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Jun 11, 2013 10:58 PM CST I thought I found it but...
Emirsee
EmirseeEmirseeSioux City, Iowa USA3 Threads 10 Posts
Everything was pretty intense at first, and thought he was the man I was looking for until I knew him well and found out why he was alone. I think nobody wants to be with him bc he is sooo pathetic. He shows a nice side at first , very charming that make you feel really conected but after a while he becomes a different man, someone u dont want around. Hard to explain. The best way to describe this man, pathetic!! he has something that makes you reject him and I know that is the same with friends, relationships and everybody!! poor guy, im telling you ,,, aloneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...
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Jun 12, 2013 12:03 AM CST I thought I found it but...
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
A lot of found it threads today confused
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Jun 12, 2013 1:58 AM CST I thought I found it but...
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
So your point is? Personally to me its about taking the time to get to know people .... I think your discovery happens a lot with relationships as we discover the other person and what makes them tick.

Sometimes we make the decision to move on such as yourself ... live and learn and pay attention.
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Jun 12, 2013 2:41 AM CST I thought I found it but...
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Sounds like my dandruff shampoo
awesome advertising but doesn`t really work conversing
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Jun 12, 2013 5:09 AM CST I thought I found it but...
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
Boban1: Sounds like my dandruff shampoo
awesome advertising but doesn`t really work


Boban, think you have summed this up in a nut-shell er......shampoo bottle

rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 12, 2013 5:17 AM CST I thought I found it but...
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Emirsee: Everything was pretty intense at first, and thought he was the man I was looking for until I knew him well and found out why he was alone. I think nobody wants to be with him bc he is sooo pathetic. He shows a nice side at first , very charming that make you feel really conected but after a while he becomes a different man, someone u dont want around. Hard to explain. The best way to describe this man, pathetic!! he has something that makes you reject him and I know that is the same with friends, relationships and everybody!! poor guy, im telling you ,,, aloneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...

So you can't work out what it is that makes you and others reject him, but you feel justified in putting all the responsibility upon him for knowing what to do about it?

The only feedback you appear to be able to give is childish derision and rejection. I'm sure that will be very useful to him in getting beyond his rejection issues.

I'm warming to you already and so want your influence in my life.
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Jun 12, 2013 5:19 AM CST I thought I found it but...
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
jac379: So you can't work out what it is that makes you and others reject him, but you feel justified in putting all the responsibility upon him for knowing what to do about it?

The only feedback you appear to be able to give is childish derision and rejection. I'm sure that will be very useful to him in getting beyond his rejection issues.

I'm warming to you already and so want your influence in my life.

Of course another possibility is that he was all enthusiastic until he got to know you better, whereupon apathy set in.
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