Divorced (Marital Status) ( Archived) (30)

Apr 14, 2013 3:11 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
Happygolucky4u:
all these stores who want your email addresses now a days when all you want to do is pay your bill I just start rambling off numbers and letters and stop somewhere between 40 and a 100. One day a cashier asked me how I remembered my email address I told her not to worry each thing represented something special to me.


rolling on the floor laughing smart - when the stores ask me for my email or telephone number I always ask them to use their own, instead.

Guess that means in the case of when one answers "divorced" we need to know "whose asking?"
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Apr 14, 2013 3:53 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
JeanKimberley: smart - when the stores ask me for my email or telephone number I always ask them to use their own, instead.

Guess that means in the case of when one answers "divorced" we need to know "whose asking?"
professor And if they are going to ask us out. I also say to those who ask my phone number "Why are you going to call me?" the grandchildren love it when I do that. laugh
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Apr 14, 2013 3:59 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
AustralianGirlAU
AustralianGirlAUAustralianGirlAUIzmir, Aegean Turkey196 Posts
Obstinance Works as inflamatory as the remarks are does raise a point for debate.

In my majority thee bulk of people view divorce as 'a failed marriage' hence when one mentions it they ask who was at fault etc and the whole littany of sad sack stories
I've yet to hear someone say 'I had a successful marriage for x years' and view this as a success with a natural end point.

On religion well they are immoral in the sense that they debase human rights and ethics. So unless one frees themselves of isms and dogmas then there will always be religious beliefs to muddy the waters of human rights.
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Apr 14, 2013 4:24 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
purplemist2012
purplemist2012purplemist2012Dublin, Ireland2 Posts
it depends on what type of forms being filled in. for banks, credit cards, government in my country divorce needs to be filled in. the logic of this is you where attached to the other person at some stage of your life though tax, insurance or banks.That never changes even if a person remarries or the other person dies.
I must say I was shocked at the comments and views that where expressed on this thread about divorced people.
I hope for those people that divorce never knocks at their doors or anyone close to them. Only when you have walked that path will you understand divorce.
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Apr 14, 2013 4:30 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
purplemist2012: it depends on what type of forms being filled in. for banks, credit cards, government in my country divorce needs to be filled in. the logic of this is you where attached to the other person at some stage of your life though tax, insurance or banks.That never changes even if a person remarries or the other person dies.
I must say I was shocked at the comments and views that where expressed on this thread about divorced people.
I hope for those people that divorce never knocks at their doors or anyone close to them. Only when you have walked that path will you understand divorce.


we'll try and protect you from shock - however, the internet gives people ideas that they act in anonymity - where they can say any ole thing that comes in their head and out their keyboard - doesn't mean they really believe it or feel it. sir bobby we'll watch out for you a try to give you a "shock alert" warning. cheers
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Apr 14, 2013 4:47 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
purplemist2012: it depends on what type of forms being filled in. for banks, credit cards, government in my country divorce needs to be filled in. the logic of this is you where attached to the other person at some stage of your life though tax, insurance or banks.That never changes even if a person remarries or the other person dies.
I must say I was shocked at the comments and views that where expressed on this thread about divorced people.
I hope for those people that divorce never knocks at their doors or anyone close to them. Only when you have walked that path will you understand divorce.


Can I ask which remarks shocked you? Views may vary but I have to say nothing on the thread has shocked me

That does change things, as I stated earlier my ex died therefore in the eyes of the state here I am widowed not divorced.
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Apr 15, 2013 1:20 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
purplemist2012
purplemist2012purplemist2012Dublin, Ireland2 Posts
Thanks Jean, yes its a public stage here, everyone to their own views,
will look out for your warnings
handshake
cheers
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Apr 15, 2013 2:12 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
Ya know............that is how we should actually think of itthumbs up Not the general view thoughthumbs down
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Apr 15, 2013 2:14 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
Obstinance_Works: Divorced is primarily a mark of shame and this is how it differs from being single.



Oh sorry................I was quoting this young man.
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Apr 15, 2013 4:30 PM CST Divorced (Marital Status)
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I think after a couple of years its fair to say single again. Of course its also personal preference. wine
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