Secret Admirers ? (54)
Laceylou: I'm an "all or nothing" type of person. I have no interest in dating someone just for the sake of it
well said
salanky: i wish i had the guts to do what she did, even if it didnt work out fair play to her for doing it. i tend to blurt things out when i like someone and regret saying it when iv messed everything up and made a fool of myself
don't ever regret telling someone how you feel Sal .
no matter what way it turns out , it's far better to be honest about feelings , rather than keeping them locked inside -
We let fear stop us from expressing feelings too often in life-
i understand , it's a self protection thing -but i think its far better to say how you feel -rather than have regrets years later ,when possibly something truly wonderful could have developed
Serenity4two: don't ever regret telling someone how you feel Sal .
no matter what way it turns out , it's far better to be honest about feelings , rather than keeping them locked inside -
We let fear stop us from expressing feelings too often in life-
i understand , it's a self protection thing -but i think its far better to say how you feel -rather than have regrets years later ,when possibly something truly wonderful could have developed
ah as much as i do regret it i prefer to have things out in the open. the part that annoys me is when they know how i feel but are totally non committal as to how they feel and then im left in limbo wondering do i forget about them and move on or do i give them more time. the problem is that the more time i give the more i start to care about them and then when they eventually tell me they arent interested its a crushing blow but yet ill still care for them no matter what way it turns out , it's far better to be honest about feelings , rather than keeping them locked inside -
We let fear stop us from expressing feelings too often in life-
i understand , it's a self protection thing -but i think its far better to say how you feel -rather than have regrets years later ,when possibly something truly wonderful could have developed
life just gets too complicated sometimes
salanky: ah as much as i do regret it i prefer to have things out in the open. the part that annoys me is when they know how i feel but are totally non committal as to how they feel and then im left in limbo wondering do i forget about them and move on or do i give them more time. the problem is that the more time i give the more i start to care about them and then when they eventually tell me they arent interested its a crushing blow but yet ill still care for them
life just gets too complicated sometimes
life just gets too complicated sometimes
......or when they tell you they feel exactly the same, "BUT"
salanky: ah as much as i do regret it i prefer to have things out in the open. the part that annoys me is when they know how i feel but are totally non committal as to how they feel and then im left in limbo wondering do i forget about them and move on or do i give them more time. the problem is that the more time i give the more i start to care about them and then when they eventually tell me they arent interested its a crushing blow but yet ill still care for them
life just gets too complicated sometimes
life just gets too complicated sometimes
i know Sal and lacey
for you both matters of the heart sure aren't easy - it can be VERY confusing at times
Laceylou: ......or when they tell you they feel exactly the same, "BUT"
yeah, theres always something in the way be it that its not the right time or they arent ready or something. the more i think about it the more i realise that if there is someone iv grown to care for as a person because i genuinely like them and they know then until they actually come out and tell me that they dont want to know me i wont allow myself to connect with anyone else. sounds stupid when its there in black and white 
secret admirer...well there was one lady a while back who said she fancied me for ages even when i was married, thing about it was i couldnt stand her...lol not a sincere bone in her body..lol my luck heh...
salanky: yeah, theres always something in the way be it that its not the right time or they arent ready or something. the more i think about it the more i realise that if there is someone iv grown to care for as a person because i genuinely like them and they know then until they actually come out and tell me that they dont want to know me i wont allow myself to connect with anyone else. sounds stupid when its there in black and white
Nope, not stupid at all, I know exactly what you mean. Have you actually told this person how you feel? It took me 18 months to do that but I'm glad I did
Laceylou: Nope, not stupid at all, I know exactly what you mean. Have you actually told this person how you feel? It took me 18 months to do that but I'm glad I did
yeah he knows and the feelings are somewhat mutual but something is stopping him from taking it any further. just the way things go i guessthe_whistler: secret admirer...well there was one lady a while back who said she fancied me for ages even when i was married, thing about it was i couldnt stand her...lol not a sincere bone in her body..lol my luck heh...
sincerity and being genuine and true are absolutely key in any relationship -
anyone , not sincere , i would avoid like the plague
Serenity4two: sincerity and being genuine and true are absolutely key in any relationship -
anyone , not sincere , i would avoid like the plague
100% agree anyone , not sincere , i would avoid like the plague
Laceylou: Sounds like we're talking about the same person
heres hoping were not and neither of us is his reason for not taking it further More Threads
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aw well --it was still a lovely gesture to show how much she admired you