the end so why not her finding out now instead off ten long wasted years down the line say?? I wouldn't ever have the balls to say it to someone,friend or not but I would like to be told
whats to say he won't change? Ya don't no the circumstances in their private lives! I personally just wouldn't burst in n tell her! Just my view
Oct 15, 2012 10:41 AM CST Married Men On C.S
Finnster
FinnsterFinnsterLaois, Leix Ireland4 Threads 52 Posts
bubbles85: I don't get the people saying not to tell??she has a right to know what kind off cheat and liar she is living with and yes she might have a 1 month old baby but where is daddy when the mother is at home looking after it?!out playing the field and leading a double life hopefully she will see sense in what kind off man he is and get rid,move on and be with someone that actually appreciates her


that's fair enough, but I still think unless it's a close friend, stay out of it. We don't know what's going on in that marriage. For all we know, the wife is cheating too. She might even know herself already and choose to stay... Just because it's something we see as 'wrong' does not mean we are the judges and jury and should be going around putting wrongs to right. Unless it's someone you know very well, know the family, know the situation, it's best to keep out of it.
Oct 15, 2012 10:48 AM CST Married Men On C.S
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
fast_and_furious: whats to say he won't change? Ya don't no the circumstances in their private lives! I personally just wouldn't burst in n tell her! Just my view
from my experiences a cheater never changes lol,I don't know...I'm just saying I'd rather be told but actually doing the telling I wouldn't do
Oct 15, 2012 10:53 AM CST Married Men On C.S
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
Finnster: that's fair enough, but I still think unless it's a close friend, stay out of it. We don't know what's going on in that marriage. For all we know, the wife is cheating too. She might even know herself already and choose to stay... Just because it's something we see as 'wrong' does not mean we are the judges and jury and should be going around putting wrongs to right. Unless it's someone you know very well, know the family, know the situation, it's best to keep out of it.
yes but if that is the case there won't be no breaking up a family if the op does go ahead with saying it?? Wouldn't u like to be told if your other half was playing away??
Oct 15, 2012 10:59 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
think it all depends on how close u are to the 'victim' and what kinda person they are...and where they are in their life..

shes just had a baby..shes not in a great frame of mind right now in my personal opinion...
Oct 15, 2012 11:03 AM CST Married Men On C.S
fun2bhad
fun2bhadfun2bhadIreland, Offaly Ireland1 Threads 8 Posts
pretty tough call, this guy has no intention of stopping!! wants to keep in contact even still after his wife havin a baby. cheaters will go as far as they can without gettin caught and even then would come up with any excuse to try justify the situation. someone like this has no heart - selfish 'needs' , doesnt think with his brains anyhow...
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