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Do you
1) Take it serious and dump him/her?
2) Take it in context? (i.e. maybe he/she is just flirting)
3) Wait and see whether he/she dumps you?
4) Create a stink, question him/her and ask him/her to quit?
5) Examine the "evidence" to see whether it was just flirting or whether he/she has a crush on that other person?
5) Excuse him/her if he/she said it to "just a friend"
5) Don't sweat it and let it go because it's only bla bla on the internet.
Me personally, I take those words serious and I'd be hurt if I discovered it and would probably create a stink, ask him to quit, but ultimately, I'd not believe him again if he said those words to me - ergo, the relationship would be doomed sooner or later.
What would you do?