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Apr 24, 2005 9:09 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
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Deleted ProfileDeleted ProfileUSA6 Threads 22 Posts
Just an observation;Why is it that most black women seem to prefer white/latino men?? We need to put some spice into our soup black bros.
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Apr 27, 2005 1:17 AM CST Few sistas for us brothers
EsquireX
EsquireXEsquireXBellingham, Washington USA3 Threads 137 Posts
Maybe you're soup needs more exotic ingredients. Try a different supermarket or something.

(No offense but keep in mind there is a small minority of black women online. Most of the black women I know personally don't even have an email address!)
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Apr 27, 2005 8:21 AM CST Few sistas for us brothers
LL187
LL187LL187Nanaimo, Canada4 Threads 611 Posts
I am constantly getting e-mails from lovely black women
in Africa. Today it was from Becky in Ghana. They
reach me through other dating services which have a large
overseas following, especially MatchDoctor and JumpDates.
Becky was on Jumpdates.

dpw
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Apr 27, 2005 8:08 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
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I'm trying to learn fast. For American black ladies out there, i hadn't considered the fact that they are underprivelleged.
But for the sisters in Africa.. the truth is they are looking for white men, because the one they know are well-to-do in life. They also hope to one day move to the west and improve their financial status.
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Apr 27, 2005 10:44 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
I can see where you are going with this but remember that it goes both ways most black men prefer white woman as well, And who really cares? Happiness isnt a color its a reallity bro............Ron
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Apr 27, 2005 10:44 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
LL187
LL187LL187Nanaimo, Canada4 Threads 611 Posts
Even the poorest black men in America are much better off
than the blacks in Africa. But I don't think the African
girls know that. They are writing white men because they
think its the American whites they could marry to go to
America and be what they think of as rich. If they
married even the poorest American black and came to
America, they would think themselves lucky and rich.

dpw
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Apr 27, 2005 10:46 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
I apsolutely agree with EsquierX, You hit it right on my man............Ron
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Apr 28, 2005 5:27 AM CST Few sistas for us brothers
EsquireX
EsquireXEsquireXBellingham, Washington USA3 Threads 137 Posts
Thanks Coyote.

shanti, don't let it get to you either. Love (if that's what you're looking for) is where you find it. As for myself, I just happen to love women. If I find one who is honest and sincere, regardless of color, I'm all hers :)
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Apr 28, 2005 10:03 AM CST Few sistas for us brothers
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Deleted ProfileDeleted ProfileUSA6 Threads 22 Posts
Human nature is to be discontented. We all can't have our cake and eat it. Love can be beautiful. Can be ugly. A honest white man may be head over heels inlove with an African queen, little knowing she's in love with his money and the prospects it can bring to her.Who said we are all equal?
I love a sister who can stand up and be real. Say no to manipulation and live a honest life however hard her struggle and misfortunes.
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Apr 28, 2005 5:26 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
EsquireX
EsquireXEsquireXBellingham, Washington USA3 Threads 137 Posts
I dig anyone who can stand up and be real. As far as someone into someone else for their "ends", she isn't right to begin with. If you just prefer a sister, that's your perogative and that's cool. But don't think only a sista is capable of loving you regardless of what you prefer.
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Jun 10, 2005 12:36 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
ahkan89
ahkan89ahkan89Atlanta, USA1 Posts
Well, now this is just what I was looking for a "forum" with this topic. First off let me start out by saying that I love black woman, but having said that our women are some of the most conflicted women on the planet. On one end they cry about the "so-called" shortage of available black men but on the other hand they are so picky to the point of obsurdity that many of them are down right intolerable. Black women who prefer white men in my opinion choose them because the perceive them first to be more passive than the average hyper-masculine African American male and second because of a sense of economic advancement. Black women are notoriously known for their fiesty attitudes and dominant personalities. Throughout history this has made for poor combustiable relationships between black men and women. I've listened to several dominant professional black women say that they prefer white and asian men over black men because of economic stability and their perceived
passive natures. Here is a note though just to be fair, plenty of brothers choose white and asian women for the exact same reason, believing them to be more passive and nourturing than their African American female counterparts. So you see we have the hyper-masculine blackman and the fiercly independant dominant black female both looking for a balance that they at times cannot find with each other.
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Aug 20, 2006 10:54 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
It was not worth reading the first time!!!mumbling
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Aug 20, 2006 10:57 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
ahem...he gets braver and braver...

even a dumba** could read through that one, babe.
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Aug 20, 2006 11:02 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
hey Lori even i did
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Aug 20, 2006 11:05 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
hug
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Aug 20, 2006 11:06 PM CST Few sistas for us brothers
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Agreed!!!
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Aug 21, 2006 6:22 AM CST Few sistas for us brothers
xfahctor
xfahctorxfahctorlancaster, New Hampshire USA44 Threads 1,643 Posts
ive gotten all kinds of offers from women in africa
they all have rich dead fathers who were assainated
in some political/tribal war with frozen bank accounts
and if i just help them the'll give me some of it
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Aug 21, 2006 10:32 AM CST Few sistas for us brothers
tampa1
tampa1tampa1London, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,057 Posts
I have heard that Gil...rolling on the floor laughing
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