Everything was pretty intense at first, and thought he was the man I was looking for until I knew him well and found out why he was alone. I think nobody wants to be with him bc he is sooo pathetic. He shows a nice side at first , very charming that make you feel really conected but after a while he becomes a different man, someone u dont want around. Hard to explain. The best way to describe this man, pathetic!! he has something that makes you reject him and I know that is the same with friends, relationships and everybody!! poor guy, im telling you ,,, aloneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...
So your point is? Personally to me its about taking the time to get to know people .... I think your discovery happens a lot with relationships as we discover the other person and what makes them tick.
Sometimes we make the decision to move on such as yourself ... live and learn and pay attention.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Emirsee: Everything was pretty intense at first, and thought he was the man I was looking for until I knew him well and found out why he was alone. I think nobody wants to be with him bc he is sooo pathetic. He shows a nice side at first , very charming that make you feel really conected but after a while he becomes a different man, someone u dont want around. Hard to explain. The best way to describe this man, pathetic!! he has something that makes you reject him and I know that is the same with friends, relationships and everybody!! poor guy, im telling you ,,, aloneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...
So you can't work out what it is that makes you and others reject him, but you feel justified in putting all the responsibility upon him for knowing what to do about it?
The only feedback you appear to be able to give is childish derision and rejection. I'm sure that will be very useful to him in getting beyond his rejection issues.
I'm warming to you already and so want your influence in my life.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
jac379: So you can't work out what it is that makes you and others reject him, but you feel justified in putting all the responsibility upon him for knowing what to do about it?
The only feedback you appear to be able to give is childish derision and rejection. I'm sure that will be very useful to him in getting beyond his rejection issues.
I'm warming to you already and so want your influence in my life.
Of course another possibility is that he was all enthusiastic until he got to know you better, whereupon apathy set in.
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