Long Distance Relationship (35)
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 PostsI would recommend that she visits you, or neutral country. I have found visiting another on her territory puts you too much at a disadvantage, if she is a gamey person.
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My opinion is if you both like each other, or as you put it "interested", why not? Give it a try. In most cases you can find a decent russian woman online. The only advise to you: give it more time to find out about the person you meet online and never send money to them. Hope it helps.
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cataluna: It's not working. Move on. I actually tried with my former boyfriend. We were together for 4.5 years when I had to relocate to over 2000 km away. After a year of relationship through internet, we put an end to it.
Sorry to hear this , but I think that the fact that a LDR didn't work for you, doesn't mean it won't work for THEM.
Best of luck OP, if you really want it and so does she... you both will find a way.
Just one thing: My 5 cents. Don't let things "Go on with the flow"... there must be ACTION and EFFORT and REALISTIC expectations from eachother...A while ago I heard that "Dreams with no deadline are just dreams... set up a realistic time line to make them true and then ...it will be a PLAN"
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Hey :-) there is one story for You. Me and my Bf are just like you with that girl. I am from Lithuania He from Netherlads. But we are together for almost 2 years. We are so happy together ;-) but you decide...
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It works just a matter of trust and patience:-Pmake sure shes not scammers
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Im into Ldr right now its hard but im willing to take the risk:-P
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vicente1986: I met a women online. She's from Russia, I'm from Canada, She's intrested in me, and also Im in her. But the distance between us is pretty far. Could we still work things out between us, or I should just move on and leave her. What would you say about this?
I would say(the least) there cannot be such relationship, only way to know someone is to be close.------ This thread is Archived ------
All my previous relationships are long distant from my first bf to my ex husband. In the first relationship he left abroad for tertiary study, we sent each other postal mails every week. There was no Internet at the time and phone calls were incredibly expensive. That relationship lasted for 4 years. All my other relationships, despite the distance, lasted long as well, at least 2 years. None of them ended due to the distance. Even my former marriage, we had lived in different countries when we dated and only moved in after the marriage.
I would say whether to trust in the LDR, whether it works or not this depends on the couple, chemistry, common sense etc. There's no correct answer for everyone.
I would say whether to trust in the LDR, whether it works or not this depends on the couple, chemistry, common sense etc. There's no correct answer for everyone.
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Liebe2: Plan to meet 1/2 way and see if there's a spark there. Then decide if it's worth working it out. LDR are time and energy consuming, especially when the time difference is big. Good luck!
PS Watch out for scammers.
PS Watch out for scammers.
Meeting 'half way' can also have it's minor problems...After taking the ride out to or from the airport,what do you do after lovemaking, do you A) go to sleep? B) Light up a cigarette? C) Go back to front of the bus?
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vicente1986: I met a women online. She's from Russia, I'm from Canada, She's intrested in me, and also Im in her. But the distance between us is pretty far. Could we still work things out between us, or I should just move on and leave her. What would you say about this?
If she is real - try all the low cost technological advances - skype etc. Then take a vacation to visit her. Then take it from there.
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Antoniacv: Sorry to hear this , but I think that the fact that a LDR didn't work for you, doesn't mean it won't work for THEM.Best of luck OP, if you really want it and so does she... you both will find a way.
Just one thing: My 5 cents. Don't let things "Go on with the flow"... there must be ACTION and EFFORT and REALISTIC expectations from eachother...A while ago I heard that "Dreams with no deadline are just dreams... set up a realistic time line to make them true and then ...it will be a PLAN"
Just one thing: My 5 cents. Don't let things "Go on with the flow"... there must be ACTION and EFFORT and REALISTIC expectations from eachother...A while ago I heard that "Dreams with no deadline are just dreams... set up a realistic time line to make them true and then ...it will be a PLAN"
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solitare: Meeting 'half way' can also have it's minor problems...After taking the ride out to or from the airport,what do you do after lovemaking, do you A) go to sleep? B) Light up a cigarette? C) Go back to front of the bus?
Actually you could meet halfway in a place you both want to visit but have never had a chance to. There would be many things for you to do.
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vicente1986: I met a women online. She's from Russia, I'm from Canada, She's intrested in me, and also Im in her. But the distance between us is pretty far. Could we still work things out between us, or I should just move on and leave her. What would you say about this?
I live 22km from Perth, that’s in western Australia, it’s the most isolated city in the world? You think you have problems?
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vicente1986: I met a women online. She's from Russia, I'm from Canada, She's intrested in me, and also Im in her. But the distance between us is pretty far. Could we still work things out between us, or I should just move on and leave her. What would you say about this?
How prepared are you to have your heart broken.......One of you has to be prepared to move eventually, so if that obstacle can´t be overcome there´s not a lot of point in prolonging the agony.
I don´t really see the point in starting a relationship with someone who lives thousands of miles away, if neither is prepared to relocate at some stage. Unfortunately, rather than be truthful some people like the drama.
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you have to meet first and then you can only decide if you want to be with each other, one of you has to relocate
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