What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other? ( Archived) (120)

Nov 11, 2012 11:57 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
CapNemo
CapNemoCapNemoLongview, Texas USA6 Threads 599 Posts
My major obstacle is my work schedule. I've got a great career that I love, but it's not easy to find a woman who wants to put up with me being gone so much.
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Nov 11, 2012 11:59 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I think a lot of the our "obstacles" are largely self -created peace
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Nov 11, 2012 12:06 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
lifeisadream: I am picky.
thumbs up thumbs up ha ha me too
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Nov 11, 2012 12:11 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
2intrigued: On this site, distance is a huge obstacle. On local sites, finding someone genuine is a challenge...more of a challenge than I'm willing to put up with. I look at it this way...if it's meant to be, it will be and if not, oh well.
thumbs up Ive fond great men on this site but the ones Id love to meet live toooooooo far away, Australia and Ireland, I am contemplating the idea to take some vacations though they might be worth the travel wave
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Nov 11, 2012 12:35 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
I am agree with you.
It is neccesary being clear with oneself first.
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Nov 11, 2012 12:40 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
falcon224
falcon224falcon224gauteng, Gauteng South Africa1 Posts
It is hard to meet that special person when distance plays a huge obstacle. However, if 2 people share a deep conection, they will find their way to each other. There may be a few sacrifices but it works out gradually. Dont give up. The best way to win a womens heart is to earn her trust and be sincere. Good women dont ask for much. Remember, if a relationship is wearing you down, then its not love. I wish you all the best in finding love.
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Nov 11, 2012 12:49 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
Rumple4skin
Rumple4skinRumple4skinStoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, England UK4 Threads 1 Polls 980 Posts
venusenvy: I think a lot of the our "obstacles" are largely self -created


rolling on the floor laughing

That's one way of putting it.
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Nov 11, 2012 3:04 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Doesn't it make, the so called ""Picky"" one's reserved????laugh
LonelyMontse08: ha ha me too
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Nov 12, 2012 3:24 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
memetwin
memetwinmemetwinpaphos, Paphos Cyprus2 Threads 6 Posts
someone that is genuine.....the older you get the harder it is to find the right person.....
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Nov 12, 2012 3:49 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
I here some women searching holding a "Lamb of Diogenes" for this illusive man.laugh laugh laugh laugh
memetwin: someone that is genuine.....the older you get the harder it is to find the right person.....
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Nov 12, 2012 5:25 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
"What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?"

That my situation is so doggone complicated, coupled with being painfully shy.
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Nov 12, 2012 5:48 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
2intrigued: You Albertans are tough...snow higher than your roof, bitter cold winters to make any mans goods recede into the innermost regions, and all the while, dodging moose on the roads.


I lived in Three Hills, Alberta for 8 months and Lousana for one month. The snow and ice were on the ground from mid-September until April. People had to take the batteries out of their cars and take them inside to keep the batteries from freezing.
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Nov 12, 2012 5:51 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
Missblonde
MissblondeMissblondebanyeres, Valencia Spain142 Posts
Has to be distance for me... everyone I like lives to far away
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Nov 12, 2012 5:56 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
I think finding someone with the right mix of good character, chemistry, and adventure is the hard part. I'm willing to travel if he is willing to share some of the cost.
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Nov 12, 2012 6:01 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
2pretty
2pretty2prettylimington, Maine USA1 Threads 3 Posts
distance plays an important factor but i think its difficult to find someone with the same values in life.i like down to earth men as well as intellegence and many start with yo sugar msma.so respect is the big issue for me.
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Nov 12, 2012 6:22 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Something can usually become an Obstacle if it's allowed to become one.
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Nov 12, 2012 6:30 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Ccincy: Something can usually become an Obstacle if it's allowed to become one.



Distance and lack of interest, even if I would be willing to pay part of the travel cots or simply pay my own way to her...
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Nov 12, 2012 7:48 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
Missblonde: Has to be distance for me... everyone I like lives to far away


Oh, yes, distance for me, too.
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Nov 12, 2012 7:50 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
LonelyMontse08: Ive fond great men on this site but the ones Id love to meet live toooooooo far away, Australia and Ireland, I am contemplating the idea to take some vacations though they might be worth the travel


Austrailia and Ireland? Aw, man...I was hoping you were going to say the U.S., particularly the Northwest. grin
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Nov 12, 2012 7:52 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
chaegoyoeda
chaegoyoedachaegoyoedaJakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 23 Posts
robsantiago15: This is your opportunity to spill your guts out...


my major obstacle is Angelina Jolie doesnt want to be with me no matter how hard I try to be with her crying crying
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