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Nov 28, 2006 8:30 PM CST How?????
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
How do you leave a place to go back to another when your heart is in the place you're leaving?

The reason I ask this is because I'm flying back to New York on Friday, and I don't want to leave Arizona. I've felt better physically, emotionally and spiritually since I've been here. I know that I'm only going back to New York until January and then I'll be back here in Arizona permanently, but I'm really not liking the idea of going back there even if it is only to pack up my place there.

Has anyone else been in this position?????

blues moping help blues
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Nov 28, 2006 8:32 PM CST How?????
photofreek
photofreekphotofreeksoda springs, USA23 Threads 2,495 Posts
I haven't but sweet lady all I can say is remember you have loads of friends on here and if you need some support it is just a click away.hug hug kiss kiss hug
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Nov 28, 2006 8:33 PM CST How?????
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
oh Cris

i have to say that no i have not been there but i do know my heart belongs in north TX with my Huney so keep the faith and just know that your gonna be back
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Nov 28, 2006 8:38 PM CST How?????
EnigmaticExistnc
EnigmaticExistncEnigmaticExistncSouthCoast, British Columbia Canada8 Threads 802 Posts
Yes, I have sigh many times

You can and will survive, time and fate are testing your determination ....... one minute, one hour, one day at a time.

Always be willing to reach out to those around you who make you stronger - let them help you. They're waiting eagerly.

peace
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Nov 28, 2006 8:49 PM CST How?????
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
Yeah, the past couple of times PeachesandCream and I were together. It gets harder each time we part and I know it's going to be worse when I have to return home after being with her during the x-mas, New Years holidays.

I know we'll be together again but it's the day when we won't have to part that I look forward to.
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Nov 28, 2006 9:09 PM CST How?????
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Now that you mention it, I remember staying with family in Arizona when we went out to visit my brother. ( he was stationed in the Army at that time in Ft. Wachucka? )

Call me crazy, but......my sinuses where healed, my bones did not ache......maybe it was the climate, however, what ever the reason.....you can always come visit me....


comfort
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Nov 28, 2006 11:20 PM CST How?????
saguaro
saguarosaguaroGlendale, Arizona USA39 Threads 1,534 Posts
What you do is every day that you are gone just think about the fact that you will be going back to a place that you really enjoy.
Always keep your mind on all of your new friends here that are waiting for your safe return.

Just think about how lucky you are to have made so many new friends here that care about you very much. You have a very exciting new study to participate in here that can do wonders for your illness and possibly even cure it! Everyone here in AZ and on this site are pulling for you so just think about coming back here so you can one day report to them that it has.

When you get back to New York you can look at all of that snow and feel the cold weather and smile and laugh and say to yourself "I get to go back to 70 degrees in the dead of winter" and then blow New York a Bronx cheer like this tongue

That's what you do. Then you'll be back here in no time! yay

Just have a safe trip and try to relax.

Robwave
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Nov 29, 2006 1:56 AM CST How?????
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
Thank you all hug

Cat, I wish I was going to go through Florida when I drive back here, but the furthest south I'm going is South Carolina or possibly Georgia. I'd love to meet up with you and Kris for coffee.

Laurie, depending on what part of Texas you're going to be in, we may be able to catch up with each other. I have to stop in Texas anyway in order to get some of my things that are in storage down there.

Earl I understand where you're coming from, it's not easy. Somehow we make it through though that particular heartache.

I spent time with friends tonight, and that helped a lot. I just have to remember that the powers that be have reasons that I may not understand at this moment. Who knows, maybe this is a true test for me, to see how I handle the stress. I guess we'll see.

My biggest fear about going back, is that I'm afraid if we have bitter cold temperatures, that I may have a relapse/exacerbation with the MS like I did last winter when it was extremely cold. Maybe I'll get lucky and the temperatures won't drop like normal and it'll be unseasonably warm. roll eyes

Rob, if I don't see you before I leave, I'll see you when I get back.

Thank you again everyone

Love yas hug kiss hug
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Nov 29, 2006 5:14 AM CST How?????
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
At the moment, the temps are unseasonably warmer than usual here in New England so it shouldn't be too bad
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Nov 29, 2006 5:34 AM CST How?????
aria_rose
aria_rosearia_rosePeninsule, New Brunswick Canada32 Threads 1,250 Posts
wow! think of the adventure!

Seems like you have to go through a few states!

angel

and I know how you feel...I came here on vacation before I moved and I thought it was the longest 2 weeks ever in my life!


angel
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Nov 29, 2006 5:35 AM CST How?????
aria_rose
aria_rosearia_rosePeninsule, New Brunswick Canada32 Threads 1,250 Posts
I mean between getting back from vacation and moving...


angel
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Nov 29, 2006 5:39 AM CST How?????
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
like all chores and tasks in life theres whats called the "bad part",

keyword being being PART and many parts make up the whole.

jump into this task with fury and determination... it'll pass much quicker.thumbs up
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Nov 29, 2006 5:44 AM CST How?????
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
dunno if you are happy there stay,if you are better off there stay
sometimes we make things hard when they are not help
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Nov 29, 2006 6:32 AM CST How?????
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
North Carolina is on the way....come stay with me!!!! Please!!!!
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Nov 29, 2006 10:22 AM CST How?????
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
If I could actually do that I would. I can't just abandon everything in NY, that would be running away. Besides, I have to see my Dad on Saturday and break the news to him that I'm moving out here. He's not going to be happy about it, but I need to do what's best for me. I'm quite sure he'll get over it though.

I do admit that I can complicate the h@!! out of a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, but this has to be done this way or I lose all that I have gained in 4 years.

hug kiss hug
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Nov 29, 2006 7:59 PM CST How?????
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
Ok, I need to rant a bit...

Feelings really S&CK!!!!!!!!!!!

I guess it's something I should be grateful for since I never knew what true feelings were until 4 years ago but GEEEZZZZZ Why do things have to hurt?

Sorry guys I'm just feeling a little miserable at the moment.

blues moping blues
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Nov 29, 2006 8:03 PM CST How?????
photofreek
photofreekphotofreeksoda springs, USA23 Threads 2,495 Posts
come here sweetiehug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
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Nov 29, 2006 10:20 PM CST How?????
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
Thank you Dave, I needed those. hug hug hug
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Nov 29, 2006 10:21 PM CST How?????
photofreek
photofreekphotofreeksoda springs, USA23 Threads 2,495 Posts
Well here are some from the U.K.uk kiss hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
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Nov 29, 2006 10:24 PM CST How?????
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
Cool...Those work too. hug hug grin hug
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