What's a girl to do ... (185)

Mar 13, 2013 3:58 PM CST What's a girl to do ...
tusiemc
tusiemctusiemcKildare, Ireland102 Threads 1 Polls 2,123 Posts
sofarsogood74: I am not just saying you are like this. I am saying we all are. And I am sorry but the line I have highlighted is BS and it is BS I hear from a lot of women friends of mine and I always call them on it.

If a guy who looks like Shane Mc Gowen is e mailing you with a pic of a good looking lad. He tells the truth about his job, morals, work ethic, family, everything bar what he looks like.....when you meet you'll run a mile and tell yourself it's because he lied about how he looks.

But if you were talking to an average looking guy in the smae situation and he turned out to look like Bradd Pitt you wouldn't run a mile. You would lap up his excuse about why he uses a fake pic.

We are visual creatures. We see people and rate them all the time. There are ones we would date, ones we may date, and ones we wouldn't date if we were paid without ever talking to them. And they do the same to us.

Where people run into problems is when the people they would date wouldn't date them. And if this is happening all the time there is obviously a reason. And that reason is they are not the same rating.



you forgot to highlight the 1st line...where I say 'of course there has to be an attraction' what I said may be BS to you but its how I feel!! Whether you agree with it is neither here nor there...I think we should agree to differ on this one..dunno

most of the guys on this thread that have asked me out, I've chatted to for ages on pm and the forums, we have not gone out for one reason (some obvious on thread)or another and they were just taking the piss out of me asking on the thread...

see its always good to know the full story before passing judgement


p.s 'they' say men are a lot more visual than women, remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder

dunno handshake
Mar 13, 2013 4:01 PM CST What's a girl to do ...
tusiemc
tusiemctusiemcKildare, Ireland102 Threads 1 Polls 2,123 Posts
WadeWilson: how can we compete with guys like this
its like arguing with wordsworth or shakespear


I actually can't find the words to replyuh oh laugh
Mar 13, 2013 5:25 PM CST What's a girl to do ...
Green_Sleeves
Green_SleevesGreen_SleevesCarlow, Ireland174 Threads 37 Polls 4,812 Posts
tusiemc: I actually can't find the words to reply


I'm a real nice gug too dunno moping




Ah, done mind the begrudgers tusie, they're only bitter and lonely, lol, look at 'em, on a dating sire! giggle Sad really.


Oh, wait.......


doh


laugh
Mar 14, 2013 5:13 AM CST What's a girl to do ...
fifitrixibelle
fifitrixibellefifitrixibellegalway, Galway Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 4,629 Posts
sofarsogood74: Yes there are. Me included. Where is she? Scarlett Johansson will do if Angelina is not available.
Damn, thats me out of the equation so, even tho I have great morals & work ethic & of course the ability to make u laugh (at me) roll eyes (crosses sofar off "to do" list)
Mar 16, 2013 10:44 AM CST What's a girl to do ...
sofarsogood74
sofarsogood74sofarsogood74Dublin, Ireland40 Threads 4 Polls 2,711 Posts
tusiemc: you forgot to highlight the 1st line...where I say 'of course there has to be an attraction' what I said may be BS to you but its how I feel!! Whether you agree with it is neither here nor there...I think we should agree to differ on this one..

most of the guys on this thread that have asked me out, I've chatted to for ages on pm and the forums, we have not gone out for one reason (some obvious on thread)or another and they were just taking the piss out of me asking on the thread...

see its always good to know the full story before passing judgementp.s 'they' say men are a lot more visual than women, remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder


And you should really read my replies. I wasn't judging you. I said WE ALL are like that. There are people we would date...then there are people we would not date...we know this without ever talking to them at all.

You started the thread saying whats a girl to do to get a date but you have said you are asked out on a lot of dates? So apparently all you have to do is say "Yes".laugh

What you should have siad is whats a girl to do to get a date with a guy she fancies and really wants to date.

But you can argue all day. You judge people on how they look, I judge people on how they look...we all do it. It is human nature. It's not just a male thing. A ugly guy could make you laugh all day and could be great company but he will always be just "friend material" I bet but a good looking guy may not be as funny or as good company but you would date him. I know it and you know it.roll eyes
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