I am feeling rather left out, I haven't had one insulting email.
If there is any woman out there, who just happens to meet my criteria, would be good enough to send me an insulting email I would be a very happy bunny on this cold, wet Sunday.
hi. I have read that only 5 percent of all proved to have turned into serious connections have started on the net. i think it's near the error point of any statistics but it might be true.
I was rather bowled over by this comment Andy "..I have never met 1 genuine , natural , honest person....in fact most of them have been looking for a free lunch...I really don't know how they sleep at night ?" Ann
iamamm: Hi Smokey didn't you used to live in Switzerland ? OKay.....yes, I can uderstand the point you make about chatting on the forums..... cyber coffee shop..is a good way of explaining, so thanks. But honestly, I think the problem is either me, them or Spain or where i live on the Costa del Sol. Curiously since posting this...i have had about 10 chats, but no-one lives in Spain. mostly USA / Baltic / Asian / Ireland ...and thats a long way for a coffee ? But might take your advice..if i stay here but things are looking ( hopefully ) like i might not need to ! and Forums , per se, are not for me. too busy living my life ! but thanks, good posting , helpful ..so appreciated ! Happy Christmas etc...Andy
Hi andy,I also live on the Costa del Sol & have also had my fair share of scammers,but only had rudeness from a scammer when I called her on it!I have talked to several nice ladies here,although it has to be said that a lot are not as they seem on their profiles & photos!!All in all,it does what it says!
iamamm: I was on this site for about 3 years, I just gave up frankly and left the site for about a year, hoping some new faces might be different ?....Sadly , they aren't ..
You can leave the insults , pleeaaase !! though many ladies who chose to look at my profile and not the other way around, have been amazingly rude or just plain bad mannered .
I have my own thoughts about me, them, this site ( and we can discuss if you want ) but let me tell you this......
I JOINED ANOTHER SITE....PLANNING TO DROP CS TOTALLY and what happened ? more than 150..maybe 200 messages in about a week ,sent to me !
So , is there something wrong with CS or its ' members ' ?
Be interested to hear from males and females what they think ? or is everyone just here for the chats only ?
What´s the name of this amazing site then biscuit boy?
flatliner54: Hi andy,I also live on the Costa del Sol & have also had my fair share of scammers,but only had rudeness from a scammer when I called her on it!I have talked to several nice ladies here,although it has to be said that a lot are not as they seem on their profiles & photos!!All in all,it does what it says!
Hiya.......yeah, maybe so. Maybe equally I expect a bit more from non scammers. I still sort of remain naively given to wanting to believe people actually tell the ' truth ' ? Yeah.......that is a bit too much, isnt it ?
anninspain: I was rather bowled over by this comment Andy "..I have never met 1 genuine , natural , honest person....in fact most of them have been looking for a free lunch...I really don't know how they sleep at night ?" Ann
I can't answer this really , can I ? it requires an pertinent explanation Sorry, I won't do that ' in public '
StephenMG1: Hya matey, totally agree with you.I lived in Spain for 4 years then moved here 5 years ago....I just dont know what women want....
Hi Stephen (wild Guess ?)
Well that's a least 2 of us then. I guess a short answer would be ' neither do I '
but in reality I wonder whether they are happy to have lots of friends ( only friends ! ) any age / looks etc ....so they have a crowd to fall back on.. but seems to me , most are as equally crazy about their expectations as they critiscise men for.... I have not met one ' reasonable woman ' who could pay a bill , yet didnt look for some younger Adonis to hope to bed
Of course, if she is a really elegant lady....I guess that's not too unreasonable but the majority of CS members are ( as are we ) all pretty average and the sooner they get their head out of the clouds ( or a lower down and dark place ) and start having real expectations about real people , and living in the real world....the better ?
Frankly I could be out every month, maybe weekend if I wanted to drive to them , wine and dine, hotel breaks , and of course pick up all the bills ( including a 1 euro coffee ) ......but ask yourself.. if you both earn say 2k a month.....
why the hell, does she expect to keep hers or spend it only on herself, yet I am suppposed to foot all the ' fun stuff'... seems to me at the end of a month, I am penniless and she is laughing......and sorry I just aint doing it again . ( and yes, there have been many exactly like that, or worse )
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I am feeling rather left out, I haven't had one insulting email.
If there is any woman out there, who just happens to meet my criteria, would be good enough to send me an insulting email I would be a very happy bunny on this cold, wet Sunday.