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Mar 31, 2013 9:23 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
Its hard enough trying to fit in...then you jump in on a moving topic; but instead of being welcomed into the conversation, you get blanked (excluded from the discussions) ouch! Is this normal practice? (just wondering) or is jumwping in considered rude?
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Mar 31, 2013 9:29 PM CST as though you were never even there....
funxsinia
funxsiniafunxsiniaButtholeville, Iowa USA9 Threads 2 Polls 328 Posts
SoBlue: Its hard enough trying to fit in...then you jump in on a moving topic; but instead of being welcomed into the conversation, you get blanked (excluded from the discussions) ouch! Is this normal practice? (just wondering) or is jumwping in considered rude?


i'm no expert but it may depend on how you jump in as to whether it's considered rude or not.

regardless don't be discouraged... it happens handshake
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Mar 31, 2013 9:39 PM CST as though you were never even there....
Sometimes (especially if there's a meltdown going on between message boarders) they are too wrapped up in trying to get their point across that they do skip what other people have posted.

Just keep posting, other people in the forums will read and respond..

thumbs up
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Mar 31, 2013 9:57 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
funxsinia: i'm no expert but it may depend on how you jump in as to whether it's considered rude or not.

regardless don't be discouraged... it happens


Thanks funxsinia, I usually check-out what its about and stick to their plan.. confused
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Mar 31, 2013 10:13 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
DjWabbet: Sometimes (especially if there's a meltdown going on between message boarders) they are too wrapped up in trying to get their point across that they do skip what other people have posted.

Just keep posting, other people in the forums will read and respond..


I always read first ..get a feel of the situation before I do anything.. ..thanks DjWabbet, and I ain't throwin' in the towel yet..lol
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Mar 31, 2013 10:14 PM CST as though you were never even there....
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
SoBlue: Its hard enough trying to fit in...then you jump in on a moving topic; but instead of being welcomed into the conversation, you get blanked (excluded from the discussions) ouch! Is this normal practice? (just wondering) or is jumwping in considered rude?


It happens quite often but I doubt it's done purposely. Sometimes people get caught up in conversation and miss people. I've been on CS for a few years and I still get ignored from time to time. Continue pariticipating in the forums and you'll find new friends in no time. cswelcome
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Mar 31, 2013 10:21 PM CST as though you were never even there....
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
SoBlue: Its hard enough trying to fit in...then you jump in on a moving topic; but instead of being welcomed into the conversation, you get blanked (excluded from the discussions) ouch! Is this normal practice? (just wondering) or is jumwping in considered rude?


Yes, its normal prctice to get ignored here at CS forums. They all have their own clicks. conversing
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Apr 1, 2013 7:31 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
2intrigued: It happens quite often but I doubt it's done purposely. Sometimes people get caught up in conversation and miss people. I've been on CS for a few years and I still get ignored from time to time. Continue pariticipating in the forums and you'll find new friends in no time.


Yes, I quite like it here 2intrigued ..I usually go to the forums/blogs ..I tend to get overwhelmed with all the activity, then I forget to reply.
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Apr 1, 2013 7:35 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
menu11: Yes, its normal prctice to get ignored here at CS forums. They all have their own clicks.


I'm starting to see that ..thanks menu11
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Apr 1, 2013 8:02 PM CST as though you were never even there....
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
2intrigued: It happens quite often but I doubt it's done purposely. Sometimes people get caught up in conversation and miss people. I've been on CS for a few years and I still get ignored from time to time. Continue pariticipating in the forums and you'll find new friends in no time.



What she said thumbs up I've been on here over six years and my posts still get missed. If I think it's important I'll copy it and post it again and that usually works but I only do that if the subject is interesting. I would have to say people are rarely intentionally ignored except if someone is a troll. One thing that's important is if you're a newbie it would be helpful if you introduced yourself in the Newbie thread with an introduction so people could get a feel about how you're going to write. I like it when a newbie starts with something funny cause it puts people at ease. Once you introduce yourself, then jump in whenever you want. Have fun cswelcome
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Apr 1, 2013 8:05 PM CST as though you were never even there....
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
SoBlue: I'm starting to see that ..thanks menu11


Take care my friend.handshake cheers
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Apr 2, 2013 8:58 PM CST as though you were never even there....
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
I know about that! but I don't worry.

cool
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Apr 2, 2013 9:14 PM CST as though you were never even there....
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
SoBlue: Its hard enough trying to fit in...then you jump in on a moving topic; but instead of being welcomed into the conversation, you get blanked (excluded from the discussions) ouch! Is this normal practice? (just wondering) or is jumwping in considered rude?
let me just jump in there to say
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Apr 3, 2013 12:03 PM CST as though you were never even there....
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Im sorry you feel like that. I always make a point of checking the new members thread to welcome new peeps. Just jump in a rant along with the rest of us and believe me you will be welcomed.

teddybear cswelcome
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Apr 3, 2013 12:06 PM CST as though you were never even there....
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I'm not here to win a popularity contest I just reply to thread topics I choose to post in and move on.
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Apr 3, 2013 12:07 PM CST as though you were never even there....
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
pretty normal... its called life !!
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Apr 3, 2013 5:57 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
Ccincy: I'm not here to win a popularity contest I just reply to thread topics I choose to post in and move on.


Not to be rude, but nor am I..
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Apr 3, 2013 5:59 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
venusenvy: Im sorry you feel like that. I always make a point of checking the new members thread to welcome new peeps. Just jump in a rant along with the rest of us and believe me you will be welcomed.


Thank you Venusenvy bouquet
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Apr 3, 2013 6:01 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
Bogart_1960: pretty normal... its called life !!


Yes it is ..and maybe that's the problem.!!
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Apr 3, 2013 6:04 PM CST as though you were never even there....
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
sophiasummer: I know about that! but I don't worry.


Thanks Sophiasummer, and I'm starting not too..
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