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If a guy who looks like Shane Mc Gowen is e mailing you with a pic of a good looking lad. He tells the truth about his job, morals, work ethic, family, everything bar what he looks like.....when you meet you'll run a mile and tell yourself it's because he lied about how he looks.
But if you were talking to an average looking guy in the smae situation and he turned out to look like Bradd Pitt you wouldn't run a mile. You would lap up his excuse about why he uses a fake pic.
We are visual creatures. We see people and rate them all the time. There are ones we would date, ones we may date, and ones we wouldn't date if we were paid without ever talking to them. And they do the same to us.
Where people run into problems is when the people they would date wouldn't date them. And if this is happening all the time there is obviously a reason. And that reason is they are not the same rating.
you forgot to highlight the 1st line...where I say 'of course there has to be an attraction' what I said may be BS to you but its how I feel!! Whether you agree with it is neither here nor there...I think we should agree to differ on this one..
most of the guys on this thread that have asked me out, I've chatted to for ages on pm and the forums, we have not gone out for one reason (some obvious on thread)or another and they were just taking the piss out of me asking on the thread...
see its always good to know the full story before passing judgement
p.s 'they' say men are a lot more visual than women, remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder