Happygolucky4u: all these stores who want your email addresses now a days when all you want to do is pay your bill I just start rambling off numbers and letters and stop somewhere between 40 and a 100. One day a cashier asked me how I remembered my email address I told her not to worry each thing represented something special to me.
smart - when the stores ask me for my email or telephone number I always ask them to use their own, instead.
Guess that means in the case of when one answers "divorced" we need to know "whose asking?"
JeanKimberley: smart - when the stores ask me for my email or telephone number I always ask them to use their own, instead.
Guess that means in the case of when one answers "divorced" we need to know "whose asking?"
And if they are going to ask us out. I also say to those who ask my phone number "Why are you going to call me?" the grandchildren love it when I do that.
Obstinance Works as inflamatory as the remarks are does raise a point for debate.
In my majority thee bulk of people view divorce as 'a failed marriage' hence when one mentions it they ask who was at fault etc and the whole littany of sad sack stories I've yet to hear someone say 'I had a successful marriage for x years' and view this as a success with a natural end point.
On religion well they are immoral in the sense that they debase human rights and ethics. So unless one frees themselves of isms and dogmas then there will always be religious beliefs to muddy the waters of human rights.
it depends on what type of forms being filled in. for banks, credit cards, government in my country divorce needs to be filled in. the logic of this is you where attached to the other person at some stage of your life though tax, insurance or banks.That never changes even if a person remarries or the other person dies. I must say I was shocked at the comments and views that where expressed on this thread about divorced people. I hope for those people that divorce never knocks at their doors or anyone close to them. Only when you have walked that path will you understand divorce.
purplemist2012: it depends on what type of forms being filled in. for banks, credit cards, government in my country divorce needs to be filled in. the logic of this is you where attached to the other person at some stage of your life though tax, insurance or banks.That never changes even if a person remarries or the other person dies. I must say I was shocked at the comments and views that where expressed on this thread about divorced people. I hope for those people that divorce never knocks at their doors or anyone close to them. Only when you have walked that path will you understand divorce.
we'll try and protect you from shock - however, the internet gives people ideas that they act in anonymity - where they can say any ole thing that comes in their head and out their keyboard - doesn't mean they really believe it or feel it. we'll watch out for you a try to give you a "shock alert" warning.
purplemist2012: it depends on what type of forms being filled in. for banks, credit cards, government in my country divorce needs to be filled in. the logic of this is you where attached to the other person at some stage of your life though tax, insurance or banks.That never changes even if a person remarries or the other person dies. I must say I was shocked at the comments and views that where expressed on this thread about divorced people. I hope for those people that divorce never knocks at their doors or anyone close to them. Only when you have walked that path will you understand divorce.
Can I ask which remarks shocked you? Views may vary but I have to say nothing on the thread has shocked me
That does change things, as I stated earlier my ex died therefore in the eyes of the state here I am widowed not divorced.
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all these stores who want your email addresses now a days when all you want to do is pay your bill I just start rambling off numbers and letters and stop somewhere between 40 and a 100. One day a cashier asked me how I remembered my email address I told her not to worry each thing represented something special to me.
smart - when the stores ask me for my email or telephone number I always ask them to use their own, instead.
Guess that means in the case of when one answers "divorced" we need to know "whose asking?"