Really nice to meet you but I dont want to meet you again!!! (80)
Serenity4two: well i did use a polite word " undercarraige "
yeah you did
I was thinking "lunch box" 
that is as polite as I can be 
salanky: see that kinda thing just annoys me, why not just have the guts to tell the other person its not gonna work than just ignoring them, as far as id be concerned its just rude and spineless and if thats how they are gonna be then im better off without them
Someone alluded to it earlier, maybe it was SDB, that its a tough thing to say after a first 'meet', there has been 3 ladies that I woulda' loved to meet again. All our initial meet ups went grand, no hickups or anyone running off, but, for whatever reason they just didnt want to meet up again, none of them ever said 'thanks for meeting up, had a nice time, blah blah, but lets not do it again', they chose the spineless method
Serenity4two: That's great Chancer !
if there's no chemistry , then sure that's even better
just enjoy each other's company for the night as friends
sadly it doesn't always happen like that for most people
if there's no chemistry , then sure that's even better
just enjoy each other's company for the night as friends
sadly it doesn't always happen like that for most people
sure but if it doesn't happen then that's not your problem... you have to be able to see the light side of things
salanky: see that kinda thing just annoys me, why not just have the guts to tell the other person its not gonna work than just ignoring them, as far as id be concerned its just rude and spineless and if thats how they are gonna be then im better off without them
well said Sal
MADDOG69: Yeah. I put on the Man from DelMonte Hat, and give a Nod... white suit and all.
hope you were eating a Mr Kipling bun at the time....him and Del Monte had to be the 2 biggest perverts on tv when I was young!
my family still laugh at Mr Kipling....(do the voice) "ahhh Sunday wrote Mr Kipling, I was having a perfectly good Bakewell Tart while viewing the children in the playground"
Green_Sleeves: Someone alluded to it earlier, maybe it was SDB, that its a tough thing to say after a first 'meet', there has been 3 ladies that I woulda' loved to meet again. All our initial meet ups went grand, no hickups or anyone running off, but, for whatever reason they just didnt want to meet up again, none of them ever said 'thanks for meeting up, had a nice time, blah blah, but lets not do it again', they chose the spineless method
i get that its hard but at the end of the day its a horrible feeling to just ignore someone after they have given you a chance to get to know them and have gone to the effort of meeting you, maybe its just me but it leaves me feeling like iv done something wrong or that theres something wrong with me and thats why it keeps happening to me but sure thats life at the end of the dayGreen_Sleeves: Someone alluded to it earlier, maybe it was SDB, that its a tough thing to say after a first 'meet', there has been 3 ladies that I woulda' loved to meet again. All our initial meet ups went grand, no hickups or anyone running off, but, for whatever reason they just didnt want to meet up again, none of them ever said 'thanks for meeting up, had a nice time, blah blah, but lets not do it again', they chose the spineless method
yes it was me (the other cs coward
) I would just die if I said it first and then was told "well honestly love you're a bit of a mutt yourself" 
The "wait and see" thing is okay with me...sure you eventually get to know the truth
However if I was asked for the direct answer I would give it
salanky: i get that its hard but at the end of the day its a horrible feeling to just ignore someone after they have given you a chance to get to know them and have gone to the effort of meeting you, maybe its just me but it leaves me feeling like iv done something wrong or that theres something wrong with me and thats why it keeps happening to me but sure thats life at the end of the day
I totally hear you, I'd be the same, when I can guage there is no interest there, no prospect of a further meet/date and communication dies then you start analysing yourself, 'did I say/do something wrong?!', 'Maybe I look different in real life to my pics and they were dissapointed?!' etc etc.
But, aint no body got timeeeee for that!
Green_Sleeves:
And love surfing.
And love surfing.
And fires, and nights out and nights in, and uP 4 a lAff,
Green_Sleeves: I totally hear you, I'd be the same, when I can guage there is no interest there, no prospect of a further meet/date and communication dies then you start analysing yourself, 'did I say/do something wrong?!', 'Maybe I look different in real life to my pics and they were dissapointed?!' etc etc.
But, aint no body got timeeeee for that!
ah yeah it last for a little while and then its on to the next But, aint no body got timeeeee for that!
ohwiseone: could have a point re the accent, but I prefer to think he was just besotted with me
Oh I have no doubt you're well able to communicate
Oh I have no doubt you're well able to communicate
That reminds me. Time for a new pic to add to my collection? Any new pics from the States?
salanky: ah yeah it last for a little while and then its on to the next victim date
I'm convinced its because I always seem to come across as awkward and cant find a comfortable sitting posistion, especially when the friggin chair has no arm rests, but, I'm sitting like it has, and the table is too low to cross your legs, but still, I have mine crossed......
the im not interested is not fine , shur were not kids so be straight but nice about it, its the blowin hot and cold keepin a foot in the door thats the head wrecker
the_whistler: the im not interested is not fine , shur were not kids so be straight but nice about it, its the blowin hot and cold keepin a foot in the door thats the head wrecker
meant the not interested is fineGreen_Sleeves: I I have mine crossed......
Here's a protip. Don't cross your legs on dates.
Green_Sleeves: I'm convinced its because I always seem to come across as awkward and cant find a comfortable sitting posistion, especially when the friggin chair has no arm rests, but, I'm sitting like it has, and the table is too low to cross your legs, but still, I have mine crossed......
you're imagining it --i'm sure you do not come across as awkward
just a little nervous is all --and we're all guilty of that , especially on a first meet / date !
anyway folks , clocks forward shortly which means its already after midnight --i gotta go work a shift in the hospital in the morning --easter sunday or not --patients have to be care for
goodnight all - enjoy your easter sunday folks --and don't stuff yourselves with too many chocolate eggs
goodnight all 
Green_Sleeves: I'm convinced its because I always seem to come across as awkward and cant find a comfortable sitting posistion, especially when the friggin chair has no arm rests, but, I'm sitting like it has, and the table is too low to cross your legs, but still, I have mine crossed......
and shes wearing both your coffees on her lapMADDOG69: Here's a protip. Don't cross your legs on dates.
But I cross them away from the lady!
Its just a figiting thing, as already mentioned, not being able to find a comfortable posistion; legs crossed, legs uncrossed, elbows on table, elbows off table, standing up, sitting down, lying across table, sitting on floor
Serenity4two: you're imagining it --i'm sure you do not come across as awkward
just a little nervous is all --and we're all guilty of that , especially on a first meet / date !
anyway folks , clocks forward shortly which means its already after midnight --i gotta go work a shift in the hospital in the morning --easter sunday or not --patients have to be care for
goodnight all - enjoy your easter sunday folks --and don't stuff yourselves with too many chocolate eggs goodnight all
happy easter f just a little nervous is all --and we're all guilty of that , especially on a first meet / date !
anyway folks , clocks forward shortly which means its already after midnight --i gotta go work a shift in the hospital in the morning --easter sunday or not --patients have to be care for
goodnight all - enjoy your easter sunday folks --and don't stuff yourselves with too many chocolate eggs goodnight all
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But hey, look, I've done it too, if I wasnt particularly interested in someone or felt I wouldnt like to meet again, ashamedly I've sorta' cooled off and been distant rather than just say 'sorry, but I dont want to meet again'. Its easy to type, but I wouldnt know how to get it out properly
The last lady I met up with I thought all went well, we had a nice 'meet' and she was like 'I'll chat to you soon ' an' all, but, after that she wasnt interested, took her a week to reply to a message and was vauge at best; no interest!
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