Maybe you're soup needs more exotic ingredients. Try a different supermarket or something.
(No offense but keep in mind there is a small minority of black women online. Most of the black women I know personally don't even have an email address!)
I am constantly getting e-mails from lovely black women in Africa. Today it was from Becky in Ghana. They reach me through other dating services which have a large overseas following, especially MatchDoctor and JumpDates. Becky was on Jumpdates.
I'm trying to learn fast. For American black ladies out there, i hadn't considered the fact that they are underprivelleged. But for the sisters in Africa.. the truth is they are looking for white men, because the one they know are well-to-do in life. They also hope to one day move to the west and improve their financial status.
I can see where you are going with this but remember that it goes both ways most black men prefer white woman as well, And who really cares? Happiness isnt a color its a reallity bro............Ron
Even the poorest black men in America are much better off than the blacks in Africa. But I don't think the African girls know that. They are writing white men because they think its the American whites they could marry to go to America and be what they think of as rich. If they married even the poorest American black and came to America, they would think themselves lucky and rich.
shanti, don't let it get to you either. Love (if that's what you're looking for) is where you find it. As for myself, I just happen to love women. If I find one who is honest and sincere, regardless of color, I'm all hers :)
Human nature is to be discontented. We all can't have our cake and eat it. Love can be beautiful. Can be ugly. A honest white man may be head over heels inlove with an African queen, little knowing she's in love with his money and the prospects it can bring to her.Who said we are all equal? I love a sister who can stand up and be real. Say no to manipulation and live a honest life however hard her struggle and misfortunes.
I dig anyone who can stand up and be real. As far as someone into someone else for their "ends", she isn't right to begin with. If you just prefer a sister, that's your perogative and that's cool. But don't think only a sista is capable of loving you regardless of what you prefer.
Well, now this is just what I was looking for a "forum" with this topic. First off let me start out by saying that I love black woman, but having said that our women are some of the most conflicted women on the planet. On one end they cry about the "so-called" shortage of available black men but on the other hand they are so picky to the point of obsurdity that many of them are down right intolerable. Black women who prefer white men in my opinion choose them because the perceive them first to be more passive than the average hyper-masculine African American male and second because of a sense of economic advancement. Black women are notoriously known for their fiesty attitudes and dominant personalities. Throughout history this has made for poor combustiable relationships between black men and women. I've listened to several dominant professional black women say that they prefer white and asian men over black men because of economic stability and their perceived passive natures. Here is a note though just to be fair, plenty of brothers choose white and asian women for the exact same reason, believing them to be more passive and nourturing than their African American female counterparts. So you see we have the hyper-masculine blackman and the fiercly independant dominant black female both looking for a balance that they at times cannot find with each other.
ive gotten all kinds of offers from women in africa they all have rich dead fathers who were assainated in some political/tribal war with frozen bank accounts and if i just help them the'll give me some of it
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